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Originally posted by Randy Echo
This is my Miracle...
Originally posted by Kailassa
Originally posted by Randy Echo . . . The doctor came at us with the good news bad news thing, we took the good news first, he said do you know your pregnant, well that was truely a surprise, my wife had been on the pill and it just wasn't expected. The bad news was that the fetus was tubal and severly grown over in the falopian tube, no possible way for it to break free, and so scheduled for surgery to have the fetus removed to save her life. . . .
There are some worrisome things about this story.
I believe in God(s) and I believe in miracles, but I don't believe in obstetricians who first say there is good news, that you are pregnant, before telling you that this embryo must be aborted. An ectopic pregnancy is a tragedy for a couple who want a baby. Even if a couple is pro-choice, being forced to abort even a tiny embryo that would end up killing the mother can still be a sad thing to do.
An obstetrician quickly learns to be aware of peoples' feelings, and will not raise hopes like this only to dash them in such a cruel way.
. . . and never before anywhere had a fetus just dissappeared before on an ultrasound . . .
I'm sorry, but this is just laughable. Viewing things with ultrasound can be tricky, and sometimes small things can be there but are not seen.
As for the statistic given, "Eleven Million to One odds," it's so fake I at first read "Eleventy Million." There is no statistic for an ectopic pregnancy being miraculously taken out of the mother and then miraculously inserted into her womb.
There is a perfectly logical explanation for what your wife experienced.
It is possible to have more than one pregnancy at one time. In fact it's a known danger that an ectopic pregnancy may not be noticed if the woman also has a uterine pregnancy. Obviously the ultrasound operator was primarily looking for an embryo in the fallopian tube, not in the womb. And in the early stages, the embryo is only a tiny yolk-sac, very easy to miss.
It is not unusual for an ectopic pregnancy to be reabsorbed or to spontaneously abort. "Expectant management" of ectopic pregnancy is an accepted form of treatment when the embryo is small or the pregnancy hormones are already dropping.
No sane doctor, seeing the situation you have described, would be particularly astonished. There's nothing at all weird about it, just twins, one of whom did not make it to the womb and was disposed of by the body.
I noted you referred to the embryo as a fetus. If an ectopic pregnancy progresses to fetal stage, the mother dies. I was reading of a Catholic South American country in which all abortion is not only banned, but treated by the state as murder. Girls there with ectopic pregnancies are left to slowly die in agony as the growing embryos gradually burst their fallopian tubes, killing them.
By the way, the ground was hallowed, not hollowed.
Originally posted by Anomander
reply to post by Simplynoone
I could give you examples of people who 'trusted' God's will, and got the worst from that. Like I said in an earlier post, people are wired differently, thus the vast range of stuff that tickle our brains the right way.
The same way you cannot understand how some people can live without a relationship with God is the same way others (me included) can't understand how you could say that it's even better than a relationship with a spouse.
I used to be an altar boy in my teenage years, and I think at that time I truly believed in God. Then some time later I realized that I couldn't feel his presence within me or near me, no matter how I tried (I blame it on going to high school!) It occurred to me that I believed because I had been taught to. Looking back, I can honestly say that I have never felt God's presence within me, and the thing is, I don't miss it or anything. And my life is...less complicated than when I 'believed'.
Originally posted by snowen20
Prepare to be debunked by the horde of nonbelievers.
This is already going to piss some people off.
They consider it their mission in life to take your faith away.
Good Luck.
Originally posted by Randy Echo
when you have a experience like this one,
nothing will ever amaze you
nothing will ever take it from you
knowing is a great feeling
I just hope that others that don't have that option
can find it for themselves before the end
Originally posted by prevenge
Originally posted by Randy Echo
when you have a experience like this one,
nothing will ever amaze you
nothing will ever take it from you
knowing is a great feeling
I just hope that others that don't have that option
can find it for themselves before the end
If your experience is the work of god showing kindness upon you, as opposed to pure cause and effect, then riddle me this:
If a human is aware of a crime, wrongdoing, "sin", etc.. and they are not directly instigating or bringing on the foul act, yet they show apathy and non-action, by not stopping the act or situation from occurring, knowing full well that it's happening, or exists, then in most cases we hold this human in our minds, and in court, as being associated with the action, and guilty of not doing the "right" thing, and stopping it, or at least reporting it.
Guilty by association etc..
Now if god is all knowing and sees all occurrences (simultaneously I might add)..
And he is not intervening and stopping poverty, perversion, rape, genocide, murder, child abuse, thievery, deformed and retarded babies that will be beaten and mentally tortured by their peers, disease, starvation,...Limbaugh... I could go on....
Rather he watches it, witnesses it, and lets it go on repeatedly through millennial of human existence.
Hundreds of quadrillions in the least.. of instances where he's witnessed it happen, yet took no action.
Its almost as if he is approving of these actions.
And in the end, is the most guilty one of all, knowing full well of all the abominations going on constantly, and never (in your case the hypothetical rarity)... taking action, intervening, or "righting" these wrongs.
Why do you think god showed favoritism to you and yours, in your situation, yet at the same time, literally forcing hell to happen to others constantly, being a guilty witness to their hell and not ceasing their suffering.
If he is willingly letting these people suffer in agony, then I don't know about you, but I find that completely demented, and lacking any compassion at all.
Now, if you replace "god"...
with "mankind"
and we take the position of "one whole collective"... then we COULD.. if we inevitably focus our efforts, eventually we could eliminate suffering by taking action step by step...
doing something god refused to do.
we'd be stepping in as if to say "ENOUGH ALREADY! ....ok "god" if you're not going to do it.. then @#$% you.. WE'LL do it!.."
We'd be doing the ultimate good....
while undoing god's perverse agenda of pain confusion suffering and terror.
And from another perspective..
What if good things happened all the time, and there was never any bad things happening... EVER.
Would you even know what a bad thing was?
Would you even know what a good thing was?
Is it only when, in a world of agony and insanity, something occurs that plays into your own good fortune, you think it soooo rare, and against perceived odds, that a separate higher mind decided to "do" it?
I think that's completely without sound reason.
first of all life isn't perfect, God may be, but our lives aren't
by putting logic to life you will never be able to answer questions
about your soul
if we devided our world by extremes, we all would be laying around at
the age of 130 with personal butlers having famous actors and comedians entertain us while we all were being sexually serviced by our dream partners.
on the other side of this would be life like in the Nazi Concentration camps of world war two.
Life isn't about extremes is it?
Does either of your life described closely by both of the above descriptons?
I think not.
now that I think logic shouldn't be used to explain life or spiritual beliefs
I will tell you why I think God does what he does and doesn't
He created us and our world
He decided how much intervening he would do before this
papercuts hurt, so does being crushed under a building from an earthquake
putting aside religion if you didn't know of God
wouldn't your creator be your mother and dad
How many times did you fall off your bike when you were learning
should your mom and dad of kept you from learning
and taken away the bike
or let you bump it out on your own so you could eventually do it by yourself without training wheels
Doesn't it hurt when you see your child get hurt? Hell yes it does, most of us wish we could take the injury for ourselves or that sickness that is killing them for ourselves.
God feels for us that way too when people are treated badly or killed
He could save everyone from a physical death and pain,
but it takes even more strength to stand back and not get in the way
He has given humanity the ability to care for others
There are heroes everywhere that put their lives on the line everyday!
Take 911 for instance, all the people running out of a building on fire, the police and firemen where running in,
We have people like that because we were given a gift
Called love, Faith, Even Courage!!!
How much money from the real world have you committed to conquer disease, or famine , how many fights have you broken up, how many times have you put poisons in your own body, drugs , smoking , drinking?
Did God put that in your body, when your liver fails will it be God not standing by with a safety net, or you with your history of self destruction?
Humanity has a chance, we have a wonderful chance, but heres the part most people have to understand and don't
We have to save ourselves, We have to make our world worth living in, We can't blindly turn away from things we know we should deal with. Until this world becomes a family again, we all will just keep walking away and turning our heads.
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[edit on 2-11-2008 by prevenge]
True i admit Anomander as a point i've seen ALOT of people pray and never get an answer. Then again these very same people were the ones that never even entered a church until they get into # and needed someone/something to get them out of it... If you'd be rich and u'd have the power to help someone thats beging you however u know he's only after your money not you would you help them? If you'd be God and u'd have someone praying to be saved but you know they are just doing that... "praying to be saved" would you help them???