What would you do if you catch her(him) in bed with another?

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It will be an open door to a new life! I'll probably hit on her friend.

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I have been on the "other side" of this equation, for what little its worth...

The year was 2006. I awoke because something was whizzing overhead. It was a teacup, which shattered wetly against the bedboard. Her friend, who had been lying next to me, gave a yelp and disappeared through the door in a flash, taking the sheet with her and leaving me as naked as a peeled crawdaddy.

The next thing I knew there was a searing line of heat and moisture up the left side of my chest, followed by a sharp pain. She'd tried to unzip my guts with the broken half of a Johnny Walker bottle. If I had been a little slower she might have succeeded. As it is, I have a nice white scar-stripe to remember that happy day by.

I never pressed charges. I guess I deserved it.

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I would be.... Devastated, for about a day or more.

But who knows never have that happen to me. But if it did it would probably go something like this.

At first I would probably sad
Then I would be confused.
Then I would get pissed.
Then I would be really pissed.
Then I would be like duh should off seen this coming.
Then I would be like whatever forget you.
Then I would be like telling them and especially her to get the F out or I'm smashing some fool.
Then I would probably smash some fool anyways.:bash:

Then when there all gone I would be all like sad again.
Then I would probably want to shoot somebody.
Then I would probably punch a wall and swear a lot.
Then thinking of trying to work things out, but that thought would make me puke.
Then I would go deal with this one way or another.
Then I would end it, and go get drunk.
Then after that I would probably cry.

Then I would erase her from my life, zip, zero, nada, poof.. gone, just like that, not even a memory.
Then I would sleep.. zzzzzzzzzz
Then when I wake up I would get over it and go back to my usual self.
Then I would do my own thing for a long while.

Then after probably a long time I would find somebody else.
Then I would be happy again.

Originally posted by mamabeth
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I have only read your opening post...
If I catch my husband with another female in bed she had
better have four legs, a tail,fish breath and say meow.

Hi mamabeth,that was funny,that creature will run like hell.

reply to post by silent thunder

TextIf I had been a little slower she might have succeeded

I am glad you are OK,things use to happen in life,but we must never forget and not to repeat the mistakes of the past.

reply to post by ofhumandescent

TextOnce you've had filet minog it's hard going back to hamburger.

People can fall in love at any age,the age is not important ,but the soul that remain young till the end,I like the way you think,though is a dangerous game.

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Yeah well, I've got a lot of mistakes to try to remember not to repeat.

Sometimes it works out, sometimes not... I keep trying to improve myself, but who knows...

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My husband is only allowed to have one of our cats
sleeping in the same bed with him besides me!

reply to post by silent thunder


Yep, me too..............hope next time around I remember some of these mistakes.

Keep trying, keep plugging along that's all we can do.

Nice to know we're not alone.

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Your very creative reply made my day

Gave us all a good laugh.

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Arent we all unreasonable sometimes?

Originally posted by RARARAsputin
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Arent we all unreasonable sometimes?

Depend from person to person,some people are reasonable, some not,people are very unforeseen in situations like that.

Um I'd go crazy on both of them


I havent had this happen, thank God. lol

Originally posted by mblahnikluver
Um I'd go crazy on both of them

I havent had this happen, thank God. lol

Many people would go crazy,it's enough to lose your rationality for few seconds and....

Originally posted by diamondsmith

Originally posted by mblahnikluver
Um I'd go crazy on both of them

I havent had this happen, thank God. lol

Many people would go crazy,it's enough to lose your rationality for few seconds and....

Oh I know a couple people this has happened to.

A friend of mine came home from being overseas, Navy and caught his wife with his best friend AND she had sold his bike and empty his account! He went nuts, can't blame him! I felt so bad for him

Originally posted by mblahnikluver

Originally posted by diamondsmith

Originally posted by mblahnikluver
Um I'd go crazy on both of them

I havent had this happen, thank God. lol

Many people would go crazy,it's enough to lose your rationality for few seconds and....

Oh I know a couple people this has happened to.

A friend of mine came home from being overseas, Navy and caught his wife with his best friend AND she had sold his bike and empty his account! He went nuts, can't blame him! I felt so bad for him

It's sad to hear such stories,one can destroy his life in seconds,and the regrets came to late, always to late.

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Yea evryone reacts differently. Im just saying with the amount of work,effort and sacrifice I put into my current relationship. Id just lose it.

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My wife is bi, so would depend on who it was...

If another gal:

"Hey, why didn't you call me? You know we have a deal here...I at least get to watch..."

If another guy:

First, I'm going to kick his @$^%&, and get him out of there, so we can talk. In the past, I'm pretty sure I would have simply told her to get the hell out. These days (after 8 years of marriage), I'd really have to figure things out, all depending on her motivations, if it was a one-time thing, etc., etc. I'd be raging until I got him out though, and God help him if he doesn't run, and instead resists.

reply to post by Gazrok
The fight with life is a strong battle,all of us must have a strong psychic in certain points of our life,but the most important thing is to not make those who are close to us suffer.If we achieve this,then we really can say that we are HAPPY!