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originally posted by: Helious
Except you attached the word "ilk" to it.....
originally posted by: mOjOm
I get the feeling that this "feminist" guy probably gets off on it too. Some guys are like that. They get off on their wives banging other men. It has nothing to do with "Feminism" though as far as I know. He's just kinda pervy like that and that is his fetish. That's my guess anyway.
originally posted by: Seeker Mom
Damn, I wish this had caught on 25 years ago when I first got married.
To think of all the fun I could have had.
originally posted by: LesMisanthrope
a reply to: Konduit
It's garbage, is what it is; and he's stupid.
It isn't a sign of the times if that's what you're worried about.
I'm not saying I condone it , but it isn't my marriage either . So why is it garbage if both adults are consenting, it works for them, and they are not hurting others?
With all the adult finder and Ashley Madison sites out on the web it might be more prevalent than most people think. Sounds like the couple in the OP are just honest with one another.
Affairs have always existed maybe being honest about it might be the sign of the times?
Although I fail to see this a feminist issue, but rather an open marriage.
It's been around for a long time and it's a fetish. The description of this guy sounds exactly right too.
This explained it really well. I've never heard of this term before but have heard of this kind of situation before.
What I am saying is the story, and the fact that we give a damn, is garbage,
originally posted by: Shamrock6
He's not a feminist, he's a cuckold. Big difference.
Seriously though? I don't care what people do in their bedroom. Right up until they talk about how superior they are to others who don't do it.
originally posted by: Helious
If any of you reading this thread are unable to see just how far we have fallen as a country, as a nation and ultimately, as Americans, God have mercy on your soul.
originally posted by: Helious
originally posted by: pl3bscheese
a reply to: Helious
I'd suggest tuning out of the insanity you're filling your head with, and talking with people IRL some more.
Sorry to hear you're having so much trouble finding the power off button? Join in on the tens of millions of Americans who have chosen to take the power back, and chunk that tube. Or choose to remain among the few who actually bother with MSM. Your choice.
I thank you for your concern but to put your small mind at ease, I'm married with children, an amazing job and a ton of friends who are mostly like minded. I talk to plenty of people in "real life" and many of them as I do see the insanity with their own eyes every day.
Perhaps instead of giving unsolicited advice to people who seem to be slightly more aware of our current situation than you are, you should pay more attention to the goings on in our country. Thanks.
Going out alone to hooking up with others was an easy transition. It does work both ways and, yes, I too enjoy sexual carte blanche. I just don’t use mine as much as my wife uses hers. What’s important is equality of opportunity, not outcome.