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Originally posted by petrus4
This is why I have deliberately avoided even attempting to learn any form of martial art. There are far too many people within contemporary society, who I would not be able to resist the temptation to use it on.
Originally posted by Akasirus
This has nothing to do with being 'real man' with some idealized gender archetypes where to be a 'real man' you have to be protectors and to be a 'real women' you have to be nuturing. That just exacerbates the problem by putting men in the position where they are 'strong' and stand up for what's right and woman are just motherly and 'nuturing' and their to support the man, because it allows men to exert control over women because if they are a 'real woman' they can't protect themselves or others.
So again, this is not about being a real man but being a real human and treating other humans with respect, and valuing everyone equally.
Originally posted by byteshertz
Originally posted by Akasirus
This has nothing to do with being 'real man' with some idealized gender archetypes where to be a 'real man' you have to be protectors and to be a 'real women' you have to be nuturing. That just exacerbates the problem by putting men in the position where they are 'strong' and stand up for what's right and woman are just motherly and 'nuturing' and their to support the man, because it allows men to exert control over women because if they are a 'real woman' they can't protect themselves or others.
So again, this is not about being a real man but being a real human and treating other humans with respect, and valuing everyone equally.
Respectfully disagree, Men are generally MUCH stronger than woman - if a man and a woman both witness a physical altercation taking place the most of the time it is the man who should step up to the plate because he has the physical ability to deal with the situation. If the woman is a champion kickboxer and benches 300 I would gladly tuck my junk between my legs and let her handle it.
I am all for people being themself but we NEED real tough men again, because no one else has the physical ability to fill their role and they are disappearing very quickly.
Originally posted by axslinger
The other aspect is feminism. Women have fought so hard to be equal, in all respects. To take it to the extreme, many hard-core feminists simply view men as sperm donors and nothing more. It's sad, but that's what it has come to. They have fought to serve in the military on the front lines, to hold CEO positions, and the list goes on and on. As sad as it may sound, and I'm not saying this to be a jerk but the truth is, they got what they wanted. It might be a tough pill to swallow but equal means equal, not sort of equal or a little equal, but EQUAL. It's a bitter pill but it comes with the territory of being "equal".
Originally posted by AMANNAMEDQUEST
Look at the movies. When was the last time you saw a real man in a movie? No, I'm not talking about Dwayne the rock Johnson, or Vin Diesel or any of that dodging bullets, shooting better than the bad guys and kicking ass like a ninja.
"Civilized men are more discourteous than savages because they know they can be impolite without having their skulls split, as a general thing."
-Robert E. Howard
Originally posted by harold223
Buy the sounds of it, the OP did the right thing, but you do have to be careful that you understand the situation. In this youtube video, a TV prankster pulls a prank on some guy, just happens to be outside a Taekwondo studio. This is an example of acting without understanding.
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