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says he's in love with me, but still sleeps with lots of women.
Originally posted by jziegler
reply to post by ascension211
Thank you, I've felt that way at times, I've told him to slow down and he doesn't want to hear it, keeps saying he's not my ex, but why do I feel like I'm having deja vu, seems like that's what they all say. Thanks for the advice. He did text me the other day and say thank you. I asked him for what, he said for being there for him and being with him when he needs someone to talk to and trust.
Originally posted by jziegler
Ok so I'll explain my situation. Back in Nov 2010 I threw my fiance out of the house. He wanted me to choose between him, my job, or my family, you guessed right as to what I chose.
I met this guy through my cousin who promised he was nothing like my ex fiance. He told me he would take care of me and make me happy.
Fast forward to Feb 2011, I moved in with him.
Shortly after, he wouldn't allow me to go to the bar by myself, had to know where I was going all the time, who I was with, etc. I didn't realize he was being controlling til it was too late. He started becoming controlling, then possessive, then downright nasty. He would verbally and physically abuse me to the point of me wanting to kill myself.
I finally had enough of being a secret. (I was a secret to his baby mama). So June 2012 came around and I finally confronted him about being a secret. He flips out and acts like he's ending the relationship. After 3 days I find a place of my own, he tries keeping me in his apartment for another week with sorries and he didn't mean to hurt me, blah blah blah. One day I was doing the dishes decided to make a run for it. My purse was near me and the back door was next to me. I just grabbed my keys and purse and ran out of the door and into my car before he can get off the couch. That was the last I seen of him.
So I've been living on my own since July 2012 and in Oct 2012 decided it was time for me to move back to my moms so I can help rediscover who I am. I'll never be able to go back to who I was and you never realize how strong you are until strong is the only choice you have.