posted on Feb, 13 2013 @ 10:55 AM
we were together a year and a half. it was a long distance relationship but things were great. we would spend every weekend with each other, go out
and enjoy each others company. during the week we would text all throughout the day and every night we would either skype or have long phone
conversations. we were serious and planning on moving into together and getting married.
well things got very stagnant. everytime we would see each other he was either too sick or too tired or just didnt feel like doing anything. so for
months on end every visit was in bed the WHOLE time while he either slept or we would rent movies.
the texts went down to maybe 3 a day...the phone calls maybe twice a week for only 15 minutes because he was too tired or too sick or i never got a
phone call cause he fell asleep, we talked about it numerous times and each time he said he would change.
well monday night he pulled the same thing....he called, i did ALL the talking while he sat there and breathed and then said he had to go. so i
brought it to his attention AGAIN, for a long distance relationship to work there has to be alot of communication in between the times of seeing each
other. well he swore up and down things would change and begged for another chance. so the next day i was happy hoping to see things change. well i
barely got any texts, i called him once during the day, and again I did all the talking and then he said he had to go. later on that night, no phone
call as he promised.
so i ended it for good this time. ive had enough of the excuses. no one is that sick or tired that they cant pick up the phone to call the woman they
love so much.
its a shame too...just the other day I bought him one of those big valentine cards cause we were going to celebrate this coming weekend.....oh well. I
never had luck with men amyway, but i should get the attention and respect i deserve, i wont settle. so i guess its back to bieng single.