Why do women break up with nice guys?

Originally posted by LiveForever8

Originally posted by Stillalive

i dont walk around in only underpants showing half of my private area.

You don't? You disappoint me :shk:

I'm disappointed your disappointed.

Originally posted by Stillalive

but yea seriously,if you do the "head to toe" stare -down,the girl is going to go mad.i do that to make them angry as a joke like theyr prostitutes.

Go get 'em tiger!

You should practice your "dirty look" more and know when to utilize it.
For instance the best places to practice the up and down look is at lesbian bars and feminist rallies.

and its not the "stare" it's the "look".

Checking someone out is "OK" if they give you indications its ok to do so.
Being forced to interact with someone at work is most likely not the best time.


[edit on 2-5-2010 by The Utopian Penguin]

Originally posted by Stillalive
ahahahhahaha a yea man,some broad comes allmost naked next to me,wearing a bra to make her boobs look bigger,and the moment i stare at them,she cant wait to say "EYES UP HERE U HORNY LOSER!"
why its my fault?

To be fair I'm a (mostly) hetero woman and found myself trying not to stare at them. I have nothing against showing cleavage but they were just competing for screen time.

i do feel glad that you understand what im saying ridley,i dont really know how boobs work,but i imagine its comfortable to wear revealing tanktops? i mean,women cant wear saudi arabia clothes everyday when its hot.
but yea some women really do show them on purpose.
especialy when i leaned that girls at school are avare that theyr ass is showing when they sit with theyr jeans,and yes they really know that theyr sitting in such position that theyr ass is showing
and when i sayd to one girl "ugh,,your ass is kinda showing" she kinda get mad : D

Originally posted by Stillalive
i do feel glad that you understand what im saying ridley,i dont really know how boobs work,but i imagine its comfortable to wear revealing tanktops? i mean,women cant wear saudi arabia clothes everyday when its hot.
but yea some women really do show them on purpose.
especialy when i leaned that girls at school are avare that theyr ass is showing when they sit with theyr jeans,and yes they really know that theyr sitting in such position that theyr ass is showing

and when i sayd to one girl "ugh,,your ass is kinda showing" she kinda get mad : D

orangetom: it's not easy to go without sex or even female interaction all your life. nor for a woman who's never had it from a man. It's actually kind of necessary for health, and even a survival skill.

So, a man has the right to feel like sh*t knowing that it's being withheld for the wrong reasons, and it doesn't make him any less of a man, that it seems like there are men who don't care: Because They Dont Need to. They've already gotten action, they can get it whenever they want, they've been there, done that, it's part of their history. They dont have to live with the fact that it's never been done and they're getting old.

Those men can be fine without getting any, and they know they'll get some anyway.

It's when you never get any, have never and you're getting old that it becomes a problem, and you are NOT any less of a man for being HUMAN in wanting what you feel is a right to life.

So please, stop making it seem like it's so damn easy. Like it's so damn easy for everyone, and that men cannot be anything but stupid because they are simply being human and having emotion, or even logic.

[edit on 3-5-2010 by The Quiet Storm]

reply to post by The Quiet Storm


The Quiet Storm,

Don't BS me here Dude. Your talking to a man here...not some emotional train wreck. Not a Drama Queen.

You have a right to life..you do not have a right to sex. Sex between two people is consensual..two people deciding to carry it out..not just one.

This involves a certain level of trust. Your posts are not of trust..anyone thinking and not emoting knows this. And women can spot this in your posts much further out than can most men.

These women will sense desperation..not confidence and put miles between you and themselves.

When you grow up enough to figure out the right combination to reach a sane goal...come back and talk to me. I don't have a lifetime to hold your hand....nor do I want to do so.

At some time school is out and between you and I ...and that time is now. Grow up..become a man..not a professional student...reading books and watching videos. Any bonehead can do that. The difference is when you put it into use..outside the classroom...in real life...when you live it..not just talk and lecture.

That is when you get Salty..and grow a hard bark..male or female. In short ..you grow up.

Orangetom

Orangetom: What I'm saying is that you dont need to make people who are just being human look stupid, and making them feel like they are less of a man.

Yea, they can train themselves to be able to withstand painful isolation, but don't expect that everyone can pick that up easily. It has to be programmed, against our instincts, or urges.

You seem overly pompous about the fact that "you dont care whether a female rejects you or not and anyone who does is just the stupidest lifeform that ever existed".

and I dont care that you're a "man". Technically you are a male, obviously.

[edit on 3-5-2010 by The Quiet Storm]

he dosnt care,couse he risks his life everyday.
i care because i think love is the most wonderfull thing,but i care for the girls who love me,the girls who are mean to me,i ussed to get hurt,but now im not.
i can tell you to be that,and that,and to be strong and i dont know.
but the most important things are to search and search,and to maybe look at something you say that turns them off.
you need to concentrate in something your good in,that way girls will have something to appretiate you,not just whining for love
try art,it will work (:

I've noticed a severe lack of understanding on this forum in regards to women... so being part of the PUA culture I'd like to offer my help..

Here nice guys... please read and understand that it really isn't your fault. The biggest conspiracy today is going on all around us:

www.jbspencer.com...
www.sosuave.com...
www.nomarriage.com
www.happierabroad.com
www.happybachelors.com

likely I will be kicked off this forum if the women have any say about it but I hope this helps someone out there.

Some questions answered:

Do women like nice guys? American women, NO/ Foreign women, YES.

Can a nice guy change? YES

Do women like nice guys in general: Only as friends.

Why? Because women want to have sex with a mate not talk.

But women say they want a XYZ type of guy: Women will lie to you so they don't hurt your feelings. You are a nice guy after all and you'll probably cry or blow your head off if they told you the truth.

The opposite of nice guy is NOT a jerk or bad boy.

Do women like to be treated like crap? sort of.

Women like nice guys when they get older don't they? No they just settle because they can't get anything better. Men age like fine wine, women age like milk.

I'm Age XYZ can I still meet a young woman? Absolutely.

If I date a foreign woman aren't I a loser? No but American women would certainly like you to think so.

What does that other poster mean when he says women don't like men who like them back? Women want a challenge... if you're not a challenge you are boring.

Do I have to move outside the Anglosphere to meet women: No but it will improve your chances 1000x

It takes awhile to understand just what is going on but be prepared to enter into the largest conspiracy... this one outshines UFOs/Coverups/Area 51 etc etc... this one is the be all end all of conspiracies... its the total depopulation of the human race and the emasculation of the North American Male. it all starts with you. If you are a nice guy then you are already participating in the largest coverup in the world.

The best thing you can do right now is to take yourself out of the equation and start figuring out how you can move to a 3rd world country.

I've lived in Brazil, Mexico, China, Korea and Japan and I can say with authority that american women are likely the worst kind of women in the world to date. Trust me.

Here is the typical cost of living in Mexico: (Guadalajara)

2 bedroom House: $250/month
Water Electricity: $10/month
food for month (for 2 ppl): $100/month
transportation and other costs: $20/month
visit to the doctor: $10
Asthma medication: $3 (or whatever you need... its cheap)

You can live and meet nice women on $400/month

Imagine you can take a vacation for a year on just under $5000

Outside North America you do NOT need to buy a 10 thousand dollar engagement ring, buy an expensive house or an expensive car. You do not have to go to the gym everyday or be a rich man... There are plenty of nice girls who will be happy to cook and clean and take care of you even if you just have a regular job and like to play video games.

I date hot girls 19+ and I'm just over 30 years old. I play video games, magic cards and read & talk about abovetopsecret all the time.. I am a nerd, I date hot women and I manage to take a year long vacation every 6 months. I am not rich, I am just a truck driver.




[edit on 30-5-2010 by liberatorx]

exactly! the trick is,to KNOW HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT?
me?
i will have what i want,if i have to go to saudi arabia,or japan. ill just BUY a girl if i have to,atleast she will appretiate my kindness. not like those city girls
who just think your a "looser"
i will go get a nice poor girl and turn her into a princess likeTI

I believe what you say liberatorx...

although, I dont agree with the PUA culture, as I've once been a part of it, and realized that most of it is really just dominated by mysogyny and to be the 'bad boy/guy'. It's really just like stooping down to a lower level just to get what you want... and going to third world countries is also like taking advantage of innocent girls who don't know any better so of course it's easier.

Actually there's no real way it seems to be a good guy and get women anywhere on this earth, unless the woman is far removed from most human culture.

taking advantage of girls/women living poverty is not nice or good.
I'm glad you realised this TQS.


[edit on 31-5-2010 by riley]

I expected that.

Men going abroad are shamed by the 1st world women.

I assure you women the world over are in no way 'innocent' or stupid. That is insulting to anyone living in a 3rd world country.

I would rather be in a place where I have a distinct advantage! Why would anyone stay where they are at a disadvantage? Does a rich man or a movie star have an advantage over the common man? I think so, but you don't see women pining for a taxi cab driver or a shoe salesman! It is no different.

Perhaps Riley you are a racist because all I'm doing is promoting multiculturalism between the sexes and giving guys an easier way to meet friendly and interesting women who's priorities do not include: Shopping, Eating Bon Bons and posting on internet forums.

You are saying it is better to stay here where men have a distinct disadvantage among women because it meets with YOUR approval. Reference: Men going abroad are shamed by the women.

I've also been in the PUA culture for over 10 years and it is no more manipulative than a woman who 'accidentally' gets pregnant or pushes a man to get married. PUA Techniques for men are no different than a woman who reads an issue of cosmopolitan magazine.

10 Secrets to getting a man to marry you.

5 ways to make your man happy in bed

21 ways to tell if your man and you are meant to be

Who hasn't seen that at the local grocery store.



[edit on 31-5-2010 by liberatorx]

[edit on 31-5-2010 by liberatorx]

Originally posted by liberatorx
Perhaps Riley you are a racist because all I'm doing is promoting multiculturalism between the sexes and giving guys an easier way to meeting girls.

Perhaps Liberatorx you are a troll trying to bait people by justifying sexual slavery. Going to other countries in order to prey on desperate women is disgusting. If they married you just so they can eat and get a roof over their heads that does not mean you are being open minded about other races.. it just means you view them as something to be exploited.

Which I honesly do not think is the case anyway as looking at your whole three posts since you joined they all seem to be baiting feminists and possibly specific posters.

[edit on 31-5-2010 by riley]

" Perhaps Liberatorx you are a troll trying to bait people by justifying sexual slavery. Going to other countries in order to prey on desperate women is disgusting. If they married you just so they can eat and get a roof over their heads that does not mean you are being open minded about other races.. it just means you view them as something to be exploited. "
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In no place does my prior post indicate that I am advocating men go abroad to meet DISADVANTAGED women. There are plenty of middle class and rich women abroad... USUALLY people who speak english come from fairly well to do familes and those will be the women that the men will most likely meet. I advocate that FOREIGN WOMEN are FRIENDLY AND MORE OPEN TO MEETING MEN. PERIOD.

Your single mindedness shows that you are threatened by what I have to say and I have no doubt you will soon petition the mods to remove my thread as is the case in all female dominated forums.

The woman I spent the last 3 years with spoke english extremely well. Was a Mexican who's father owned a resort in Puerto Vallarta. She was at NO DISADVANTAGE at any time during our relationship. She was always extremely curteous and was happy just being around me. Our relationship stopped because her father forbade me from marrying her on the grounds that his little girl would not be marrying a truck driver. We are continuing to pursue the relationship in secret.

Now tell me who is at the disadvantage?

Let it be known that I do not wish to bait or attack feminists (extremists). I only want to reach men who are having trouble with dating women in their home country. The information is free and I am not trying to get men to buy into anything. I have had success and I wish to share it.

Feminists this post is not directed at you and I don't want a flame war, please move on. I wish only to help other men.

[edit on 31-5-2010 by liberatorx]

[edit on 31-5-2010 by liberatorx]

why do men break up wit nice girls??? yu answer me that

Originally posted by liberatorx
Let it be known that I do not wish to bait or attack feminists (extremists).

No.. calling feminists exremists isn't baiting at all.
I don't always love being right but your proving it sure saved me alot of time.

Moving on.

Originally posted by SuperSlovak
What gives? I get all dressed up, put on a smiley face and be at my best behavior, but for what? To get dumped again?

Why can't women settle for what they have! Always looking for something better. I was nice to every last woman I ever dated and still they dump me.

What the hell was that for? Am I supposed to be rude and stare at her chest?

You are seen as weak.

I liek turtolz!