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originally posted by: kaylaluv
a reply to: Boadicea
You don't seem to understand how gender dysphoria works. It's the kids themselves who are telling the parents how they feel. It's not the parents telling the kids they must be a girl if they want to wear dresses and change their name from Jake to Jenny.
The kids are saying it, and they are saying it without any prompting from anyone, as young as age 2 or 3. Many of these children have never watched TV or been exposed to society's expectation of them. It's some kind of innate awareness that they have on their own.
The parents usually ignore it at this point, assuming it's just some kind of phase. Sometimes it is, but other times, the child just keeps insisting. Then the child gets upset if they are not referred to as the gender they identify with. The parents aren't doing it. The kids are doing it all on their own.
When the child starts to complain to the parents that they want their "boy parts" to fall off so they can be the girl they know they are, what is the parent supposed to say to that? It does no good to tell the child that their parts are fine the way they are. The child does not feel this way. It does no good to ignore it either, as these kids tend to get more upset and depressed to the point of not functioning normally as children anymore.
originally posted by: MEDIKATED
a reply to: onequestion I hear Conor and Mayweather is in the works,,,whats going to happen ? Oh back on subject, did Bruce de schlong himself cause if he did, he is done with the ladies ?
originally posted by: queenofswords
originally posted by: Annee
originally posted by: queenofswords
a reply to: kaylaluv
I'm sure when the time is right monetarily, Jenner will write her/his story.
Why shouldn't Jenner take this opportunity to transition publicly telling his story and getting paid for it.
She should do it for poverty?
What I'm saying, Annee, is when the whole Jenner/Kardashian infatuation by the public begins to wind down and their story gets stale and stops making the millions it currently generates, Jenner will "decide" it is time to write that book and stir up the interest in their story once again. Right now, they're okay. The $$$$$$$ is rolling in. At some point the pop culture fanatics will lose interest and those $$$ will begin to diminish.......THEN the time for his/her tell all book will get written.
originally posted by: Stormdancer777
He denied he was transitioning when he was, so why wouldn't he deny he was transitioning back?
We will see in a couple years,
I have watched the show, he is still attracted to women, but I notice his trans friends like to encourage him to go for a man, they are making him more confused,
“autogynephilia”—from gynephilia (attracted to women) and auto (in the form of oneself).
originally posted by: Boadicea
You tell the kid that there are advantages and disadvantages to being a boy or a girl... you explain that it just seems as though the grass is greener on the other side... you help them understand that life is always going to present challenges and situations that we don't like... and that nothing is perfect, so we do the best we can with what we have.
And most important of all, you tell them and show them that they are loved and liked and accepted just the way they are. No changes or improvements necessary.
originally posted by: Agit8dChop
a reply to: mobiusmale
further proof this kind of practice is majority of the time resulting from mental illness.
originally posted by: ketsuko
a reply to: mobiusmale
It indicates a deep unhappiness with the self in general, not necessarily with any one part of it. Of course, if you were living with the Kardashian harpies, I imagine that would tend to engender a deep dissatisfaction with life, the universe, and everything in it.
originally posted by: queenofswords
originally posted by: Stormdancer777
He denied he was transitioning when he was, so why wouldn't he deny he was transitioning back?
We will see in a couple years,
I have watched the show, he is still attracted to women, but I notice his trans friends like to encourage him to go for a man, they are making him more confused,
“autogynephilia”—from gynephilia (attracted to women) and auto (in the form of oneself).
Can you imagine this poor man/woman's psychological dilemma? He desires a straight woman, but what straight woman is turned on by a transgender woman with a penis and C-cup boobs? No wonder he/she is having trouble finding a meaningful relationship. I feel sadness for him/her.
originally posted by: Agit8dChop
a reply to: mobiusmale
further proof this kind of practice is majority of the time resulting from mental illness.
I think it is a complicated issue and reassignment surgery should be the last resort, many regret it , many commit suicide , many re-transition, I think the medical community is doing a disservice to these people.