Girl, 14, arrested for posting nude MySpace pics

Originally posted by Fremd
The girl should be arrested
The parents should be arrested

set an example

Set an example? Who's next? The companies and TV broadcasters showing naked babies in diaper ads?

It's sad when the predators most likely to come for you are prosecutors with too much time on their hands that go out serfing the Internet for their next prey, which in this case happens to be a 14 year old girl. Talk about perverts.

Originally posted by jhill76
Nope, I have to disagree. She is the one inviting the predators and offenders to her. I am so tired of older men getting locked up and the girls get labeled as a victim, when they are openly looking sex with older men.

That is very true, some of those girls are very seductive wether you want to believe it or not.

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I think you have pointed out here what is really going on. this isn't about teenagers having sex, this is about government taking control of how people raise their children.

I don't know how many of you people have ever had to deal with the family courts system, as in a child custody case as I have, but those are the most messed up group or control freaks I have ever met. It is about two things, power to dictate to people how to live their lives, and money in the form of jobs for lawyers, judges, clerks, and case workers. I don't think there is any group in our society that has done more to destroy the family structure, and therefore our community and our way of life than these family courts. These family courts encourage divorce through their lopsided redistribution of not only family wealth but control over the upbringing of children. Fathers have very critical roles in raising their children, and these family courts seem dead set on preventing fathers from fulfilling their roles as parents. I see this as the greatest destructive force in our society today.

I could go on and on, but I think you see the message. Demonizing men is a big agenda of these people. God forbid some old pervert see these pictures of this young girl. No doubt it will turn him into a child molester.

And from this case, it is clear that they are working on expanding their powers. They want control over teen sexuality. How long before the inquisitions and the Salem sex trials begin.

Geez, what is it with 14 year old girls and MySpace?

Fort Worth teen stabs classmate over MySpace argument

Negative comments on MySpace apparently caused an argument Monday that ended with one 14-year-old girl stabbing another girl in the chest with a pair of scissors at Handley Middle School, police said.

full story

Originally posted by poet1b
Personally, I was seduced by an older girl, and have no regrets. I would say that memories of the occasion have strengthened me many times when I needed good memories to fall back on. Still, to claim you only had sex because of peer pressure is one huge cop out, peer competition is probably more accurate. Doesn't seem like you turned out to be a waste case, so maybe it was for the good after all. It might have been good for you as well, even if in a different way, and if it was, then yo might want to recognize that such things might be good for others as well.

I didn't quote all of your post but once again I find myself agreeing with you.

I was taught the ropes by an 18 year old woman when I was just 14 (summer of love...1969). That woman grew up and had a family and is a good wife and mother. What good would it have served if she was dragged through the courts. prosecuted, humiliated and then punished like they are so ready to do with people today?



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Teenagers having sex with adults was pretty common back in those days, and pretty much through out human history. Most countries have much lower ages of consent than we have here in the U.S., and it is my opinion that we have swung too far in our laws governing such matters. If you have an adult in a position of authority taking advantage of teenagers, then they should be prosecuted, or some adult who is shown to prey on teenagers, but when romances naturally bud, as they do, it is wrong to punish either person. What is worse, is that putting all these people on the nations watch list, when they are not predators, only makes it much more difficult to track the real predators. It really only serves one purpose, and that is to create jobs for government bureaucrats.

Originally posted by Le Colonel
reply to post by Chance321

 

Well hell, why dont we just shoot her then. Children nowadays have no concept of right and wrong, because children learn from their parents or older people. Look how they (Parents-older generation) say one thing then do another.

We have lost the ability to teach our children right and wrong. I blame Mainstream Media for this.




[edit on 28-3-2009 by B2Daweezy]

Children learn by observation. The Internet is full of pictures of nude adults, so why should we be surprised if a 14 year old girl decides to present herself in like manner?

What surprises me is that pervert prosecutor who is going after her.

Displaying nude photos of one's self on the Internet is not the same as sex (for those that can't see the difference).

reply to post by calihan_12


Only if the parents do the same.

I guess you are saying its impossible to be a positively influential parent. Har har har.

Originally posted by TheRealTylerDurden
Does anyone have a link to these NUDE PICS??!?!?!? Please?!?!?!

I seriously hope you are joking...

And if you are - jokes are meant to be funny.

Originally posted by scanepchi

A 14-year-old New Jersey girl has been accused of child pornography after posting nearly 30 explicit nude pictures of herself on MySpace.com -- charges that could force her to register as a sex offender if convicted.

finance.yahoo.com...

How are the pimps and child prostitution rings supposed to make an income if everyone is putting their own nude pictures on the web ..HUH?

How could the poor corrupted officers in the Police Force or corrupted State officials or even corrupted Judges take their own cut from said schemes if every individual is left free to post their own nude photos over the web and not prosecuted ..EH?

I mean there is freedom of expression but on the other hand we have to protect the income of our fellow men!
What is to become of all those officers or officials? Become thieves or drug dealers just to survive?

Where has this world gone too..

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wow your like wrong. I wasn't popular and I pick clothes I like not what was on TV.

I did have friends but they were geeky kinda like me. The popular kids played tricks with me. Mean tricks and other stuff popular kids do. They skipped classess got all A'S went to top colleges yet if you ask them any question that they should of learned in those classes that they Aced they couldn't answer them.

It's not the media fault. It's the government and society that are the problem.

I mean we say porn is ok for adults but not for kids We allow porn in our society what makes you think that it dosen't get in the hands of kids???

The problem is that the government allows porn or sexual stuff, drugs, and violence.

I mean look at the new scary movies they are getting more gory.

I mean you get all that bad stuff in peoples minds and not expect them to do them?

I mean if we grew up in a area where everyone even parents didn't care what kids watch and lets say every kid in the nabor hood watched porn. Your kid would think it's ok because others are doing it. It will feel to them that it's ok. So they join. They then grow up and their kids would be the same as her.

The reason is that when we grow up we were taught what's ok and what's not. Then we had media to teach or preach garbage to the kids and theeir you go.


Media isn't the problem they are a mirror of our society if they know we will buy their products if they had nude or hot people using it or on tv that says to buy it we will buy it.

I am in a business class right now and our bsiness teach told us flat out that sex sells.

So what I am saying it's our socirty we accept sex, porn, and all that stuff even drugs.

I mean medical mairo , I seen a old lady in our college libary I thought she was a bum.

she had dirty clothes and looks like she never showered and looked drugged up.

She had a pertician thing to allow mairo drug as a pain killer. she wouldn't allow me to pass without signing it so I told her no and yelled to her saying no. I told her off saying that I am not going to sign it just so you can legally puff the magic dragon. She then stopped when everyone in the libary looked at us.

I mean I hear americans making fun of Islam saying why are girls covered. They say oh they must be butt ulgy.

I mean hearing that tells alot. Islam teaches that ladies have to respect themselves.

This means to not expose your body in otherwords don't show alot of skin. Cover up.

Cause if you don't guys may rape you or disrespect you by looking at you as if your a perice of meat.

Islamic people even the law says if a lady is raped and got pregnant then it's their fault.

The reason that laws exist is that if they followed Islam in the first place they would of covered themselves. Which would avoided the problem. So the girl gets punished.

I mean in the U.S their is alot of sexual offenders. The reason is that usally they are alot or watch too much porn.

When someone watches too much porn they start to get bored of watching it so they think it's exciting to do those things to strangers they don't know.

It's some kind of thrill they get.

So this girl should be tried like the rest. The law is the law. If it applies to grown men or even young men then why not young women?

I mean she had 30 pics on myspace,


I listen to songs and even a music band called slipknot. They expressed in one song I think dead memories not sure.

Anyways they expressed that their is no true love. In todays world marriage is becoming a contract.

I know alot of people who got married and then devorced .

So marriage in America is going down the drain. I am speaking about a majority of America has divorces it's on a rise.

The reason why is that people are not growing up and on top of that how the U.S law makes it seem that marriage is a contract.

If you breach the contract your going to have penalties meaning fees. So it seems America is becoming more of a corperate operation in many cases.

I hope you get my point. I still don't want the girl to go to jail but want her to learn a lesson.

On the other side we need to lighten up on sexual predators .

South Park really shows america in a comedy way.


You should watch the Disney episode. They show mickey with jonas brothers.

And also the latest one about the economy.

well I hope someone looks at my post and really look at it in a openminded way.

It's society that is the problem. If we accept porn and sex as being natural then why won't you think kids would get involved with that?

I grew up in america and I had classes in school . Sex ed stuff I was ticked off hearing the same thing over and over.

I had sex ed in 5th grade which included how to shower and keep yourself clean.

They then in middle school incorperate it into the health class. Then I got it again in highschool class.

All them tell us that it's ok. As long you wear a condom. So I mean I am like thinking what did they just say?

I was surprised. I mean the schools are telling kids that it's ok and normal to forplay etc.

this is true. I was upset cause these classes took time out of my life and it was a waste.

I looking at these posts and I see people blaming the media and some blaming the parents.

This seems like it's own episode of south park. We should blame canada cuz canada isn't a country anyway.

Your quickly throwing the blame game to random people.

It's not the parents nor the media. It's society what ever society accepts your kids will accept.

The reason is that My dad is from pakistan and in the country side they never had girls raped or anything.

In the cities yes the reason why is that in the cities that are developed they have western stuff influencing them. Inda do make porn and people in Pakistan in the cities do watch them even though it's illegal.

So I am just saying I can give examples of other countries on what they are doing and why they don't have rapings yet over here and other countries that accept porn get these crimes.

Media is a brainwashing tool. Yet it can be stopped if society doesn't accept it. You will get riots.

Yet America accepts it and therefor this is why these things come up.

Hope this kinda get you thinking like I alwasy say their is more then what meets the eye.

Meaning their is always a reason behind what you see and what you hear. Their is a hidden story or a hidden message.


I hope I didn't go overboard but it's just my thoughts on this subject.




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reply to post by Alxandro


wow..... dang kids now from exposing themselves to stabbing people.

My space is a evil place...lo


If you can only imagine myspace and facebook never existing and also youtube. You will see less violence then what we see today.

I seen tapes of girls and guys fighting and putting them up on youtube. I even flagged one where 2 girls were fighting and they ripped each others clothes off and got nasty with their finger nails scrapping each other like cats.

I flagged those videos about 4 months ago and yet they are still up.


Myspace is betting alot of publicity. It's called gorilla tactics. You get free advertising.

You have a website and if something shocking happens the media will be over it.

I mean they will even pay you to allow them to cover such story and get like photos of your website logo or a picture of your main website page.


Well that's all I can say. I also get sick to my stomach seeing fights on youtube. Same with in school fights.


their was a fight in my highschool class when we had a old lady as a sub she just yelled for help.

It was a 12 grader beating up a 9th grader. They threw chairs and came by my area wher I sat everyone else moved and I Kept reading the book for the class and was doing homework.

They then corned me and I was in the middle they were throwing chairs well stools at each other.

They then grappel and I then went int he middle to break it up and sure enough I did.

The principal came and told us 3 to come he said we 3 will get suspended.

The class like were wow they were surprised that I done something like that cause they were scared. So they cheered my name and told the principal that I stopped the fight.

The principal then said that I can stay but he didn't apologized but gave me a look.

Later on I heard he was suspecting me of causing the fight.

So those kids got suspended for like a month.

So just saying I hate seeing people fight. I am a peaceful person.

Dude.... what the hell that girl should get like community service for act like a harlet. x.x

Originally posted by skeptic1
Parents are parents for a reason: to teach their children right from wrong.

Forget right and wrong, I'll settle for teaching children to respect the law of the land. They can think about right and wrong when they go off to college and take a philosophy class.

In my house, the words "right and wrong" weren't uttered, though I tell you what, I heard "Because I said so" and "Because you live under my roof" very often.

The parents are to blame point blank. Just because we have 1000 channels of cable, next generation gaming systems, crazy cell phones with 100 functions, and internet functions you couldn't believe were possible 20 years ago, does not mean you have to give it to your kids.

They are kids. Technology is just a tool. A gun is a tool. You wouldn't give a child a gun without training and supervision. Technology may not be as quick and as immediately physically dangerous as a gun, but it is dangerous. Act accordingly, that means you parents.

Sounds stupid yes but for example if i clicked through myspace profiles and happened to go onto her profile and saw the pictures i could be seen as looking at/downloading (temp files) child porn.

So it does actually make sense.

Read pages of people opinions and noticed a trend in People saying she must feel insecure or abused or looking for love in all the wrong places. you dont post nude pics of yourself if you are insecure. you post them if you are confident and want to show off. no body here has maybe brought up the fact that this little 14 year old girl maybe that 14 year old bitch that when u were that same age was the girl every 14 year old boy stared at and wanted. Maybe shes flaunting what shes got because she knows shes got it and when she becomes 18 itll be the same thing except then it will be acceptable shell just be labelled a slut is all. i personally think sexuality laws should be lowered to the age of 16. around that age people know what there doing. i personally think the law shouldnt be involved at all in this case, this should be settled at home with the parents and maybe an officer telling her hey its illegal till ur 18 next time u might have to go to jail. And as for the people who say the parents got her to this point? bull f***ing s**t. my parents while i was growing up made sure i didnt see anything pornographic. i couldnt even watch making out and they covered my eyes and ears when sex came on in a movie, but when i was around 13/14 year old i said f it i want to see a naked girl i want to see sex and i did everything i could to see a woman as bare as i could. i jerked off to victorias secret catalogs for christ sake. pornography isnt a big deal its an outlet or intrest or hobby just like anything else. some people said on here that pornography makes people want to rape and to bad things to people because porn makes it seem ok..... lmfao i been watching porn since i was 14/15 and i havent raped anyone...thought about it tho lol but would never do it. all comes down to morals and personal choices. s**t if i didnt have porn i prob would have slept with a tons of girls that id regret sleeping with later on. thank you porn for saving my dignity. but back onto topic here if SHE wants to show it then good for her. if she was forced to show it then its different. teenagers can think for themselves i have a 14 year old sister who is always on myspace, talks to dudes, and takes tons of pics of her self, not nude of course cause id kick her butt. butt the reason i would kick her butt would be not because its "child porn" but because it could ruin her reputation, but if she said hey i dont care i wanted to take those pics and im proud of it then id say hey its your choice but if anyone F**ks with you im going to break there legs lol im 21 by the way to 7 year difference in generation and there isnt much difference in what shes going through that i went through

edite to correct words and swears... twice lol
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reply to post by bloodcircle


If you actually understand english and have actually bothered to READ, you will realize that I am not advocating any corporal punishment. Apparently you are too caught up in your own biases and in propagating your own perverse social programming to understand what anybody else has written.

If you cant bother to even read, dont bother to comment.

Originally posted by mystiq
reply to post by IAF101

 

I just read your post and your comparison to Sharia law was disturbing. I'd rather live in a country where the most minor penalities were, or.....none, in a situation like this (mind you, I'd rather live in is not really appropriate, rather, I will fight to my death to ensure that I live in) than any form of control, or fascism exists. This isn't exactly a crime, but is inappropriate teenage behavior.
All people are free sovereign beings, and you're talking about posing harsh penalties upon someone for the norms and prejudices of society. This esalation of control and fundamentalism, needs to be met with massive protests and a good old fashioned hippy movement.

Indecent and lewd exposure especially of minors is NOT merely a "prejudice" of society. It is a moral and social digression that violates the very fabric of our society like pedophillia or animal abuse. They are illegal acts and this child who has grown wild has transgressed society's laws. For that she must pay the penalty.

If she wants the protections of the laws of society that prevent pedophilles from molesting her, she should respect the rules and laws of society from indescent exposure and distributing pornographic material of herself.

If you want to live in a society where young underage girls roam free naked, please go find a society that tolerates that. I believe there are a few tribes in Africa and the Amazon that do not consider clothing to be a necessity. You can live your life of "no rules and no responsibilities" and practices all the deviance you want in the comfort of a sweltering jungle.