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Originally posted by MountainLaurel
reply to post by Furbs
Well, I think many people would agree with you, but for myself, I do need and want comfort from men, and I do believe it is because of the "natural" instincts that I was "born" with....trust me when I say, I have tried to "over power" these feelings with "logic"....and so I have been told I'm smart, high IQ, gifted class as child, but it doesn't change the reality, that I feel "lost" without the support of Men.
Originally posted by MountainLaurel
reply to post by Furbs
Well, I think many people would agree with you, but for myself, I do need and want comfort from men, and I do believe it is because of the "natural" instincts that I was "born" with....trust me when I say, I have tried to "over power" these feelings with "logic"....and so I have been told I'm smart, high IQ, gifted class as child, but it doesn't change the reality, that I feel "lost" without the support of Men.
Originally posted by Furbs
reply to post by SplitInfinity
How does your meandering reply relate in any way to the post your referenced?
Originally posted by Furbs
Originally posted by MountainLaurel
reply to post by Furbs
Well, I think many people would agree with you, but for myself, I do need and want comfort from men, and I do believe it is because of the "natural" instincts that I was "born" with....trust me when I say, I have tried to "over power" these feelings with "logic"....and so I have been told I'm smart, high IQ, gifted class as child, but it doesn't change the reality, that I feel "lost" without the support of Men.
And your own opinion is valid, as it relates to yourself, but to say that all women feel this way based on your experiences is a bit egocentric. All women are not like you. All men are not like me.
Originally posted by MountainLaurel
reply to post by SplitInfinity
I thought your song was great...and I will have to read it again with the "insight" of your last post....I'm at a loss for words, "very cool".....lol...TY...♫
Originally posted by SplitInfinity
Originally posted by Furbs
reply to post by SplitInfinity
How does your meandering reply relate in any way to the post your referenced?
I thought I was clear but for you...who I am worried about...I will be specific to your posts. I am well aware that this topic has to do with some Men...such as yourself...feeling as if there is a double standard and that there is no Equality as far as certain issues that some unfortunate Men must endure.
My post was intended to try to make you understand that regardless of the Unfairness of certain Laws as the pertain to a Mans rights....I am hoping that it will not CONSUME you with Hatred and Hopelessness. I am not familiar enough with you to know your specific circumstances or issues...but I do understand that dwelling on a perceived injustice will only hurt YOU...and will do nothing to help you.
Some of your statements have shown me that you have either sworn off Women or at the very least...caused you to group all women in the same grouping. They are not all like this and as I have said...whatever happened to you...deep down inside...your Subconscious KNEW it was a possibility. But I believe you ignored this warning and because of your not paying attention to what a part of you was trying to say...allowed yourself to get Hurt...and even worse...be victimized.
I have friends who have gone through the same thing and they were raked over the Hot Coals and NOTHING HURTS MORE than being tortured by someone you loved. It is in this aspect I urge you to LET GO OF YOUR ANGER as this will help you release the Pain. I wish you NO ILL WILL and hope anything I have said...whether I am off the mark or am dead on matters not as much as your WELL BEING and I have seen first hand a Man loose EVERYTHING and they had gone through a Divorce just before loosing part of their right Hip and thus leg and he was not with me but made it back to the States...he died because of a Blood Clot...but more anger and pain was shown by Him directed toward his ex-wife than the RPG....and she tried not to even allow a dying Man the chance to see his Kids. I told him to let go but it is not so easy. He died with Hate in his Heart.
As far as I know...although I don't know for certain...you are physically whole...Yes? You HAVE EVERYTHING AHEAD OF YOU! THE WORLD IS YOURS! And this my friend is the way you must look at it. Split Infinity