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Originally posted by TeknikMake yourself happy in your make-believe realm.
I no longer care
All the toys I buy you for Christmas are going to a credit card with an APR of 25% and you'll actually be paying for all this when I die. Sleep tight honey bunny!
That nickle I gave you for your first tooth actually came from the change I got from buying a Playboy because your mother just doens't cut it anymore.
St. Patrick's day isn't about pinching your classmates, it's about drinking green beer until you puke and pass out in your car while driving home, leaving you without a father.
Valentine's day will be a day you will soon treasue honey bumpkins - it'll be the day you loose your virginity to a the man you will marry. Later you'll divorce him because he'll beat you.
Originally posted by EnronOutrunHomerun
All the toys I buy you for Christmas are going to a credit card with an APR of 25% and you'll actually be paying for all this when I die. Sleep tight honey bunny!
That nickle I gave you for your first tooth actually came from the change I got from buying a Playboy because your mother just doens't cut it anymore.
St. Patrick's day isn't about pinching your classmates, it's about drinking green beer until you puke and pass out in your car while driving home, leaving you without a father.
Valentine's day will be a day you will soon treasue honey bumpkins - it'll be the day you loose your virginity to a the man you will marry. Later you'll divorce him because he'll beat you.
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Childhood is the age of innocence and bliss - the only time in your life that you can be at a playground ...playing, as children do...playing make believe...and not have the thought running in the back of your mind "Haven't I seen that car parked there with that man in it for every day in the past week?" - The child should be thinking..."Wow! If I could fly I'd be all over this place. Hey, Bobby, I just shot you with my laser gun, haha, your'e dead!"
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[edit on 7/2/2004 by EnronOutrunHomerun]
Originally posted by HombreConUnPolloThe child should be aware of that. You know why? Kids are abducted every day. And usualy on a playground in broad daylight.
Originally posted by EnronOutrunHomerun
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What should someone take away from this? If you think you are a mentally healthy human being, with a good set of morals and beliefs, try to raise your kids to be more like you and let them have their own spin on things - they'll decide where they want to take issues like this in their lives.
Originally posted by Montana
But don't make it your life's mission to force feed a child the truth with every breath. That can cause problems too.
Originally posted by Montana
But don't make it your life's mission to force feed a child the truth with every breath. That can cause problems too.
[edit on 7/5/2004 by Montana]
It is still apparent that those of us who 'deny ignorance' are greatly
outnumbered by those who believe in perpetuating pre-fabricated illusions.
Originally posted by Illmatic67
I think we should worry more about the lies the media are feeding our children other than Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny.
If you examine what they are telling us then you'd understand what they are planting in the seeds of the next generation: Education.
Originally posted by Montana
My wife and I have several children, and I have found that if a child is mature enough to ask about a subject, they are mature enough to handle at least part of the reality.
This happens at different ages for different subjects, and a parent has to remember to keep things in perspective. For example, when teaching children about the possibility of abductions, bad people, etc, remember to also tell them that most people are not that way. It is your responsibility to teach the child what to do if they are worried.
As far as Santa goes, come on folks!!!! Let them be kids for a while. If they ask, tell them. But don't make it your life's mission to force feed a child the truth with every breath. That can cause problems too.
[edit on 7/5/2004 by Montana]
Originally posted by dnero6911
I think your wrong.. those examples make it seem alright, as if it isn't doing any real damage.. yet it is.. it crushes a childs faith instantly ... before they even get a chance,,,
Originally posted by Montana
Originally posted by dnero6911
I think your wrong.. those examples make it seem alright, as if it isn't doing any real damage.. yet it is.. it crushes a childs faith instantly ... before they even get a chance,,,
Let me see if I have this right.....
Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny crush a child's faith. Yeah, right....
As for your other statements, the issue isn't (and never has been) intelligence. Barring physical trauma, a person is born with whatever level of intelligence they have, and it remains at that level throughout their lives.
The issue is maturity. That is what changes, and it changes at different times and speeds for everyone. An immature mind understands things in an immature way. An attempt to force that immature mind to understand complex and/or disturbing concepts that it is not ready for will not increase it's maturity, it will only increase it's confusion.
Everyone understands things based on their personal experiences and accumulated knowledge. As experience and knowledge increase, a person is able to understand more complex issues. If you try to present a complex issue to someone with little experience and knowledge it will be conceived in an immature way and they will form incorrect assumptions.
When 'teaching' a child, always try to keep the information you are relating in a relative complexity with that child's level of experience.