I've got an interesting situation I'd like to share...... A couple of weeks ago my sister asked me if my grand niece (her granddaughter) could stay
with me for a while. Here is the quick back story......
Elaina my niece was 12 when her father, David died of cancer. I was 6 years older than David and he was truly more like a little brother......I loved
him dearly. He had custody of his daughter in the state of Louisiana and signed over guardianship of Elaina to my sister before he passed.
Elaina was bullied at school when her father died.....which is insane upon itself, the child lost her world and was sad but somehow the adults didn't
see the bullying (which is BS). She has emotional problems and is bi-sexual. I believe she needed love and it didn't matter who loved her. I wish he
had given her to me, not because her grandparents didn't love her but they were to old to raise her. They gave her so much Benadryl as a child to make
her sleep that she has severe allergies and is basically immune from it......I would have taken her to a doctor for melatonin. As I said, they were
too old to raise her.
Elaina was also groomed by her stepfather and molested, after her father died, when she had visitation with her mother. Her grandparents didn't see
it......
She had a friend living with her and her husband when she and the husband broke up. Daz is her name and she has been terribly abused and was homeless.
I have also let her move in because I have to try to help her.
Her biological mother joined some religious cult that abused this child and then got hooked on heroin. Daz was 12 when her mother started selling her
to men for drug money. She was also trafficked. She was eventually removed from the home and put into foster care where she and others were abused.
She told me today about the abuse and the trying to escape from the facility she was in, even if it killed her. She was going to jump from the second
floor fire escape but another child had followed her and she wouldn't have attempted her jump in front of the other child but when she tried to climb
back in from the fire escape it broke and she fell backward and broke her back. They told her she would ever walk again and operated on her back
putting a metal plate in. I can physically see that she has been abused. Her back is in horrible condition and she is 22 years old but she is
walking.
This is the place she tried to escape. Her incident is described as a suicide attempt.
tinyurl.com...
A lot of us followed Q for the safety of the children. What are the chances that one of us would end up in the position I am now in? Don't get me
wrong, I chose to be in this position and I'm not complaining. These young ladies need help and any prayers or good vibes sent their way. HEADS UP TO
JUSTONEMAN.......I know you will pray.
My heart is broken and while I don't understand the LGBT community, I do understand the need to be loved. I do understand the horrible feeling of
being orphaned and I say that in ref. to how it felt when my parents were both gone and I was single but had an 18 yr old son to raise with no job
because I had been taking care of my mother who fought colon cancer for 3 years. It's a horrible feeling and it's scary so I have to look past their
gender identity this time. I guess I am trying to say that I believe in male and female relationships because I am not physically drawn to women (and
the male and female bodies seem to be intentionally designed for union) but had I endured the sexual abuse that they lived through at such young
ages...I have no idea how I would feel. I would think it would make a girl scared of men, but that's just a guess.
On a side note.....for those who remember me falling, I had routine lab work done 3 weeks ago and have come back with liver numbers that have always
been perfect, but are now off the chart. My PCP asked if I had hurt myself because the numbers should have gradually risen if it were sclerosis. I
told him yes! When I fell I believe the entire right side of my body hit the metal tongue of that trailer except for my head. From my ankles to my
shoulder on the right side was bruised all to hell. I told the ER the exact same thing.....they never looked for injuries. He has ordered an
ultrasound to look at my liver. Hopefully, it was just deeply bruised and will heal but please keep me in prayers and positive vibes.
Dashen, if your around......what the hell do you need to do to hire a lawyer? I've spoken with 2 firms and they have both declined basically saying
there isn't enough money in it if they didn't kill me or operate and stitch me up leaving medical devices in my body......
Sorry for the text wall! Peace out brothers and sisters!
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