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But like suggested, can you really look into the eyes of another life form and not see something of familiarity with it that is also with you?
Originally posted by Death_Kron
How on Earth is this thread still going????
Originally posted by Death_Kron
But all you have done for 57 pages is repeat the same non-sense,
Originally posted by IAMIAM
Ask yourself, who are you? Are you that name given to you? Is this who you really are at your very core? Are you the clothes you wear, the car you drive, the house you live in, and the money you have in your pocket. If you believe this is who you are, you have been deceived! Look deeper into yourself, past the pain of this existence. Are you not beautiful and pure? Are YOU? Yes! Yes you are and I weep that you do not see it yourself.
Originally posted by momoney
So, if I just get rid of all those things that I buy to have a nice leisurely life, I'll find my true self, right?
Get rid of the car, get rid of the house but don't sell them because I need to get rid of all my money too. Then, finally, when I'm sitting under a bridge staying out of the rain, I'll somehow fell at one with the universe. Yeah, I'll get right on that.
Does that mean I should divorce too? Send the kids out to do the same?
Originally posted by momoney
How long do I need to be a vagrant before I can be sure I know myself enough to begin having some of those luxuries, like a roof over my head, back again?
Originally posted by momoney
Oh, and please don't weep. It's an embarrassing public spectacle. Pull yourself together and be a stalward stoic.
Originally posted by Death_Kron
You see, that's what I really don't understand about you or this thread, you seem to be quite emotional intelligent under the surface. I do understand the message your trying to spread but it seems a little too much like preaching for my liking...
Originally posted by IAMIAM
Will you cease to be you if you suddenly lost those things my friend? Some, regrettably would. This is because the attachment to these things is greater than the attachment to the family of Man. Without those things, their lives are meaningless, by their own estimation.
It may be embarrassing to you my friend, but not to me. So, don't weep in public, I'll do it for you.
Maybe in time, the trend will catch on and you will feel more comfortable being part of the weeping in public crowd.
Originally posted by momoney
Tell me... why do you insist that the material tools we use in a material world are so detrimental to the human psyche?
Originally posted by IAMIAM
It's not the material tools my friend. It is our attachment to them. If they are the source of our happiness when we have them, we will be devastated when we do not. If we are happy without them, then we will be happy with them, and put them to more noble uses.
We all came into this world with nothing, and so shall we leave it. Material possessions are fleeting things to hold on to for joy and happiness, and truly inadequate to show love.
Which do you prefer a gold digger wife, or one who will stand beside through poverty or wealth?
Which do you prefer a friend who is there through thick and thin, or one who rides your coat tales in success, only to disappear when you fall.
Which do you prefer a child who loves you unconditionally, or a child who loves you as long as you keep the newest fashions on his body.
That which you prefer in others, is that which others prefer from you.
Originally posted by momoney
But it's so sad, brother IAM, that these things all, unfortunately, cost *choke, sniffle* money (didn't want to say it too loudly in case another bout of weeping begins).
Originally posted by momoney
This is just not true. All of us came into this world with a mother overjoyed at your birth. Chances are, daddy will be there too. If you're lucky when you're born, you will have come into a world where there is a home for you as well, be it an apartment, a duplex, a condo or even, praise be to success, a detached home with a yard.
Originally posted by momoney
All things are fleeting, brother IAM, but some things fleet quicker than others. There are those in this world who suffer and it is up to others more fortunate in life to be generous to those less so. There is much joy and happiness in being able to provide as well.
Originally posted by momoney
But, enough of that preaching of mine.
Originally posted by momoney
I prefer a companion who is true to their word when they swear 'for better or for worse' during the marraige ceremony.
Originally posted by momoney
How this has anything to do with giving up wordly 'material goods' is quite lost on me.
Originally posted by momoney
Yes. A great question at last. A rare person indeed. If one is really really really really lucky and finds a true friend then they are truly blessed and should hold them close always.
Originally posted by momoney
I've had experience in that, having raised two children to adulthood. I've found that they generally go through phases and will be demanding or generous as they grow. The solution, for me, was to alllow some of their demands if merited while holding back a bit if it was not. They still love me... I know this to be true. They come home for birthdays and holidays and it's always a happy time when they do. They are caring. They are generous. They are healthy and beautiful to my eyes. I love them unconditionally and I believe it is returned to me in spades.
Originally posted by momoney
Wait... I've heard something like that before!!! Well, sort of. Isn't it quite the same as do unto others as you would have them do unto you?
Originally posted by momoney
Stay stoical, brother, as we plumb the chasm between us.