Just lost my baby girl and want to vent.

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im so sory greyegal, :/ its ment to be such a beautful time yet this happens

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reply to post by milkyway12


Faith has nothing to do with it, and your attack on this person is horrible, vial and inconsiderate, he is not making out he is the only one to have lost, he is venting, do you know what that means? god or no god that doesnt mean you dont feel human emotions, dont be so inconsiderate.

reply to post by Tahnya86


It was not an attack, it was meant as a correction. Stop blaming God if you don't even know what the Bible says about death. The only death that God mourns, is the death of un saved people. The rest, he welcomes and rejoices that hey have finally arrived in their kingdom and his arms. He is angered by un just killings of children and believers. He doesn't mourn when his children die, he rejoices in their arrival, and sends two angels to comfort and escort them to their place of rest.

His daughter is in much better hands than he can ever provide.

I mean these things to help redirect thinking. If you want have a yelling match with God, you will be forgiven. Just remember he isn't feeling sorry for you because of your sinful nature. Praying for peace and understanding will get you much further than a yelling match.

If he doesn't believe in God, then it's simple, you'll get over it. You obviously wanted people to read, and you got my reply whether you wanted to hear it or not.

If I knew you weren't a believer, I wouldn't have said a damn thing. You have nothing that can help you except time.

reply to post by milkyway12


dont you think you should of thought about it rather then bringing religious views into it? i dotn believe in religion but i respect peoples conformity to it, but i dont respect the homophobia and comments like yours, its funny how your god can take a life as its eblieved and can dam others for not worshipping him, i find your so called gos position no better than a tyrant, a simple, my best wishes OP would have settled it, im sure if you lost a child and i said to you well that was their fault or your fault or said blah blah blah god and jesus it would not make you feel very great, i do not know if you have heard of it but theres a time and a place and some opinions are not appropiate! if you have nothing nice to say dont say anything at all.

reply to post by Tahnya86


First of all, I've recently lost two aunts in he past week. Lost a brother a month ago, and lost 3 close friends in an IED that I survived. I've had death all around me, you need to move on your way.

By the way, he mentioned God, which is the only reason I replied. If you aren't a believer I have nothing to say. I just offer a shoulder. I don't apologize, say it's going to be alright, I say nothing.

There are more deaths, but I don't need your sympathy. There's nothing sad about it. I am still sitting here in this # hole, that's the sad part.

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If he is a believer I posted something he needs to look up and read. That was the whole point.

reply to post by milkyway12


Wow, what a religion, so if your a non believer your basically worth nothing, no time no emotion and dont deserve to be sad? what a horrible way to view human beings and life, just what this world needs, more segragation, hatred, mis treatment and for others to be inferior. glad im not appart of your religion, im open to all humans feeling and being given compassion reguardless of relgion, thats what you forget, there was a time before religion and jesus and we have the science to prove it, religion is just a lifestyle choice and a conformity not a madatory confirmity that all humans must reside under or be cast out as nothings, its sad not even the brainwashed religious extreamist can not see how their religion has its hatred that it inflicts uppon others and its mis treatment of human life.

reply to post by Tahnya86


Nope. You're worth everything. That is why God died for his creation, and arose as proof he is Lord of death and life. He is proving to the authorities and principalities he is all knowing and loving, and setting an example for mankind.

However, if you have faith, and God promises you that you will see your family again, and in perfection and love, yet you curse him, and yell at him because he took a family member? Yeah, you're in the wrong. God understands WHY you cry, but he told you not too because you will see them again and they are in their kingdom waiting for their rule to begin.

You do not sin because you cry, you sin when you get angry at God because of your lack of faith, and not believing on his promise. The anger is the sin because it is unjust.

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May i suggest you send PMs or something. Now it's getting awkward. This is his rant about his daughter's death. Not yours.

reply to post by milkyway12


There is not a shred of proof of god, god is dark matter, not some overlord, more to the point, its abit of a cach22 when it comes to death, you die, your dead, your not actualy going to be able to prove theres a god, you live a life restrained to doing as a tyrant tell you to do, miss out on lifes pleasures then die, thats why im glad im agnostic!

reply to post by Tahnya86


Let me know when you find proof i am wrong. If i am right, you're the one that loses everything for an eternity, not me. If you're right, i loss absolutely nothing what so ever. You're the one that is in danger of a loss here, not me.

I have hardly any kind of sex drive, even though my testosterone levels are higher than it should be ( had it tested because the low sex drive worried me ), so that throws women out of the picture, drugs aren't interesting what so ever, and rock and roll / pop is annoying as hell. I rather enjoy classical, it's probably why i play the Viola and Piano daily ...

Explain to me what i lose exactly by following the Lord Jesus Christ again?

reply to post by tracer7


Hey Tracer...

I am truly sorry to hear of your loss. Hold wife and family close and the pain will subside.

Again, my condolences.

reply to post by milkyway12


thanks for the "correction". It is people like you that give christians a bad name. i was venting, and sure as hell don't need converting. my faith or lack of is between me and god, no one else. do us all a favor and keep it to yourself.

as for the people with compassion thank you, but there is no reason to even reply to this keyboard warrior,

Your Very welcome Tracer7

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There's nothing sad about it. I am still sitting here in this # hole, that's the sad part.

reply to post by milkyway12

 

Dude, I for one would be happy to provide you with a rope and stool to hasten your meeting with jesus if you're so looking forward to it. The more oxygen for rational people the better why not get all your deluded buddies to join you we may well actually see a little peace on earth once the religleous have gone extinct.

As a non religious person I would like to point out the following in the interest of balance. Gulf Wars One, and Two, The Falklands, Korea, World Wars 1,& 2, The Franco Prussian, The Boer Wars, The Zulu Wars, The Crimean War, The Napoleonic War,
The American Civil War, are among the many conflicts that were not caused by, or fought in the name of any religious beliefs.

Kind regards

Those of us here with an ounce of common sense know that there is no god.

The OP has suffered a tremendous loss and there is nothing that anyone can do to make him feel better. All we can do is offer our condolences and hope that the passage of time will slowly ease his pain and make his life more bearable.

I am so sorry for your loss, you will never get over it but as strange as it seams you won't want to, the emotional scars this experience leaves you with will one day be a trigger for the happy memories you had before the tragedy. I am so sorry for your loss and wish you all the best.

With regards to milkyway12, if being a christian means being such an obnoxious condescending poor excuse for a human being then I am so glad to be an atheist. You can take your imaginary friend and leave this poor man alone.

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I think you will find Hitlers hatred for the Jews was a very strong factor in WW2.

reply to post by tracer7
Nothing can replace your loss...for that i am deeply sympathetic to what has happened to you and yours.
Humble suggestion though......coming on to a conspiracy web to vent frustrations at peoples attempt to console you is just unproductive and pointless,also kinda makes you seem on the offensive against those who believe your child could be in continued existence after death.Point trying to be made and conveyed here.......Go talk it out with people who understand loss on the same level as you.Peace and Godbless my friend

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I think you will find Hitlers hatred for the Jews was a very strong factor in WW2.

A factor but not the cause.