Over Sensitive - AKA Wearing Your Heart On Your Sleeve

Originally posted by seangkt
This post makes me laugh because according to everyone I know I might as well be heartless which is a wrong statement.

Hey Sean, I just had a great response here but my computer winged out and I lost 1200 words, but keep up the good work. Just keep your truth statements to that of personal experience and not regurgitation of what you were taught for example at 5 years old, and hell, you are keeping it real, if you decide not to pay focus to something, well too bad for them, just do not make a personal attack is all I am saying.

reply to post by SoulOrb


I get what you are saying, unfortunately I do not think many people will change in the near future. It boils down to perception ultimately and that is when many have problems due to the things they surround themselves with such as tv etc. Judging a book by its cover is an all to common trait these days.



[edit on 7-5-2009 by XXXN3O]

Everyone on the thread is alittle sensitive, and it's not really about how sensitive you are, but more so what your are sensitive too. Getting all bent out of shape because your big mac has ketchup on isn't really enlightening anyone, and neither is asking people to alter their behavior because there is danger of insulting a 'sensitives' ideals. Maybe if you are being accused of being over sensitive it's time you actually SHOW people how much something is bothering you, instead of complaining; it's likely they're trying to get you to complain and maybe you should respond with a fist to the nose instead of whining. Things like the internet have separated most people with any actual doing, because everyones going virtual, people seem to forget we live in a world that is still real and takes work to maintain. The technology that created your computer owes it's existence to the invention of the atomic bomb; the countless chemicals that litter your house, that make up all of your commodities, were tested on rabbits in laboratories. Someday, probably sooner than later, everyone will realize just how peaceful the world is right now, because without all our little distractions humans are most basically creators and destroyers, and the scale tips both ways.

Originally posted by Blarney63
her feelings outwardly - someone else might say at that point, sometimes with disgust, hey you're overly sensitive. In the end, both are being sensitive, no?

Exactly, and there is no need to over react and rip a person to shreds because they threaten your reality is what I am saying. Nor if a person shows sensitivity to a group of others should they be attacked for that sensitivity.

People in this topic are missing something important. Usually the people labeled as "over-sensitive" in this topic are the ones revealing a wrong-doing, a negative thought pattern, and in all honosty they should be treated as if they have revealed hidden treasure.

Mentality of the "over-sesitive"- This person has done something that they are of unconcious of being untrue, they have passed a judgement that is not necessary, or they are acting in a way that seeks to serve only their ego.

Mentality of the "tough" individual- This person really needs to get a grip, this world is a horrible place and they need to put their defensive shield back up because it's leaving them exposed to attack.

In my opinion, the people who are sick of the over-sensative, are the people who have a firmly gaurded ego, and a strong interest in what they identify with. They REACT to the actions of someone that disagrees with their point of view because their point of view threatens the tough individuals identity.

The "over-sensitive" though, is generally someone who RESPONDS with wisdom, that they have acrued with knowledge through experiencing themselves. Many people feel the level of conciousnes known as unconditional love, this can be considered "over-sensitive." Because very few people on this planet feel that it will diminish their idenitity if they decide they can just unconditionally love their evniornment and the beings within it.

Truth is people, whenever someone decides to DEFEND themselves instead of INFORMING someone else with their emmotions, they are the "Over-sensitive" ones, the ones who feel their emmotions and react on a consistant basis that results in nothing but conflict. The people being labled "Over-sensitive" in this topic from what iv'e read are the ones who are MORE CONCIOUS THAN YOU ARE. They respond instead of reacting, and generally they realize that if everyone could feel the same energies they do, this world would be alot better place.

Let me ask you a question- The world is in terrible shape, so who are the ones that caused it? The "Over-sensative", or the "tough-guys?"

Originally posted by silo13
reply to post by SoulOrb

 

What does any of this have to do with the Paranormal?
NOTHING.

If it’s even correct for posting on ATS and not BTS (which I doubt) it could have gone under *Introductions*...“HI, I’m SoulOrb and I’m a Sensitive Guy”...

EDIT: Oh never mind...

peace


[edit on 7-5-2009 by silo13]

Ok, now I see three titles in this forum. Psychology, Philosophy and Metaphysics. I do not see paranormal

I felt that applied for sure to two of those, Psychology, Philosophy, however I could make a good case for Metaphysics here since in the end there is energy involved.

In the end, these electrons that form this page do not cost anything here versus elsewhere. And these electrons for some reason are only here when we look at the page, and I am not sure where they are when I stop looking, but they are not here I understand according to the scientists.

So I guess no matter where we move this post, the electrons that form the post won't rally be over there all the time either, and well even though when you look here, you wont see them, they still might be here. Oh damn, now I am not sure, is this the right place for the Electrons not to be, well unless I decide to pay my attention to them.

I am so confused. So I guess what this means, is that if I do not pay attention to something, the Electrons are not where they are not anyway, and they really do not exist. Whew, that is confusing.

Originally posted by CoffinFeeder
The oversensitive type are the exact same way, even including my urge to kick them in the throat. Watch them in action and they are some of the most needy, hypocritical, and spineless lame-o's on the planet.

Wow, God love you. If there is a world war three, I want you, and 1,000,000 guys like you out there on the front line protecting my rights here. Wow, what piss and vinegar. I am still reeling from your statements, what energy, ra ra ra, get out your bayonettes boys lets get the commie bastards. You just have to admire people with lots of Masculine energy, you are filling a very important role, thank you for being you.


[edit on 7-5-2009 by SoulOrb]

Originally posted by HulaAnglers

Originally posted by CoffinFeeder
Being oversensitive pretty much borders on a mental deficiency. It's like the classic nice guy out there in the dating world, who pretty much in teh end turns up being an emotionally crippled, needy, mamby pamby mommas boy who should have never left the basement until he toughened up a bit.

The oversensitive type are the exact same way, even including my urge to kick them in the throat. Watch them in action and they are some of the most needy, hypocritical, and spineless lame-o's on the planet.

In teh end, they need to toughen up a bit, or a whole lot, and learn that opinions will differ from theirs and they're just going to have to deal with it. They're going to have to learn that no everyone cares about the same crap they do, nor puts the same level of importance on it. Finally, they'll have to realize that their behavior is like emotional blackmail, and being misplaced on others. It's like a little kid screaming "But I like the dolphins, why wont you liiiiike meeeeee??!?!?!"

This was the "type" I was referring to in my previous post...This is the mindset of a human possessed by truly evil energies(as I am typing this I am having a (deja -vue) Zomby Mentality!!!

You know, that video game industry is big. And that art work on the covers, it is pretty detailed. Lets just wait a while and when he gets the boss in the game beat, he might come back, and he can focus here on the brutality in the real world a little. He might have got the wrong window and thinks he is in the video game.

Originally posted by HulaAnglers
There are some truly evil people threatening our existence and some are feeling the energies at a cellular level it is normal for us to become overly sensitive making up for the ones that are insensitive to the atrocities being committed on this beautiful planet.

Yep Yep Yep, oh higher self, why oh why did you ask me to pick this boil. Keep the faith HulaAnglers, lets focus on this whole thing being holographic.

Originally posted by argentus
reply to post by SoulOrb

 

I would guess right off hand that it's a type of crystalline structure, possibly smectic crystal.

close?

Yes it is, I think that is the drug Anapril, but I need to check. I was going to put a cover in there, brought to you by Anapril. Oh well. :-) Insightful, you got that one right off.

It is easy to see with these backgrounds why numerology works with all that math behind the scenes.

Originally posted by Jenna
someone who is unusually close to their mother. If your roommate had issues with his mother as a child, then he likely wasn't a mama's boy and thus over-reacted to the woman's comments. So based on your post, your roommate was overly sensitive in this situation in my opinion.

Yes, I can agree Jenna that it would seem that way. Now in my roommates defence, and based on personal experience, that since my ascension process started I feel emotion and vibration alot more. And since the ET experience he has been experiencing alot of shifts as well, and I know what he is feeling, she might have had emotions that went to the words that many do not normally feel, so it might have felt the intensity and just linked the two.

I will say, assuming you are not in ascension which you might be well be if you are on this forum, your interpersonal one to one interactions take on a whole new meaning once our heart Chakra is activated to this degree.

My kids are grown. 2 speak and the other one is on the fence. I became a grandfather the other day of a child with very pecular numerology which I might share here soon.

Lets just say that he is confirmation of hope for me in these times, based on his numerology.

Originally posted by Ansiroth
Let me ask you a question- The world is in terrible shape, so who are the ones that caused it? The "Over-sensative", or the "tough-guys?"

Humans have been messed with genetically. Once I thought this implausible. However after my Kundalini rose spontaneously one night, and I had asked for DNA blocking, for about two months the top of my spine at my cranium was so sore I could not touch it. I figured it was just part of the process, and it was, but not what I thought.

A month ago or so I came across a channeling of the Merlin energy. Merlin's energy claimed all humans had 10 DNA strands stripped away by fallen Dracos through instantaneous Polarized light, where they installed through retro DNA a Jealously blocker, or lets say empathy and lack of jealousy blocker, basically a genetic device to keep a human in a state of fear and disconnection at all times, in comparison to their nature. This channeling claims you will lose this after the process of ascension starts, and then I realized my ridge is gone now. I am sure as heck I had a little ridge there at the bottom of my cranium at the top of my spine, it is flat now.

So my point is, I believe if you are asking, people are not themselves on this planet and not have been for a long time. And well, no certain side created it, it just was, and many of these patterns were created when the earth vibrated at a slower vibration. you may or not know the Earths frequency has been rising for centurys.

So the problem is in actually for me that some people who are not moving forward and are displaying the energies of the old vibration through genetic memory and refusal to do spiritual practices, against those that are waking up, and these blocks are being removed, and they are anchoring the new energies.

So there is no blame here, it just is. And my personal belief is, leave no man behind, which is why I am here on this forum. I decided to make myself some sort of ground crew for helping people find empathy and raising their vibration, and well, sometimes the best jobs are just when you make them up, and do them.

Originally posted by Republican08
reply to post by justsomeboreddude

 

It really offends me when you call me oversensitive guys.

I've seen people like that. There are some groups we have to be really nice to like muslims, once the gov't tells us they blew up a building and killed 2000+ people, everyone should be really nice to them.....

ehm f*ck off with this kind of bull# ok? It's not "the muslims" who blew up #. It was someone who happend to be muslim. Like there happend to be christians who went on a crusade a long time a go..

Originally posted by kresh7
ehm f*ck off with this kind of bull# ok? It's not "the muslims" who blew up #. It was someone who happend to be muslim. Like there happend to be christians who went on a crusade a long time a go..

And Kresh, let me remind you, we do not even know they were Muslims, they might have been Zionists or good old Patriotic Facist Americans for all we know. Chances are it was everyone and anyone but Muslims.

We need a mass healing for the Muslims in this world, or it will come to haunt us when people feel like outsiders and have lost respect for themselves. Don't lower your divinity with that F*ck word.

I'm not sure but the kind of person you (SoulOrb) are talking about is not overly sensitive, just empathic i think. Overly sensitive are indeed the ones just bearing everything that is said on themselves and suffering it. I used to be overly sensitive and on the brink of some real depression at one time, got over it the moment i realized everybody has his own subjective bubble he's living in and as long as people know themselves nothing that is said can hurt them. Know your strengths, weaknesses and personality and it should all be ok.

Overly sensitive and overly unsensitive are just two extremes of the same coin. Sure, we are being stretched to the point that sensitivity itself is branded overly sensitive and that indeed is a problem. personally i think i have found a way to be sensitive/empathic to people while not being branded overly sensitive and that is pretty nice.

It's not blocking yourself of from criticism because that implies work/struggle and is a nonstopping process and drains energy better used somewhere else. It's accepting that a lot of people have a skewed/different worldview or at least a personality best fit for that persons lifestyle and maybe even the souls learningprocess in some way, so the criticism of that person is true for that person and has to be, but if you get a remark and you discuss it levelheadedly or in the case of someone intentionally trying to make fun of you it's not insensitive to rebound that remark, just to show them how it feels.


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I think it should be balanced and situational when you should or shouldn't be over sensitive or have a sense of humor. There is a time and place for everything and trying to generalize something just causes confusion and the debate of whats right or whats wrong. How about neither? Just balance it out. This usually works with EVERYTHING.

[edit on 7-5-2009 by jvm222]

I could bore you all for years with tales of the amount of people who have accused me of being oversensitive.
I see nothing wrong with loving flowers, animals (Including humans),etc....
It never ceases to amaze me how all the people who accuse me of being over sensitive crumble into dust as soon as any piece of poo hits THEIR fan.
Not only are these people insensitive to others, they aren't even sensitive to their own sensitivities.
When people display traits of insensitivity towards me, or anyone with me, I'll put up with it for a while (Because I'm sensitive to their mental and emotional weaknesses), but if they push it too far for too long, they soon discover that I have a much darker and very capable side.
People who are surprised by this, only have their own insensitivities to blame.

hey there bud. just my opinion but what i think it is is fear of exposing yourself. when you show emotion and sensitivity, you expose yourself to others. fear of judgement. it destroys individuality.

so i believe its lack of emotion, not just sensitivity. people are numbed by so much going on in the world. like a self defense mechanism. where-as the problem is that the judgers cant differentiate between being sensitive and compassionate, or being an EMO...or drama queen as it used to be called.

my opinione

in lak'ech

Originally posted by SoulOrb
she might have had emotions that went to the words that many do not normally feel, so it might have felt the intensity and just linked the two.

Possibly. Or perhaps she didn't and he over-reacted. I'm not trying to judge your roommate in any way, so neither of you take it that way. Without being present during the exchange, there is no way to know for certain exactly how she said it since your roommate's reaction most likely has clouded over the memory so that now he believes that she said with malice when in reality she may very well not have.

There is a difference between being sensitive and being overly sensitive, as has been said by many in the thread. Being sensitive is fine, few people take issue with that. Being overly sensitive and expecting everyone else to change their behaviors just so you don't get your feelings hurt is not. Being stressed out and reacting to things more strongly than usual is a temporary state of being overly sensitive, once the stress passes so will the over-sensitivity. Constant over-sensitivity to everything that happens around you or to you is not healthy.


*Note: All references to "you" are meant to be taken in general, not specifically in that last paragraph.

Originally posted by Jenna
than usual is a temporary state of being overly sensitive, once the stress passes so will the over-sensitivity. Constant over-sensitivity to everything that happens around you or to you

I dunno, I seem pretty happy, and well, I have lived with 27 adults off and on for the past 19 years, and well, Fred takes the cake, honestly, watch his interview on my channel, he is about as open as they come, and he is very very happy.

However again, this process has brought some strange adventures. I will tell you from my perception, if people emotions were a 45 gallon drum on this world, they are about 40 gallon full at all times. That can't be healthy either.