I'm just TOO SHY...

Prophet Mike, i admit it, i didnt read your other posts thoroughly i may just do that. As for being lonely, i don't see how, maybe its just me. Being a Virgo i really don't mind being with vs without someone. I could live on an island and be happy all by myself so long as i had a net connection and lots of beer and cigarettes "grin" ok del the ciggies.

Sapphire- You are lucky. I WISH I could be by myself and be happy, but I can't. Being without someone for so long has just driven me crazy. I want someone, but my own shyness and being scared is making it worse.

Originally posted by prophetmike
Sapphire- You are lucky. I WISH I could be by myself and be happy, but I can't. Being without someone for so long has just driven me crazy. I want someone, but my own shyness and being scared is making it worse.

ProphetMike, God gets me through everything. I don't know if you believe in God or a God or Gods or anything but it really creates a sense of Sanity within me, i can't explain it, but it gives me peace. It's the reason i'm able to endure many things. However he never gives us more than we can handle either, imhb = in my humble belief. Just ask forget the past, the past is gone you can't change it, so look forward and change what hasn't yet been undone.

I DO believe in God. I go to church every Sunday and thank God for helping me get through the week before and ask for guidance in the following week.

I also ask for help in giving me strength and courage to take on certain tasks. (Getting over my shyness is ONE of those tasks) Unfortunately, no courage has come to me YET.

I keep asking in hopes that ONE DAY, my prayers will be heard.

**Keep hope alive!**

Originally posted by prophetmike
I DO believe in God. I go to church every Sunday and thank God for helping me get through the week before and ask for guidance in the following week.

I also ask for help in giving me strength and courage to take on certain tasks. (Getting over my shyness is ONE of those tasks) Unfortunately, no courage has come to me YET.

I keep asking in hopes that ONE DAY, my prayers will be heard.

**Keep hope alive!**

Ok then, Let me pray for you, he always answers me for some amazing reason. I'll ask him to give you courage and hope and strength, oh and, wisdom, very important. I see you asking this girl out that you really like and have talked about for so long with us all, next week, so, when the opportunity comes, take it ok?

[Edited on 29-11-2003 by Sapphire]

Yes.. See the key is within you.. Because always searching in someone you will find your point.. Where in dreams it will tell you to run.. But when your dreams become you ... Sleep finally happens.. Upon awakening you find yourself knowing that this dream is forever.. But once in dreams you found out that you really never thought about what you wanted .. You panic and wish to wake up... Wake up back to this.. Where it is ok in yourself through reality where you are given a choice to just as easily take and more easier to hide.. Because the day to day wants to comfort the question why all the time. Because if we all knew how simple it really was it would cause shame for so much time wasted. But really it doesn't matter at any stage of life.. Because he who wants to not believe in it.. Will pave the same way as those who can't get enough of it. Then the horrible hangover of your wildest nightmare becomes you... Or you just skip it and thank GOD you didn't hang over this time....

Tell her all that you have told us. Explain your fear as courage for explaining it. Speak for how you would to a panel of sirens. For if it fails then she has will never in her life forget that speech? Then what did fail? The want or the need?

Shyness is a grand attribute of a man that feels and sees what the world does to honesty.. In reverse it us a small attribute of a man that feels and sees what the world doesn't do to those who lie. What would you rather do?

Originally posted by prophetmike
I DO believe in God. I go to church every Sunday and thank God for helping me get through the week before and ask for guidance in the following week.

I also ask for help in giving me strength and courage to take on certain tasks. (Getting over my shyness is ONE of those tasks) Unfortunately, no courage has come to me YET.

I keep asking in hopes that ONE DAY, my prayers will be heard.

**Keep hope alive!**

Revebo- I don't understand your posts. I can get a little bit of it, but otherwise, its pretty foggy to me.

Can you or anyone else "decipher" what he's trying to say?

All I can say is if she shows any sign of interest in you, do something about it right away before she changes her mind.

And don't go over the top in planning how you're going to go about getting this girl. If you want her you should be able to swallow your fear and just ask.

I'm not sure on this... what are the signs that a girl gives when she has interest in someone?

ANYONE HAVE A CLUE??? I don't... :shk:

Ooooh that's tough,

If she's cool enough she'll let you know by dropping hints that you should ask her out. Or, she could pretend she hates you. Women are strange that way.

If she smiles nervously and stuff like that when you're around then she's into you.

I got one! Why don't you ask her!? You can't analyze her stool or something to figure out if she likes you ....

Originally posted by ktprktpr
I got one! Why don't you ask her!?

Thats what I'd do man.

If she is hot and exotic and you want to body rock it, use your balls and ask her if she'd like to be more than friends.

Best advice anyone here can offer man. Not like she is going to kill your and eat your body after she rejects you.

Heck she might even say she thinks you are hott with two t's and would love to spawn children with you.

If she says no... atleast you asked and you don't have to go on wondering WHAT IF...

Live a little, take a chance. Don't be so scared she's just a girl.

Originally posted by prophetmike
I'm not sure on this... what are the signs that a girl gives when she has interest in someone?

ANYONE HAVE A CLUE??? I don't... :shk:

What are the clues?? If she's not running away from you every time she see's you, points and laffs at you, gives you the cold shoulder, or looks at you like she'd look at an armed gunman then i'd take it as a good sign. If you don't ask this girl out soon, I'm going to get her to ask you out!!!!

Originally posted by Sapphire

Originally posted by prophetmike
I'm not sure on this... what are the signs that a girl gives when she has interest in someone?

ANYONE HAVE A CLUE??? I don't... :shk:

What are the clues?? If she's not running away from you every time she see's you, points and laffs at you, gives you the cold shoulder, or looks at you like she'd look at an armed gunman then i'd take it as a good sign. If you don't ask this girl out soon, I'm going to get her to ask you out!!!!

i think the cold gunman attitude corresponds to me more than any1 on this board:shk:
i'm literally EVIL, a bad mother#er, i look like i'm ready to pound the crap outta every1...plus, my characteristics, my low-bassed laugh, my entire physique scares the crap outta the toughest guys in school.
i think they think i'm a member of some underground society, plus i wear a cape

#...i need HELP!! i cant lighten up...it'll ruin my respect, it'll ruin me.

but i, in turn, like this girl in school, her dad owns shares in a porn magazine...so u can imagine how she looks

i've never kissed a girl before, as a matter of fact, i've never gone out on a date..even though when i first joined this school, i-kept-on-getting-the-hints
i dont anymore, but i know the lusting in them ukranian girls is still there

i think my case is a lot easier to crack, btw, FURY ma man!!

Originally posted by prophetmike
I'm not sure on this... what are the signs that a girl gives when she has interest in someone?

ANYONE HAVE A CLUE??? I don't... :shk:

i am in no way, any1 to give advice...since i myself am in need of some consolation from these wonderful people who have driven their every effort to help you out.

guess what...i'm lying
i know exactly how to get out of your situation, look man, it's not easy, but it can be done in under a week.
look...you are continously disrespected, no1 cares for what you do..right? and there's no way of proving yourself a superman in their eyes
*sighs*
break free of anything they are likely to think of you, why should you care? you know who you are...learn to see yourself as 100% on top of the world, you made a mistake so what? life goes on..at least yours does.
listen to your soul, you want that girl? she's yours to keep.
in your case, you need to find yourself alone with her, sit next to her(dont squash her or anything....in max. arm's length, ie: allow her breathing space).

ask her how her day was, girls like to talk, so think of something she is likely to immediately be interested in talking about,
base2: nod frequently, and dont make eye contact till the end(helps if u have luminous green or blue eyes)
base3: you have made eye contact, she is nearly finished, you stretch your arm out and around her all the time looking into her eyes, and...you put all the waves of desire you can muster into the kiss.
options:
1: she'll get the hint and go with the flow
2: she is likely to tell you to stop..that depends on the impression you made, during your little conversation, if u make her laugh, all the better, then she wont do so.

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in turn, i face a completely different finale...if i collect a girl in my arms i am likely to entrance her, she is likely to faint from the sheer love imposed by this cruel being.

in other words: i make the girl's pussy shiver when i look her in the eye, (A PROBLEM!! since my relationships are never meant to last long)

Get Drunk .
That overcomes my Shyness of girls.
Im shy myself, we'll more the less to chicken to aproach girls.
Girls love guys for thier personalities, thats why im single?
I dunno, all my chick freinds love me just cuz I treat them like women, which is how all women should be treated.
You cant act horny around them,
If you dont then its your game
Deep

A LOT of great advice! WOW! Thanks for all of it!

I went to Google and typed in "Signs a girl likes you" and the first result was a link from AskMen.com (which I go to) www.askmen.com...

This link has stuff you all mentioned AND MORE! I provided this link because I know there are others like myself and I want to help.

The thing is, I give good advice, but I can never follow it. IT WORKS FOR OTHERS! **Sigh**

Keep the advice coming...

prophetmike- you are avoiding the situation. You are concentrating on everything but the girl. You are setting yourself up for failure. Stop what you are doing.

Tmmrw. go up to her and ask her if she likes you. If yes then suggest doing something together. You don't have to come up with anything on the spot, you can get back to her later. If no then you've just saved yourself a lot of time.