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originally posted by: SprocketUK
originally posted by: Abysha
originally posted by: samerulesapply
a reply to: Abysha
Because they'd don't belong in a mens room, that's why.
Just like men don't need to use such products, even if feel like they should.
It's as relevant as a doctor playing along with a delusion and calling him a her.
Oh, I see. So... you just have a problem using a restroom that might accommodate for a type of man you don't personally like.
Is it the reflection in the metal box that bothers you? Like, does watching yourself wipe make you self-conscious? Does the trash bin make your safe space not feel so safe? I'm really stretching here trying to find one conceivable reason a trash bin in a stall would offend somebody such as yourself. I can't.
Any bloke who uses a stall on a night out is either useless at planning ahead or a bit worried at how they measure up.
originally posted by: jjsr420
a reply to: SprocketUK
More opinion, which is fine to have, but don't think just having an opinion makes said opinion relevant, or even well thought out. I use stalls because I prefer my privacy when defecating. I don't care how I 'measure up', because it's not a contest. I have a Wife who is happy with me, as I am happy with myself.
originally posted by: jjsr420
Ah. My apologies then. It's difficult to tell inflection via text. Still opinion though lol. Just like everything samerulesapply is saying.
originally posted by: samerulesapply
a reply to: Abysha
I don't believe in safe spaces - they're not regular trash cans.
Ye daren't touch the dirty bin, anyone who uses that as a regular trash can has issues. It's for used sanitary products.
I'm not the one demanding changes be made to suit my instabilities. Quite the opposite.
originally posted by: samerulesapply
a reply to: Abysha
No...you judge me by your own standards - you seem to assume my feelings on this issue are based on me, my personal likes and dislikes...but no.
That's not it at all - it's having an influence and noted effect on young people and it's becoming more and more evident. It's not harmless, it's not right.
It's not about me, it's about how it's affecting other people...not me, personally. Everyone.
You get that concept, right? Other people?
For example - people who are not you?
It's pretty simple.
originally posted by: samerulesapply
a reply to: SprocketUK
Of course it's bs...this whole issue is bs. the mere notion that we're expected to pander to this insantiy is bs and completely ridiculous.
I'm not the one seeking a safe space...what an absurd notion that is. the people demanding we all pretend to suit the insanity of a few are the ones trying to create a safe space.
A space where they can play make believe, fantasy...play your silly fantasies at home behind closed doors.
That's your safe space...int he real world, the outside is not a safe space, never will be or has been. Hurtful things happen, to everyone. Some of us deal with it like men...while others pretend they're women.
I fully defend everyones right to play fantasy games at home, dress up like your favourite superhero or whatever. Nobody sould encroach your personal space, we need to share the rest of the world, compromises are made.
Not outright concessions based on petty strops and demands...safe space!