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Originally posted by jaysconspiracy
Originally posted by Lunatyx
Originally posted by jaysconspiracy
What kind of world are we living in!!?? People on here are cheering the idea of not paying any more of their debts and saying " to hell with them" to all the people they borrowed from. It should come to no shock that we live in a crumbling society where unemployment is up and the desire to work hard is way down. Everyone expects a golden life to just be handed to them.
I agree with you, people who get a loan, should always try to do their very best to pay it off as soon as they can. A loan is a big responsibility.
BUT, I would very much like to point out 2 things :
1- Isn`t it completely unfair that even when you work day in, day out, week after week that you cannot afford the most basic things like a home or a decent education ? No one should have to take a loan for such things, but in this day and age there is just no other option.
2-- You find this strange ? Almost none of the people who work 9 to 5 jobs feel that their work supports their survival. They work because they simply have to. If people would get a sense of fullfillment at the end of the day by realising they have worked so that they could survive - live, their desire to work would also increase.
the desire to work hard is way down.
I`m not trying to shake your cage, I`m just trying to show some empathy...
I totally agree with your point that we live in a tough world where we are working our butts off and still struggling to get by.. Unless you are the fortunate rich, then its pretty much a guarantee that both husband and wife have to work to support their family. And yea that does bother me, but I'm not ready to pin the cost of living changes on why people are getting lazy. Thats a opinion topic that has many sides. I'd say we are spoiled living easy compared to my grandfather who had to go out and pick potatoes for his lunch. People a hundred years ago had life so hard that an 8 hour work day would be a joke. But they'd appreciate the benefits of doing it so much that they'd keep working hard. It almost feels to me that some people expect the hand outs to be there for them whether they work or not or regardless on how hard they work.......
It almost feels to me that some people expect the hand outs to be there for them whether they work or not or regardless on how hard they work.......
Originally posted by jaysconspiracy
Originally posted by Damian-007
There was a time when People who gave their word, Kept it. Nowadays, someones word isn't worth a whole lot.
I would be ashamed of myself if I borrowed money from a bank or a friend and never paid it back. I am proud of my credit rating and I feel good when I go to a Bank and ask for a loan knowing that they know that they won't have any problems with me.
The problem with a lot of people today is they have no pride and have no shame. They're not worried too much about their credit ratings and if they go Bankrupt, So be it. In my day, it was a shameful thing, to go Bankrupt. Today, Bankruptsy doesn't have the stigma like it did years ago. I don't know why that is.
A lot of the problem is also attributable to the lenders as well. Some lenders will lend money even though you have been bankrupt and half the time they know you will have a hard time paying that money back.
There's a statement I heard a few years ago too that doesn't help much. The statement I heard was :
You haven't really made it in business unless you have gone Bankrupt in your career.
What sort of statement is that?
I really wonder what the future holds for the next generation..
I agree totally. Great post..Call it old fashion, but I want people to know that my word or my handshake means its a done deal.
Originally posted by jaysconspiracy
What kind of world are we living in!!?? People on here are cheering the idea of not paying any more of their debts and saying " to hell with them" to all the people they borrowed from. It should come to no shock that we live in a crumbling society where unemployment is up and the desire to work hard is way down. Everyone expects a golden life to just be handed to them.
Originally posted by jaysconspiracy
I agree totally. Great post..Call it old fashion, but I want people to know that my word or my handshake means its a done deal.
Originally posted by [davinci]
reply to post by daddio
I don't know if you realise it, but you probably just exposed the one of the lesser reasons behind the SCOTUS declaring corporations people.
4. Signatures of the Parties/ Meeting of the Minds (corporations can’t sign because they have no right, or mind, to contract as they are legal fictions).
By declaring corporations as people this statement is now void.
[edit on 28-1-2010 by [davinci]]
Originally posted by Aliensun
Jay talks about personal responsibility and others want to argue they should not have to pay for something they willingly purchased. Let us forget how the banks, Fed Reserve create money. That sure as Hell is not the point. Let us simplify the situation.
Farmer John has a apple tree with more apples than he will need until next seson. You, on the other hand, don't have an apple tree. You may have other types of wealth, but not an apple tree. --And you want some....
You make a deal with Farmer John. He gives you as many apples as you want, not need, but want--key point there--and you promise to pay him with some of your types of wealth.
Unfortunately, somebody steals all of your wealth but you still have some of the apples. You go to Farmer John and tell him, sorry, I can't pay. He responds by saying you own him. And at the least, you owe him all of the apples you have left.
You get mad at him, refuse to return the unused apples, and blame him and everybody else for your own greed that got you in trouble.
And some of you argue that Farmer John is the one that should be left holding the empty apple sack?
Originally posted by ViperFoxBat
Credit card companies are the only type of business that will charge you for making a payment. If I try and make a payment over the phone in order to not miss a payment they will charge you a fee for doing so. My new years resolution that will not be broken is, "Don't buy something you don't have the money for".
Originally posted by jaysconspiracy
Look you and I could go back and forth on all of this stuff forever, but what you list above is irrelevant to the opinion I had. I hate the b.s. we deal with in this world and I agree with the issues you mentioned above. But that is irrelevant to the fact that its not ok to borrow money from someone, promise to pay them back on the terms negotiated and then decide you no longer meant what you said! I don't own credit cards anymore, but if I did I wouldnt complain if my interest rate was 24 percent just like they warned me it would be! My home loan is forcing me and the wife to work extra jobs to make ends meet but thats my choice, and I will pay as I've promised to pay. Again my point is to take responsibility for what you've agreed to do. If you dont like credit cards dont get them. Even if it matters to nobody else, I enjoy knowing that my word means something. And when I tell my friends or family I'm going to do something, they know I will follow through. I guess my collection department would be unemployed if everyone thought like me though
Originally posted by jaysconspiracy
What kind of world are we living in!!?? People on here are cheering the idea of not paying any more of their debts and saying " to hell with them" to all the people they borrowed from. It should come to no shock that we live in a crumbling society where unemployment is up and the desire to work hard is way down. Everyone expects a golden life to just be handed to them. Not that long ago I got myself in a world of credit card debt. I did my best to pay but eventually it snowballed and I had to file bankruptcy. I felt ashamed by giving these companies my word and then not coming through on my debt. You are the moron who had to borrow and now you are mad at the person who was willing to take a chance on you and lend you money!?????????? Look in a perfect world everything would be free, but in the real world it doesn't work that way. So at the end of the day you have to decide what type of person you are going to be. Are you going to do your best to be a man ( or woman ) of your word, or are you another leech wants it all but isnt willing to work for it? Don't borrow if you cant pay for it!!! Take some responsibility for yourself!! Bailing on your debts just raises costs and interest on the paying people!