posted on Sep, 6 2023 @ 08:41 PM
This is a very sensitive subject about a phenomenon that is starting to manifest in our culture.
There is no easy answer to this and there seems to be a fad of association where people are obessed with the transgender concept, especially children
who may just be experiencing dysphoria as part of growing up and trying to understand themselves and the changes in the bodies they are in.
I don't know what's causing the wave of children to have these feelings, thoughts and obessions.
Some of it may be genuine, others may be from suggestion and them thinking about the issue and becoming confused about their orientation while trying
to process what it means to be a "boy" or a "girl".
I've said it before and I'll say it again, the solution isn't always an immediate dump of chemicals and surgeries.
A lot of young people just need time to process their internal understandings of themselves and come to terms with the reality of their natural born
bodies and learn to live in harmony with the cards they have been dealt.
I'm very angry at whomever is pushing this gender ideology to the masses, as it seems like some sort of sociological experiment to introduce such
concepts to an increasingly suggestable generation of children.
Studies have shown that the majority of these new "transgender children" are also suffering from various conditions such as autism (who tend to
internalize and overanalyze everything and can get obessed with certain concepts or ideas), children with other mental health issues that make them
more likely to think that changing their gender will be the magical solution to all their problems because they think the opposite sex has it easier
for some reason, and then there's the very real case of those who do actually benefit from hormone treatment.)
The problem is, is that for whatever reason, there is a phenomena of children who are experiencing this dysphoria.
It angers me as a psychologist, because I am very aware of how certain children will become obessed with new information and concepts introduced to
them, especially children with underlying mental health issues.
I am well verse in the power of suggestibility and the marketing of ideas in order to stimulate certain parts of the populace to buy a certain brand,
or engage in other consumer behavior, and there are so many case examples of children like this on the internet with other fads and consumer goods and
mytholgies. They're obessive about such things and will adopt a new idea or fictional storyline and make it a huge part of their lives.
Case in point, how much money did JK Rowling make when Harry Potter hit the shelves and fans went ballistic over the books and started buying the
merchendise en masse to make everything in their room align with their favorite House in Hogwarts, all the trinkets and toys and so forth.
But fads come and go, and it's rare to see anyone sporting a Hogwarts shirt anymore because of the recent contraversy over Ms Rowling opinion on
transgenders. Everyone took their merchendise and threw it in the trash, to rid themselves of her influence.
But it's one thing to get obessed over a story or series and move on and divest yourself of those consumer trinkets.
Exposing these children to a new "trend" of believing you can change genders is going to leave a lot them chemically castrated, bearing lifelong
scars, or dealing with the uncomfotable physical realities of bottom surgery should they go that far with their fantasy.
It makes me angry, because like I said, this smacks of an agenda targeting a new generation of kids with mental issues that make them more likely to
internalize such concepts.
I've said it before and I'll say it again as someone who has experienced profound dysphoria twice in her life, you have to stop living in a fantasy
world where drugs and surgeries and radical transformations will magically make everything ok.
Life isn't easy.
Being a man isn't easy. It has it's own unique challenges.
Being a woman isn't easy, it has it's own ordeals and realities.
You are who you are, the consciousness has no gender. The psyche is a balance of masculine and feminine forces and will wax and wane from day to
day.
The solution is therapy, getting the child to learn how to live comfortably in the body they are born with and adapt to the natural changes in puberty
with bravery, resillience, patience and perseverence. Coming to terms with reality.
There are legit transgenders out there who benefit from hormones, I see personal stories all the time of young people on tumblr showing off pics and
telling their stories.
I also see a lot of people testifying to regreting their transitions and saying they were rushed through the process too quickly without enough time
to discuss their dysphoria before chemical and surgical procedures were recommended.
At some point, we need to find a balance and compromise, and keeping parents ignorant of what their children are going through is a dangerous idea.
It concerns me that so many kids out there feel they can't discuss this with their parents and feel they have to keep it a secret, or else hide it
from their parents because they fear they will be told no and are stubborn and bullheaded about getting their way and instead go to these educators
who simply reinforce their confusion and advocate transitioning.
I'm not saying every household is abusive, some children definitely need help if that's the case such as sexual abuse or physical abuse, but just
wanting to use the system to play gender swap without parental knowledge is unheard of.
I believe we have laws on the books regarding providing kids with drugs, cigarettes or alcohol and it's called "contributing to the deliquency of a
minor"...how is pushing pharmecutial hormones and chemical castration any different?