What would you do if you catch her(him) in bed with another?

reply to post by ShadowAngel85

Texti don't know i would propably go on a rage and then kick her out of my house.

Depend how much you love that person,some times love ask for sacrifice and understanding,in certain times of our lives.Abrasion of feelings,and habits are also a part of our life.

TextWhat is the nature of your relationship with this person?

reply to post by MOMof3
A marriage is a complex of many social aspects for family and for the community,it's a contract that hypothetical both parties should respect.In real life.....

A few years ago I would have snapped and ended up in jail for life but time and circumstances have given me a different outlook.

I nearly lost my marriage of 15 years about 1 year ago, thought she was cheating because she wasn't interested in me sexually for so long. I was finally broken and had given up all hope that love even existed. Truth is it did not matter if she was cheating or not because the lack of affection and connection was enough to crush me. Plus I was convinced she was cheating so I experienced it real or not.

During our struggle for the last year or so we've discussed many aspects of relationships and agree to enjoy each day, preferably with each other and have agreed to be human. Real.

If I came home to find her in bed with another how I would respond would depend on who's on top. We live once here for a very short time and jelousy destroys.

reply to post by diamondsmith

In this kind of situation, action speaks louder than words. I can't tolerate liars, and at that point. would have nothing to say. As someone said, it shows a lack of respect, and a betrayal of trust (the sneaky part) and to me, deciet and a lack of respect negates everything in a relationship.

reply to post by budro

TextIf I came home to find her in bed with another how I would respond would depend on who's on top. We live once here for a very short time and jelousy destroys.

I think Sweden it's a beautiful country.

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.....it is work and choice and love and sacrifice and long-suffering. If it were easy the failure rate would not be so high.

Originally posted by MOMof3
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.....it is work and choice and love and sacrifice and long-suffering. If it were easy the failure rate would not be so high.

That is true ,for all the people,the easy things comes the harder they go,the harder they come,so easy they go.

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Id probably scream "get em" down the hall then watch my mastador, pit bull and wolf hybrid kill them both. Then Id claim I came home to the bloody mess.

Originally posted by diamondsmith

Thank you.

Please,give decent answers,use civilized and appropriate language!

Honesty is never pretty

Originally posted by RARARAsputin
Honesty is never pretty

There are other ways to solve the problems,like decent people,as I try to explain in the entire thread,but sure every opinion must be respected, with the right to debate it.

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Shoot him! Just say he was trespassing

Originally posted by Jspencer98
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Shoot him! Just say he was trespassing

There will be evidence,of no trespassing,no crime it's perfect,but perfectible,until the final proof ,sooner or later.

Well, I have been in a 4 year relationship with my significant other. I know that is nothing compared to most people but i am only 22 years old. Anyways tho, the first year of my relationship was horrible. Cheating on my girlfriend, My best friends telling her, Her cheating on me because she new i cheated on her. It was an immature mess. My gf is 20 and i have been with her since she was 16. So obviously maturity was a big part of our mess ups. Well despite our past we have continued to grow and continued to fall in love everyday. She is the girl of my dreams and honestly were perfect. So the point is we have both made our mistakes and even though we are still so young we respect eachothers flaws. and now cheating is no more in our relationship. only thing that we ever argue about...and im not even joking. we never ever fight anymore...unless im on this site..lmao..anyways tho thanks for listening. thats my 2 cents with cheating.

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Classic.....

Texttho thanks for listening

reply to post by Thisbseth
Thank you for sharing with us,many times it's a soul relief ,to tell other people, the guilt goes faster ,easing your feelings.

if i came in and she was with another girl i'd jump in. if a guy idk, it depends on what our relationship was like. i probably leave her and not think about it though. I think people dress up their relationships too much, best to just see it as it is. A means to fulfil certain desires. a woman could never fulfil every aspect of your life

In the wild a female chimpanzee will average 200 copulations while in heat. About half with the troop leader, and the other half she will select and lure away certain males with no status and copulate with them in private. Most cases the interactions are with far lesser males but ones she feels are safe and worthy of a friendship status.


Not sure where that plugs in to all the theories......

Blessed be,
I have also had this happen to me and I can tell you that remaining calm and walking away is the best thing to do.
Now I am happily married to someone else, who loves me as I am and I love him for who he is. He also looks at other women, I'm fine with that because I know he loves me. I look at other men and women and he is fine with that as he knows I love him.

Namasté

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TextNot sure where that plugs in to all the theories......

We have intellect,in the animal kingdom things are different,there is no term of comparison.