Best first date ideas...

a reply to: TNMockingbird

I agree with Quantum. The world needs to hear your story!!

a reply to: visitedbythem

I know you look and act young. Lol. Your one amazing person. Any first date you take out will have a great time!

a reply to: Quantum12

I always thought the name taylor was cute!

We're close in age. Im a little older. ( not by much) Does she mind that I look like jack black had a hobbit love child? Im like 5'4" and got long hair. But im super friendly, and can talk just about anything. id love to meet someone to laugh and hang out with even if we just end up friends.

Now you got me interested in her. Plus I love hawaii. The most beautifully sureal moment I can think of was floating alone at 4am in hanalei bay watching the moonlight glistening on the angel hair like waterfalls cascading off mt. Waiale'ale into the jade taro fields below as schools of bright yellow tang swam beneath me in the perfect crystal clear water. Maybe her smile will leave me equally as stunned and make my heart race just as fast.

Ill be at marina del rey for the 4th watching the fireworks with my buddy I should IM you my info.

a reply to: ksiezyc

Chirp should write a book. I would buy it and many copies. She is a smart person!

At the begining of the date, I like to tell the girl : Your eyes are so pretty!, then later before the end of the date , I ask her, " Did I tell you how beautiful your eyes are?"

a reply to: visitedbythem

LOL

Clever!

a reply to: BASSPLYR

You will be in MDR on the 4 th. I will pm you my number and you two should meet! I think you and her would be great together!

originally posted by: Quantum12
a reply to: ksiezyc

Chirp should write a book. I would buy it and many copies. She is a smart person!

Are you 18??!!!

I'm afraid you would have to be.
It would be an 'R' rated book in a 'G' rated world...

Well, a lot of it anyway!

a reply to: Quantum12

Right on IM from me forthcoming.

a reply to: Quantum12

I agree! She should. Perhaps an autobiography?

a reply to: BASSPLYR

Ok sent. Have a great night. Going to Washington street to have drinks!

a reply to: Quantum12

That sounds like a fun time! Have a great night!

Go to an observatory. Check out the stars. If she isn't interested in the stars, send her packing.

a reply to: Tempter

That would be a good first date. Or how about a hot air balloon ride!

Take her mud wrestling. Chicks dig that. They also like truck pulls and monster trucks.

a reply to: Skid Mark

Ok that is the best answer yet! I pm you. We are happy you back and safe from the floods in your state.

a reply to: Quantum12
Depending on where you're from that was probably bad advice. I'm all full of bad advice lol.

Best first date is anything that has to do with just connecting.

Also it should be not be a dinner, because if it doesn't go well you'll have to sit through misery till it's over.

Pick a spot where you can both mutually bail out ( Coffee Shop ), if it goes well and their is chemistry, you can take a long walk.

Ask short questions, then listen to the other person, if they ask a question keep your answer short. ( Makes for a bit of mystery too) If you really hit things off you'll have plenty of time to get to know each other.

Movies are out for 1st dates because can't really connect properly at, and learn about the person. "hhmm great movie" but guess what you didn't learn or connect with your date. lol

Places to go on a first date, and do

1) Meet separately at a coffee shop

2) Maybe a local quiet pub, or bar for a drink, if they drink

3) Meet at a local sit down pastry, or good dessert shop, this way she can't order just a salad.

4) Meet a local public park and then walk to a place of choice, after talking for a bit.

If it's a guy asking a girl out on a first date, don't overwhelm her with BS, fancy cars, dinners, and other distractions, just get to really know her women appreciate when you are trying to connect with them.

1) Be a good listener.

2) Make eye contact, but do be a creeper.

3) Show confidence ( This doesn't mean be an arrogant douche-bag either )

4) Ask her what she likes and listen, then go more in depth on her areas of interests and likes.

5) Don't interrupt her conversation because you are nervous.

6) Also don't sit there like a lump of dough and say nothing, if you don't know what to say ask a question about themselves.

7) Be playful, fun and make silly jokes to break tension. Timing is everything on playfulness, so unless you have mastered the art, be careful this can backfire, they may think you are mental.

8) Lastly guy's no satin banana hammocks on the first date, it may throw your game off a bit.

Cheers, good luck and have fun,

RT

a reply to: Realtruth

Thank you Realtruth, your first date ideas are all really good!

a reply to: Realtruth

Some of the best advice.