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originally posted by: EKron
You know, I reread the article linked in the OP then watched the video and read the comments I didn't the first time and may have a slightly different opinion? Had the parents strongly refused to let Jack identify and experiment as Jackie, the consequence one way or the other may have equal significance as allowing it? This would be interesting to look at again in five or six years.
originally posted by: EKron
You know, I reread the article linked in the OP then watched the video and read the comments I didn't the first time and may have a slightly different opinion? Had the parents strongly refused to let Jack identify and experiment as Jackie, the consequence one way or the other may have equal significance as allowing it? This would be interesting to look at again in five or six years.
Do you get the impression he thinks Jackie is going to hit puberty and start menstruating then worry about his sweet daughter dating or is he saying that something will have to be done to keep Jackie from having to go through Jack's puberty? If the latter is the case, is dad prepared for what probably will happen next?
The dad seems pretty certain this isn't a phase but from the article, I'm not so sure they've thought their cunning plan all the way through or left the door completely open for Jack to come back?
So what happens if little Joe decides at 3 he's a girl, so we let him "transition" to Josefine? Then one day, Josefine grows up and hits puberty and realizes she's attracted to girls. Do you now say that Josefine is gay? Is it just barely possible that we allowed Josefine to screw up? Maybe Josefine was just a regular little boy instead of a lesbian trapped in a boy's body, but since we must now validate everyone's reality instead of deciding that there is indeed one objective one for everyone like we used to ... we have actual chaos. Josefine could grow up identifying as Chinese Asian, too. Are you going to validate that reality of his/hers?
originally posted by: ketsuko
So what happens if little Joe decides at 3 he's a girl, so we let him "transition" to Josefine? Then one day, Josefine grows up and hits puberty and realizes she's attracted to girls. Do you now say that Josefine is gay?
This is how far we've fallen and how far society has decayed.
originally posted by: EKron
originally posted by: ketsuko
So what happens if little Joe decides at 3 he's a girl, so we let him "transition" to Josefine? Then one day, Josefine grows up and hits puberty and realizes she's attracted to girls. Do you now say that Josefine is gay?
Ketsuko, you really don't understand any of this do you and it is obvious you don't want to either. Why does this bother you so much because I've seen you post in several other threads with similar topics and always with attitude and not so thinly disguised contempt if not hostility outright. Is it because you just don't like change or can't keep up with it or because you can't label everything black or white? May I ask how old you are or what gen and finally, why is it any of your business at all what Josefine does and how are you affected by it in any way?
This is how far we've fallen and how far society has decayed.
Who's society are you talking about, from what pedestal has it fallen and compared to what has it decayed? "Society" is not fixed at some point in time. It changes and evolves and is cyclically, out with the old and in with the new. Where do you fall in?
originally posted by: Liquesence
I thought of that too. I don't think they should necessarily have adamantly refused, but at least kept it in the home for a few years to see how it progressed.
And i briefly touched on the possible harm later in life (or in a few years) of not allowing it versus allowing it. Which would cause the greater harm, if at all? But that all depends on whether or not, in this case, it is truly (or more) biological or truly (or more) environmental.
If it's mostly environmental then allowing it might prove more harmful (socially), but if it's biological then forbidding or expressing it might prove to be more harmful.
Are my and my family's perspective welcome here?
originally posted by: Liquesence
a reply to: JadeStar
Are my and my family's perspective welcome here?
Absolutely! You and your opinion are most welcome. And thank you for your personal story and your contribution to this thread!
A couple of simple questions:
Do you feel that not being allowed to live your life as your felt from age 3-7 *negatively* impacted your life to this day?
You said you were depressed during *that* time, but you seem happy and successful now.
Do you have any siblings? If so what is their sex and age in relation to you?
Just curious.
I'm glad you were able to finally have things work out for you and that you're happy and living the life you want!
originally posted by: JadeStar
Age 5 began my most unhappy year ever. I remember my dad taking me to the barber and him chopping off all of my hair! I was very sad when he forced me to look in the mirror saying "now that's a handsome young man". I was crying and so sad and SO ANGRY at my dad for forcing me to go there that I stopped talking to him.