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Originally posted by Itisnowagain
reply to post by satron
And who is it that can meet those needs? What is an 'emotional need'?
Do people expect those needs to be met and by who?edit on 10-6-2012 by Itisnowagain because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Itisnowagain
reply to post by satron
I will be happy when.........but i cannot be happy until.
Who is it that can satisfy you when there appears to be emotional suffering?edit on 10-6-2012 by Itisnowagain because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by satron
"I will be happy when.....but I cannot be happy until."
Most of them that say that don't even know what they are talking about, and when they reach the goal, it wasn't what they envisioned, and so they trudge on to a different thing that will make them "happy".
Think about this. If everyone became happy from the first thing that made them that way, then we'd all be playing with our childhood rattles and snuggling with our teddy bears.
Originally posted by UltimateSkeptic1
I was having a conversation today with a friend about her divorce. She has been emotionally suffering for 8 months now over this.
I also have another friend who was divorced 2 months ago under very similar circumstances. And yet she was only sad for a couple of days, at most, then got on with her life and is generally happy.
I also have rich friends who are very happy, and rich friends who are very depressed.
So how is it when external circumstances are similar, one person can be happy, and another suffer?
What causes emotional suffering?
It seems to me that if we can figure this out, and teach how to be happy instead of suffer, the entire world can evolve into something much greater than what we have today.
Originally posted by absolutely
reply to post by jiggerj
how can u share 16 years with someone u cant respect as urself, make ur expressions about anything empty of truth
Originally posted by absolutely
reply to post by EncompassAll
depression is the opposite to suffer, so u prove the insensitive u r to suffering fact in the world while never in suffer urself
suffer is the struggle for living right that exist while forced to accept the will rejection as constant fact
suffer is the dynamic positive sense in constant strike terms down
suffer is the objective conception of negative superiority to positive sense
depression is the opposite to suffer
depression is the rejection of being, in absence of will the acceptance of negative superiority upon all and oneself