Drunk and lonely need advice from you lovely folk.

leopardpimps
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i am haha

There you go !! Boymonkey!!

Good luck!!

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west Yorkshire . where are you from?

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Oddly enough I live in west yorkshire also small world isn't it
Where abouts? pm If you like

Awwww, I see an ATS hook-up!

This is how I'll picture the two of you.

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haha that is crazy if you say u live in leeds i think i am going to fall off my seat .

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Oddly enough I do look a little like the chap lol

boymonkey74
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Oddly enough I live in west yorkshire also

small world isn't it

Where abouts? pm If you like

edit on 7-11-2013 by boymonkey74 because: (no reason given)

yeh sure p.m

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Not quite I live in Dodge known as Brighouse

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Nenothtu said, "go find you a wife at the grocery store. That is where you will find the ones who can cook. "

That said, apparently bars and clubs are not the places to meet a future partner. They are meat markets. If you have 3 failed relationships and they all came from bars and clubs, then this is a place you need to skip in the future, unless of course, you want another ex.

Yes, it gets very lonely being alone. I went 6 years without any sex at all before I married Nenothtu. I met him on ATS, while this is not a dating site, you do know the minds of everyone here. No one makes any bones of their proclivities. You don't have a hard time finding which minds are like and which are polar opposites.

You need to find somewhere that you can meet someone who is actually "right" for you. Not someone who wants to fix you, or just get laid, but someone who is more like your other half. You need to find a place where people are actually themselves...

I recommend list making before deciding to meet someone. I did that, it worked well. I decided I would never be with anyone again, unless they filled every single item on my list. I was happy to be alone if I did not find that person.

When making a list, one must be realistic. ie: no playboy bunnies, models, etc. besides, those types have no brain and are very high maintenance. Average looks, lots of intelligence, and the personality type that suits your personality best, is what is realistic. I made a few exceptions to being picky, since I don't appreciate fat or short... but hey! I got one who is thin and tall... with all the other qualities I wanted in a man!

I simply could not be happier as a result. Yes, it took years... and no, I did not have premarital sex..I think that ruins any serious relationship because your not thinking with your brains anymore after that, and lets be honest, your wits are too important when choosing a life mate to throw out the window in the middle of decision making.

I don't exactly know where to tell you to look, but if you have certain interests, you are very likely to meet the right person for you while you are enjoying those things...

Just have patience.. good things come to those who wait. Just dont shut the door while you do!

i have a pic where i look like her but i don't normally

link

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not far i am in otley to be precise

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Lets head over to this thread and swap tunes

www.abovetopsecret.com...

Online dating has gotten a bad rap from a lot of people. You just have to be careful, and you will end up going out with quite a few people before you find someone.

I met my husband online, and we've been married for 7 years. It can work, but you must go slowly and get to know them first. Exchange emails and texts, etc., and see where it goes from there. You can weed out a lot of the weirdoes if you take your time.

Best of luck to you!

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OMG, I'm psychotic, or psychic, can't figure out the right terms, but I got this right.

Tomorrow I'll be picking lottery tickets!

I have some advice to offer: Stay single.

boymonkey74
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Lets head over to this thread and swap tunes

www.abovetopsecret.com...

Yeah! I just opened! Where 's my Partner! MMMMmmmMm.. hahahah!

Drinks on the house! (Or Pub)

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This is so sweet... it makes me happy!



Oh... and you can pick some numbers for me tomorrow too!

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I love you all

When I have my own private island in the sun you are all invited

Company is the wrong reason to seek a partner. What you need is a friend. A friend who perhaps is looking for a little bit of the same thing you are.

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Alas my best pal of 15 years stole one of the girls I loved so I find it hard to trust pals, and the ones I do are far away

In my bed on my birthday btw lol