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They can choose not to sleep with a women and if they do, they can choose to wrap it up, it just takes some personal responsibility.
Originally posted by luciddream
reply to post by SearchLightsInc
They can choose not to sleep with a women and if they do, they can choose to wrap it up, it just takes some personal responsibility.
What? are you serious? only Men chose to sleep? women just lay there and take it?
No wonder this society is wreaking in double standard, because people don't even realize that they are doing it.
Yes women can choose to wrap it as well, female condoms are available to use. However, contraceptives are not 100% and sometimes it does happen, among alcohol, drugs and other instances.
Yes, people do need responsibility, that's includes women to open up for men. What nerve people thinking it is a one sided action.
Its like saying " Women should pay men for giving them sperm"
Originally posted by SearchLightsInc
Originally posted by generik
Free will kind of gets taken out of it when you have to carry the resulting child or attain an abortion, both initiate a responsibility on the woman's part, so your "free will for women" nonsense is void.
I dont condone women having babies so that they can be kept by the state, i think its bad for society all around.
Men do have a say btw, they can choose not to sleep with a women and if they do, they can choose to wrap it up, it just takes some personal responsibility.
You're seriously suggesting that the courts should chase men around so that they can either accept/deny fatherhood - Waste of money & time.
You might be surprised to hear that not all women who get pregnant are super sluttish hood rats who cant keep their legs shut :O!
No one wants to move 6 times a year. Maybe the child would prefer to live with 1 parent and see the other on weekends? Uprooting a child for 1 year at a time could be disastrous for them socially, as ive said, it just doesnt fit in with real life.
Yes but your "solutions" arent really viable.
You sound like an angry teenage boy with no perception of how the world works :S
Originally posted by kaylaluv
reply to post by jtma508
Off topic, but I'd like to know what kind of job your ex had that paid $85k/year for 30 hrs/month. I want that job!
In utero paternity testing is expensive and may not be covered by medical insurance. There is also the risk of damage to the fetus or the amniotic sac. In rare cases, the fluid will continue to leak from the sac and the baby will need to be delivered or you have a miscarriage. Most often, the court system will need to be involved for a doctor to consent to prenatal paternity testing.
shouldn't the man have the equal right to say he doesn't want anything to do with the child?
Do you know how much i hate seeing women with 2+ kids living off the state and still shagging about?
Originally posted by FreedomEntered
reply to post by luciddream
Its a 50/50 thing for goodness sakes.
Originally posted by Agent008
What about fathers who want nothing more than to be part of the child's life but the mother wants nothing to do with the father and refuses access rights. This happened to a good friend of mine he is a great father but the mother fought tooth and nail to restrict his rights to see his child on a regular basis. When the courts ordered the mother to let the father see his son at least twice a week she moved to another state, giving only one days notice to the father, he didn't even get to say bye. Now he still pays child support (garnishing his wage) and lives a sad lonely life... very sad to see.