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grandmakdw
Greatest I am
grandmakdw
Another side to the coin is:
How many husbands does Jesus allow?
Jesus actually never addressed that issue at all that I can tell.
My father and hubby both have masters of divinity degrees and from all the bible I have seen and read, that issue is not addressed.
If not expressly forbidden, is it then ok?
This is an important issue today as there is a huge shortage of women in the world and the shortage is growing larger each day with sex selective abortion and female infanticide as commonplace as it is in the world today.
Soon in order for most men to actually have a long term female partner, ie wife, there will have to be polygamy, with one wife and multiple husbands.
Watch and wait, you'll see.
The only other way to deal with the problem is the promotion of homosexuality, which we see most governments engaged in to avoid the problems that inevitably result from a huge male to female imbalance.
I see us as accepting gays as fully equal and no longer subject to discrimination and denigration.
I see no government promoting gayness. It is not a choice and I am surprised that one of your intelligence would think of it that way.
As to a woman with many husband's, I do not see this as a norm, because men are prone to invest in their own genetics and children more than women whose motherly instincts, --- I think, --- do not really care about the genetic factors. I qualify this by saying that we likely all have different degrees of this focus in all of us.
Regards
DL
Governments only allow and encourage that which is in their own best interest. With nearly every TV show and nearly every movie having a gay character and the governmental norming of an activity by less than 6% of the population, something is going on.
The party line is exactly what you stated. I never said "gayness" was a choice, I taught human development, and it is quite clear that for about 3-4% of the population it is not a choice and we should not discriminate. However, there definitely is an environmental component to homosexuality hence we see around 6% engaging in it.
How do we know this about governments? Russia right now is having a large birth deficit. So to try and "cure" this problem, the government has outlawed homosexuality. Putin even openly said that homosexuality does not create children.
China to address the imbalance in the male to female ratio has officially outlawed abortion for the "allowed" child if it is for sex selection, thus forcing the poor who can not afford to circumvent this privately to have more girls.
Not for the sake of population but to prevent more than half of its population from not having a mate, thus the rise of prostitution (causing massive health problems), child brides, female abductions etc.
The point I was making was not that homosexuality was bad.
The true question for Christian's in future society which sex selects for males should be, will in the near future polygamy with one wife and several husbands be allowed? We currently can take care of the genetic issue. When trying to get pregnant the wife has unprotected sex only with the husband who wants a child., with the others she can use a diaphragm, foam, and the other husbands use condoms. There, simple genetic fix.
edit on 24-10-2013 by grandmakdw because: delete unnecessary comment
Unity_99
One.
and the two will become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one flesh.
Greatest I am
Unity_99
One.
and the two will become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one flesh.
Yet God favored Kings David and Solomon.
Thanks for the poorly thought out reply.
Regards
DL
Unity_99
reply to post by Greatest I am
Now, even if you ignore all of what I just said, Christians follow Christ's words and beleive he came to create a contract of love with the people. They are not Hebrew but Christian.
edit on 24-10-2013 by Unity_99 because: (no reason given)
WarminIndy
Greatest I am
Unity_99
One.
and the two will become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one flesh.
Yet God favored Kings David and Solomon.
Thanks for the poorly thought out reply.
Regards
DL
And yet we see the crap lives their families had because of it.
Now do you think it was OK in God's eyes?
Let's see, David could not build the temple, Solomon was carried away into idolatry. Three of David's sons died, a daughter raped by a brother, Solomon held a lot of wisdom but carried away into idolatry, his grandsons lost the kingdom, so yeah, I can see how that worked out really well for them.
God was not pleased and said so. But since David and Solomon were both products of a Semitic culture and since the Egyptian pharaohs married their siblings, we can see how it just didn't work out so well.
You know, the Bible doesn't also just tell what they did, it also tells the outcomes, good and bad, of what they did.
Abraham didn't marry Hagar, but in those days in that Semitic culture, as it was dishonorable for a wife not to have children, Sarah chose to have Abraham have a child with Hagar, because in those days, they had this concept of children born belonged to the wife. So they actually did this thing where the woman giving birth would sit on the lap of the wife, because it was like a surrogacy. That's where the concept originated, and it wasn't just in the Hebraic custom. We see how well that worked out also.
Judah was supposed to give Thamar to his youngest son in what is called Levirate marriage. But since Judah was too stubborn to follow it, and losing sons, didn't follow the already established Levirate marriage custom in the Semitic culture. But we see how that worked out.
The only one of the patriarchs with one wife was Isaac. Moses came later and even though he was married to Zipporah, she left him over circumcision. After she left him, years later he got a new wife.
So you seem to not be able to reconcile the difference in a custom and what was acceptable. Jacob went to Aram and there met his wives and was bound to the custom of Aram, that's why Leah had to be married first. It was the custom. And we see how well that worked out.
So you see, just because man thinks it is a good idea, doesn't mean God does. And since God ordained the first marriage between one man and one woman and was the very first covenant relationship for humans, remember that covenants are made by the shedding of blood, the breaking of the hymen indicated a covenant was made.
That's why in those ancient days, when a man and woman were married, they had sexual relations on a white sheet, that was presented the next day to the public for the purpose of showing that she had been a virgin and that the covenant was established between them.
Marriage is a covenant, the first one ordained for humans. And God honors the undefiled marriage bed. So that means one man and one woman, because that's how God designed it. And since God designed it and honors marriage between a man and a woman, that means He is pleased with marriage between one man and one woman. Therefore, no matter how many times people try to find other ways around it, it simply isn't honored by God in those other ways.
Jesus taught that if a man can't keep his eyes to himself, then that man is breaking the covenant with his wife. And because the man thought he could beat his wife, he broke the covenant with her. That's why God said "enjoy the WIFE of thy youth". God doesn't limit or say sex is bad between a husband and wife, it's outside of that God does not honor.
And the Jews have a marriage contract called the Kettubah, and it was the responsibility, now get this, of the man to please his wife in all things sexual, or she could divorce him. So it's not buying or selling of women, because she gets to dictate the contract.
I just don't think people know cultural histories, they just assume a lot because of what someone else told them.edit on 10/24/2013 by WarminIndy because: (no reason given)
WarminIndy
reply to post by akushla99
Do you have a problem with us presenting the words of Christ as they are written? As Jesus said to Satan...IT IS WRITTEN.
I gave you the words of Jesus, and not only that, since you first attached this to the Bible, then why don't you allow the Bible to defend itself?
If you wanted a generalized statement about how God works, then why didn't you ask "How many wives does Buddha allow" or "How many wives does Quetzlcoatl allow". Since you attached it to Jesus, then you are going to have to take what the scriptures say.
Not only that, I gave you a HISTORICAL reference to the time that was questioned throughout the thread. But as Jesus is the SAME yesterday, today and forever, the original words apply. Christians can't change what Jesus said to make it palatable to this generation, that's a completely different religion altogether. But since you attached it to what Jesus allows, then you are going to have to take the IT IS WRITTEN.
It stands for all time, whether you like or not. Making a whole new philosophy about "nuggets" just means you don't really know what the scripture says, you just want a new religion. So here you go, as someone who does know Jesus, I will tell you He does not change and since He is the Word of God made flesh, as the scriptures are the word of God, then the scriptures have your answer.
akushla99
WarminIndy
reply to post by akushla99
Do you have a problem with us presenting the words of Christ as they are written? As Jesus said to Satan...IT IS WRITTEN.
I gave you the words of Jesus, and not only that, since you first attached this to the Bible, then why don't you allow the Bible to defend itself?
If you wanted a generalized statement about how God works, then why didn't you ask "How many wives does Buddha allow" or "How many wives does Quetzlcoatl allow". Since you attached it to Jesus, then you are going to have to take what the scriptures say.
Not only that, I gave you a HISTORICAL reference to the time that was questioned throughout the thread. But as Jesus is the SAME yesterday, today and forever, the original words apply. Christians can't change what Jesus said to make it palatable to this generation, that's a completely different religion altogether. But since you attached it to what Jesus allows, then you are going to have to take the IT IS WRITTEN.
It stands for all time, whether you like or not. Making a whole new philosophy about "nuggets" just means you don't really know what the scripture says, you just want a new religion. So here you go, as someone who does know Jesus, I will tell you He does not change and since He is the Word of God made flesh, as the scriptures are the word of God, then the scriptures have your answer.
You can choose to fold this piece of paper any way you like...you've just done exactly what I said you would do...
Do you 'knoe' Jesus like your brother or your sister?...your best friend that you can go and ask...LIKE RIGHT NOW?...I'm waiting to hear what he says (recent immediate past tense).
Be put on notice...I assail NO-ONES belief...as long as they legitimise that it is a belief...after that psychological line has been rubbed out and dismissed...we are all fair game...the trick will be in resolving CURRENT knowledge with knowledge that has had the opportunity to be tampered with (specifically the little golden book)...my inquest is a fair one...ask the source for an answer - NOW...not, this is what is written on the tattered patchwork quilt...
Can you do this?
Å99
akushla99
akushla99
WarminIndy
reply to post by akushla99
Do you have a problem with us presenting the words of Christ as they are written? As Jesus said to Satan...IT IS WRITTEN.
I gave you the words of Jesus, and not only that, since you first attached this to the Bible, then why don't you allow the Bible to defend itself?
If you wanted a generalized statement about how God works, then why didn't you ask "How many wives does Buddha allow" or "How many wives does Quetzlcoatl allow". Since you attached it to Jesus, then you are going to have to take what the scriptures say.
Not only that, I gave you a HISTORICAL reference to the time that was questioned throughout the thread. But as Jesus is the SAME yesterday, today and forever, the original words apply. Christians can't change what Jesus said to make it palatable to this generation, that's a completely different religion altogether. But since you attached it to what Jesus allows, then you are going to have to take the IT IS WRITTEN.
It stands for all time, whether you like or not. Making a whole new philosophy about "nuggets" just means you don't really know what the scripture says, you just want a new religion. So here you go, as someone who does know Jesus, I will tell you He does not change and since He is the Word of God made flesh, as the scriptures are the word of God, then the scriptures have your answer.
You can choose to fold this piece of paper any way you like...you've just done exactly what I said you would do...
Do you 'knoe' Jesus like your brother or your sister?...your best friend that you can go and ask...LIKE RIGHT NOW?...I'm waiting to hear what he says (recent immediate past tense).
Be put on notice...I assail NO-ONES belief...as long as they legitimise that it is a belief...after that psychological line has been rubbed out and dismissed...we are all fair game...the trick will be in resolving CURRENT knowledge with knowledge that has had the opportunity to be tampered with (specifically the little golden book)...my inquest is a fair one...ask the source for an answer - NOW...not, this is what is written on the tattered patchwork quilt...
Can you do this?
Å99
There is a special flavour of discomfort when a 'friend' does not answer you directly...
Å99
WarminIndy
akushla99
akushla99
WarminIndy
reply to post by akushla99
Do you have a problem with us presenting the words of Christ as they are written? As Jesus said to Satan...IT IS WRITTEN.
I gave you the words of Jesus, and not only that, since you first attached this to the Bible, then why don't you allow the Bible to defend itself?
If you wanted a generalized statement about how God works, then why didn't you ask "How many wives does Buddha allow" or "How many wives does Quetzlcoatl allow". Since you attached it to Jesus, then you are going to have to take what the scriptures say.
Not only that, I gave you a HISTORICAL reference to the time that was questioned throughout the thread. But as Jesus is the SAME yesterday, today and forever, the original words apply. Christians can't change what Jesus said to make it palatable to this generation, that's a completely different religion altogether. But since you attached it to what Jesus allows, then you are going to have to take the IT IS WRITTEN.
It stands for all time, whether you like or not. Making a whole new philosophy about "nuggets" just means you don't really know what the scripture says, you just want a new religion. So here you go, as someone who does know Jesus, I will tell you He does not change and since He is the Word of God made flesh, as the scriptures are the word of God, then the scriptures have your answer.
You can choose to fold this piece of paper any way you like...you've just done exactly what I said you would do...
Do you 'knoe' Jesus like your brother or your sister?...your best friend that you can go and ask...LIKE RIGHT NOW?...I'm waiting to hear what he says (recent immediate past tense).
Be put on notice...I assail NO-ONES belief...as long as they legitimise that it is a belief...after that psychological line has been rubbed out and dismissed...we are all fair game...the trick will be in resolving CURRENT knowledge with knowledge that has had the opportunity to be tampered with (specifically the little golden book)...my inquest is a fair one...ask the source for an answer - NOW...not, this is what is written on the tattered patchwork quilt...
Can you do this?
Å99
There is a special flavour of discomfort when a 'friend' does not answer you directly...
Å99
Do you not take what your friend says after it was already said? How many times do you have to ask your friend the same question, expecting a different answer? That's the definition of insanity.
The answer was given, if you don't like the answer, take it up with Him. He doesn't change, His answer remains the same, forever. That's the point you need to get, you aren't going to get a different answer out of Him.
Perhaps you want Jesus to take you down to Strawberry Fields, Forever? Nothing to get hung up about.
The real answer was given, it's not going to change. There is no real Christian who is going to tell you differently, Jesus is the same yesterday, today and forever. I know Him today, and if He is the same today as He was yesterday, then the answer remains the same today as it did yesterday. And it will be the same tomorrow.
WarminIndy
akushla99
akushla99
WarminIndy
reply to post by akushla99
Do you have a problem with us presenting the words of Christ as they are written? As Jesus said to Satan...IT IS WRITTEN.
I gave you the words of Jesus, and not only that, since you first attached this to the Bible, then why don't you allow the Bible to defend itself?
If you wanted a generalized statement about how God works, then why didn't you ask "How many wives does Buddha allow" or "How many wives does Quetzlcoatl allow". Since you attached it to Jesus, then you are going to have to take what the scriptures say.
Not only that, I gave you a HISTORICAL reference to the time that was questioned throughout the thread. But as Jesus is the SAME yesterday, today and forever, the original words apply. Christians can't change what Jesus said to make it palatable to this generation, that's a completely different religion altogether. But since you attached it to what Jesus allows, then you are going to have to take the IT IS WRITTEN.
It stands for all time, whether you like or not. Making a whole new philosophy about "nuggets" just means you don't really know what the scripture says, you just want a new religion. So here you go, as someone who does know Jesus, I will tell you He does not change and since He is the Word of God made flesh, as the scriptures are the word of God, then the scriptures have your answer.
You can choose to fold this piece of paper any way you like...you've just done exactly what I said you would do...
Do you 'knoe' Jesus like your brother or your sister?...your best friend that you can go and ask...LIKE RIGHT NOW?...I'm waiting to hear what he says (recent immediate past tense).
Be put on notice...I assail NO-ONES belief...as long as they legitimise that it is a belief...after that psychological line has been rubbed out and dismissed...we are all fair game...the trick will be in resolving CURRENT knowledge with knowledge that has had the opportunity to be tampered with (specifically the little golden book)...my inquest is a fair one...ask the source for an answer - NOW...not, this is what is written on the tattered patchwork quilt...
Can you do this?
Å99
There is a special flavour of discomfort when a 'friend' does not answer you directly...
Å99
Do you not take what your friend says after it was already said? How many times do you have to ask your friend the same question, expecting a different answer? That's the definition of insanity.
The answer was given, if you don't like the answer, take it up with Him. He doesn't change, His answer remains the same, forever. That's the point you need to get, you aren't going to get a different answer out of Him.
Perhaps you want Jesus to take you down to Strawberry Fields, Forever? Nothing to get hung up about.
The real answer was given, it's not going to change. There is no real Christian who is going to tell you differently, Jesus is the same yesterday, today and forever. I know Him today, and if He is the same today as He was yesterday, then the answer remains the same today as it did yesterday. And it will be the same tomorrow.
WarminIndy
reply to post by akushla99
Whether I live or not, or have belief in it or not, the answer is going to remain the same.
God doesn't need me in order to make a statement. He made the statement long before I ever existed. So whether I believe or not, doesn't matter ultimately. The truth remains the same.
My existence nor neither my belief created Jesus or His words. He was before me. So my being here doesn't really matter to the subject at hand.
I can only tell you what was written before me, how it applies today and tomorrow. I was born after the Constitution, but it will be here whether or not I am, but as long as I am an American citizen, it's the law over me as a citizen.
Yesterday He meant One wife, today He means one wife, and tomorrow He means one wife. It's just that simple as has nothing to do with whether or not I believe it.
WarminIndy
reply to post by akushla99
Whether I live or not, or have belief in it or not, the answer is going to remain the same.
God doesn't need me in order to make a statement. He made the statement long before I ever existed. So whether I believe or not, doesn't matter ultimately. The truth remains the same.
My existence nor neither my belief created Jesus or His words. He was before me. So my being here doesn't really matter to the subject at hand.
I can only tell you what was written before me, how it applies today and tomorrow. I was born after the Constitution, but it will be here whether or not I am, but as long as I am an American citizen, it's the law over me as a citizen.
Yesterday He meant One wife, today He means one wife, and tomorrow He means one wife. It's just that simple as has nothing to do with whether or not I believe it.
Can you understand even how it works with a personal relationship with Christ? I live now, in this time. Nothing He says or does needs me to exist for Him to exist. As I live now in this time, knowing Jesus is knowing Him now, and knowing that He has never changed, then I can have assurance and hope that what was said before still stands today and tomorrow. So He wants me to know what He said by the Bible, because that's how I will know to judge whatever spirit is trying to communicate with me.
If something doesn't appear as the Bible has described it, then I don't even have to listen to it. That's the point about personal relationship. If it is Jesus, then He has to act according to His word. It's just that simple. That's the answer you are getting from me, no deflection, straightforward, Jesus assures us in His word that He does not change, and the Bible is how we judge that by. Do you get it now?
edit on 10/24/2013 by WarminIndy because: (no reason given)
Chamberf=6
I thought that the very EARLIEST of the gospels was written 70 years after the fact. Many books were written 100-200 years after.
So who's to say with any certainty what Jesus said or he didn't?
Think of the kids game "telephone".edit on 10/24/2013 by Chamberf=6 because: (no reason given)
...or, how many wives does Jesus or God allow (from thier own mouth...without the chinese whispers game [telephones])?
Chamberf=6
reply to post by akushla99
I was going by the carbon dating of the earliest known manuscripts of the books. Not the Council of Nicaea in 325 under Constantine where they picked and chose what went in the "official" bible.