Late 30s, recently divorced...all I can think about is women in early 20s. Creepy or natural?

reply to post by galadofwarthethird


Turtles? Are you serious? I'm glad I wasn't drinking anything at the time, otherwise I'd have soiled my keyboard.

Who'd thought turtles? Dang, I wish I knew that 20 years ago. LMAO.


I have dogs. Take your dog for a walk in the park, and the girls go all squeamish, he's soooo cute does he bite can I pet him?

I have never saw anyone walking their turtle in the park. How original.

reply to post by Gazrok


It doesn't matter what the guy would do or be like. Young girls aren't going to find a 40 year old man appealing. Do you find a grandma aged woman attractive? Think about it

I'm not hating just stating the facts here. I'm in my late 30s also and it's normal to find younger females physically attractive. But any chicks that're in their early 20s that actually have serious relationships with someone double their ages are either gold diggers or have father issues. You just got divorced, go knock yourself out with what you are attracted to but just be careful. Things might NOT end the way you wanted to...

Originally posted by mnmcandiez
reply to post by Gazrok

 

It doesn't matter what the guy would do or be like. Young girls aren't going to find a 40 year old man appealing. Do you find a grandma aged woman attractive? Think about it

Wrong!! Im older and I get my arse chased all the time by ladies in their 20's!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Originally posted by blackrain17
I'm not hating just stating the facts here. I'm in my late 30s also and it's normal to find younger females physically attractive. But any chicks that're in their early 20s that actually have serious relationships with someone double their ages are either gold diggers or have father issues. You just got divorced, go knock yourself out with what you are attracted to but just be careful. Things might NOT end the way you wanted to...

edit on 22-11-2011 by blackrain17 because: (no reason given)

Absolute niave tosh! The worlds a big place and cultures vary so much!

Originally posted by RP2SticksOfDynamite

Originally posted by mnmcandiez
reply to post by Gazrok

 

It doesn't matter what the guy would do or be like. Young girls aren't going to find a 40 year old man appealing. Do you find a grandma aged woman attractive? Think about it

Wrong!! Im older and I get my arse chased all the time by ladies in their 20's!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So, RP2Sticks, are you or are you not married? A previous post led me to believe you might be married to a woman much younger than you and that it works. Is this the case for you or not? Any details? Who do you know that is actually married to someone much younger who's been married for at least 10 - 15 years?

Originally posted by Deetermined

Originally posted by RP2SticksOfDynamite

Originally posted by mnmcandiez
reply to post by Gazrok

 

It doesn't matter what the guy would do or be like. Young girls aren't going to find a 40 year old man appealing. Do you find a grandma aged woman attractive? Think about it

Wrong!! Im older and I get my arse chased all the time by ladies in their 20's!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So, RP2Sticks, are you or are you not married? A previous post led me to believe you might be married to a woman much younger than you and that it works. Is this the case for you or not? Any details? Who do you know that is actually married to someone much younger who's been married for at least 10 - 15 years?

Like I said I know what I am talking about!!!!!!!!!
Also I have many friends who have many friends who have a younger wife and children and most of them are in stable long term relationships, 6, 8, 9, 11, 14, 18, 26 years!!! I could go on!! And many of their wifes adore and take real care of their men!!!!!!!!!

Also in many non western cultures it is quite normal to have significant age differences!!!

Big world out there!!!!!!!!!

Making statements without personal experience and knowledge is a fatally flawed stance!!!

Originally posted by RP2SticksOfDynamite

Like I said I know what I am talking about!!!!!!!!!
Also I have many friends who have many friends who have a younger wife and children and most of them are in stable long term relationships, 6, 8, 9, 11, 14, 18, 26 years!!! I could go on!! And many of their wifes adore and take real care of their men!!!!!!!!!

Also in many non western cultures it is quite normal to have significant age differences!!!

Big world out there!!!!!!!!!

Making statements without personal experience and knowledge is a fatally flawed stance!!!

Yes, it is a big world out there and I know arranged marriages exist too.

Where are you and your friends of friends from?

reply to post by redbarron626


This is THE other side..The non conspiracy forum.
and the subforum is relationships.

So it's a good place.

Originally posted by Deetermined

Originally posted by RP2SticksOfDynamite

Like I said I know what I am talking about!!!!!!!!!
Also I have many friends who have many friends who have a younger wife and children and most of them are in stable long term relationships, 6, 8, 9, 11, 14, 18, 26 years!!! I could go on!! And many of their wifes adore and take real care of their men!!!!!!!!!

Also in many non western cultures it is quite normal to have significant age differences!!!

Big world out there!!!!!!!!!

Making statements without personal experience and knowledge is a fatally flawed stance!!!

Yes, it is a big world out there and I know arranged marriages exist too.

Where are you and your friends of friends from?

You are very nosey!
And it dont matter where people are from. But to humour you..............UK, Australia, USA, New Zealand, Norway, Sweden, France, Malaysia, Japan and so on.

Your last post was blank but I found it more appealling!

reply to post by RP2SticksOfDynamite


how old are you?

Originally posted by Stryc9nine
reply to post by RP2SticksOfDynamite

 

how old are you?

If I showed you a photo you would believe me! But I not a baby! Much holder than the OP.

My wife is 27!!! And she loves it!

Originally posted by RP2SticksOfDynamite

Originally posted by Deetermined

Originally posted by RP2SticksOfDynamite

Like I said I know what I am talking about!!!!!!!!!
Also I have many friends who have many friends who have a younger wife and children and most of them are in stable long term relationships, 6, 8, 9, 11, 14, 18, 26 years!!! I could go on!! And many of their wifes adore and take real care of their men!!!!!!!!!

Also in many non western cultures it is quite normal to have significant age differences!!!

Big world out there!!!!!!!!!

Making statements without personal experience and knowledge is a fatally flawed stance!!!

Yes, it is a big world out there and I know arranged marriages exist too.

Where are you and your friends of friends from?

You are very nosey!
And it dont matter where people are from. But to humour you..............UK, Australia, USA, New Zealand, Norway, Sweden, France, Malaysia, Japan and so on.

Your last post was blank but I found it more appealling!

Nosey? This website is about sharing and truth. And quite frankly, you just don't come across as possessing any of it. You have plenty of arrogance though. Something that only a child would put up with, so it might explain you're particular circumstance.

Originally posted by RP2SticksOfDynamite
reply to post by FailedProphet

 

Its healthy mate. Im a lot older and I do the same. Infact I have often!

Go for it! They like experience and a mature chap who can hack it good!

Example. This doesn't sound so "mature" to me.

Originally posted by Deetermined

Originally posted by RP2SticksOfDynamite

Originally posted by Deetermined

Originally posted by RP2SticksOfDynamite

Like I said I know what I am talking about!!!!!!!!!
Also I have many friends who have many friends who have a younger wife and children and most of them are in stable long term relationships, 6, 8, 9, 11, 14, 18, 26 years!!! I could go on!! And many of their wifes adore and take real care of their men!!!!!!!!!

Also in many non western cultures it is quite normal to have significant age differences!!!

Big world out there!!!!!!!!!

Making statements without personal experience and knowledge is a fatally flawed stance!!!

Yes, it is a big world out there and I know arranged marriages exist too.

Where are you and your friends of friends from?

You are very nosey!
And it dont matter where people are from. But to humour you..............UK, Australia, USA, New Zealand, Norway, Sweden, France, Malaysia, Japan and so on.

Your last post was blank but I found it more appealling!

Nosey? This website is about sharing and truth. And quite frankly, you just don't come across as possessing any of it. You have plenty of arrogance though. Something that only a child would put up with, so it might explain you're particular circumstance.

edit on 23-11-2011 by Deetermined because: (no reason given)

This sites not about sharing all details of ones personal life!!!
I have already expressed my opinions based on experience and fact!!
My wife is 27, not a child.
Whats up envious, jealous, cant have, cant hack it. Met many a turd like you and all pussy!!!
You are out of your depth.
My username has some serious reality behind it mate!!! And you dont want to go there!
Brave internet rider. Another toss.r!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

reply to post by mnmcandiez


You said, "It doesn't matter what the guy would do or be like. Young girls aren't going to find a 40 year old man appealing. Do you find a grandma aged woman attractive? Think about it."


I'm 38 and I have a much better physique than most guys in their twenties.

Looking back on who I was and what I thought I knew eighteen years ago, if I were forced to choose it would be no contest: my thirty-eight year old self wins hands down each time.

Originally posted by 1nOne
reply to post by mnmcandiez

 

You said, "It doesn't matter what the guy would do or be like. Young girls aren't going to find a 40 year old man appealing. Do you find a grandma aged woman attractive? Think about it."


I'm 38 and I have a much better physique than most guys in their twenties.

Looking back on who I was and what I thought I knew eighteen years ago, if I were forced to choose it would be no contest: my thirty-eight year old self wins hands down each time.

edit on 23-11-2011 by 1nOne because: attached quote

Im much older and I do and I still exercise everyday!!
My wife 27 and fit all over. yes we have kids.
Oh and yes I get lots of attention from yourng women and Im not particularly handsome.

Originally posted by redbarron626
I don't know bro, but asking for relationship advice on a Conspiracy Website is REALLY creepy.

Did you happen to even SEE what forum you are in??

It's the relationship forum so it's safe to assume people will ask questions like this.....

ATS has a whole other side that isn't conspiracy related....



OP have fun with the young ones, get serious with someone your age when you are ready. You won't be able to handle the youngins for very long, they will drain your every being.....I am female and have seen this happen many time with friends or acquaintances.


Have fun then RUN!~

[color=mediumorchid]I was in my early twenties once..

I was a bartender and a few older men would hang around. Totally creepy. They tipped well though.

I worked in a factory before that (I was one of maybe 10 girls in the whole place)...lots of older guys... lots of creepy.

I did date one guy that was older. He was totally the exception. I was 24 and he was 39. But. He looked and acted closer to my age than he did to his. It was fun while it lasted, I will never forget that guy. I had to move on because I was ready for all of the things that he was already done with.

So, it's possible that you might be someone's exception but it's not likely.