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Originally posted by Cinaed
reply to post by valiant
Two wrongs never make a right!!! I don't think any adult relationship is healthy when either party feels they have a *right* to disrespect the other. The fact he snooped rather than asking about his suspicions makes me wonder if she KNOWS he doesn't respect her..... Hence her dissatisfaction with him. I am not condoning her actions either, but maybe I understand them....
Having been married to a man that did similar things. You bet I started lying to him, right about the time I no longer trusted or respected HIM.
There is more to this than just his side of the story
"So, being the computer nerd I am, I RDPed into her laptop and accessed her facebook account and sure enough, they had a chat going and guess who she is meeting up with at the skating ring. I figured at this point why not check the emails to"
Originally posted by gunshooter
reply to post by sinfall
"So, being the computer nerd I am, I RDPed into her laptop and accessed her facebook account and sure enough, they had a chat going and guess who she is meeting up with at the skating ring. I figured at this point why not check the emails to"
could you please teach me to do what you did above, I could use that info huge. And to stay on topic, I would follow her, or have a friend do so, and watch. Do not say a word about this yet. Check things out for yourself, and take out the guess work. This is coming from someone who does private investigation part time. If all turns out well, water under the bridge, but.......................... if it goes south, you are right there to intervene.
. A week later I found some pictures and then an email in his computer. He had called to ask me to look for an old email and so I had him on the phone doing so ( i never go through a mans stuff to find anything..just so ya know) and found an older email from him to his boss asking him to hurry and get there so he can get laid. Ha! Busted himself....dummy!
I think she is afraid to tell you about the meet up. Maybe thinking you WILL get upset over it. That's just how I am with my Hubs, I am always afraid to tell him stuff because he sometimes blows stuff so far out the window it becomes insane.