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Originally posted by AlphaCentauri
The part of LOA that I get confused about is "letting go without losing interest." I'm not really sure what letting go means. Does it mean that I need to stop dwelling on it constantly and let my desire come to me? Can anybody answer this? How long are we supposed to focus on what we want before we "let it go?"
My question is....is there just certain things that I can't have? Truly, am I expecting too much to get hired at this highly selective company when I don't have a financial background? I have applied for 4 jobs total, I have been turned down for 3 of them, and one is still pending. I don't want the HR department to think that I am some nut job that keeps applying for jobs and everytime they deny me they say to themselves, "Why won't she stop applying? She'll never work here!" I mean, we can't grow a 3rd arm...isn't there just certain things with LOA that we can't do?
I would greatly appreciate any help you all could give me!
AlphaC
Originally posted by metatronscube
reply to post by Illusionsaregrander
I believe I understand what you're saying. In this example, I would live in the present and "coast" on the positive statement , that, I am already attractive to the opposite sex, for reasons X,Y and Z, that are ALREADY true.
Originally posted by metatronscube
If I want reasons, L, M, N,O and P, to be true, I could use the positive thinking from X,Y and Z to help me further my goals, maybe by helping change my attitude about exercise or grooming, etc?
Originally posted by Illusionsaregrander
Originally posted by metatronscube
reply to post by Illusionsaregrander
I believe I understand what you're saying. In this example, I would live in the present and "coast" on the positive statement , that, I am already attractive to the opposite sex, for reasons X,Y and Z, that are ALREADY true.
Yes, but dont bother trying to "lie" to yourself. If you really honestly dont feel that you are attractive to the opposite sex, dont bother trying to 'slap a smiley face,' as SKyfloating phrased it, on it by PRETENDING you think you are. (Like an affirmation) If you genuinely can FEEL that belief when you do it without any "yeah right" going on somewhere, then affirmations are fine. But if your belief is pretty deeply entrenched, just notice it is there, notice it is not "true" (ie: that it is a creation of your own beliefs not some intractable state) and then focus on areas in which you ARE attractive that you can actually BELIEVE. Belief matters. It really, really matters. Whatever the areas where you are already attractive may be. Notice who or what IS attracted to you. No matter how you feel about them, and be grateful for the fact that they are attracted to you. Put your attention on it. Be grateful you have all your limbs, thats attractive, (assuming you do, if not focus on something you DO have) dont just say, "I am grateful." Clearly you are intelligent, and friendly, those are attractive qualities. Whatever they are, sit down and really think about how lucky you are to be you, and not worse off. Spend Awareness on what you have, not WANT. There is ALWAYS a worse off, so BE, FEEL, the sensation of gratitude for what you have right now related to the attractivness issue.
Saying "I need more x" just look at the language. Need, the implied lack by the word "more." Think of something you think you need. Feel what feeling NEED and LACK feels like. It feels hungry, anxious, sort of sad. That feeling is (or creates) a vibration, and energy level. Have you ever been next to someone really pissed off? Do they have to tell you they are pissed off? Or does it just emanate from them? You can "feel" the energy they are giving off. It is the same way with this, but less obvious. We are very clued in to anger energy because natural selection has made us very aware of people who have the potential to suddenly turn around and kill us or hurt us. But all emotions and feelings have a "frequency" a "vibration." However you feel comfortable describing it. Just because you cant consciously "name" them when you run across them like you can anger doesnt mean they arent there and registering somewhere.
Saying "I am grateful I have x." HAVING in the present sense, "gratitude" instead of need. Feel what having feels like, and gratitude, it feels good, nice, uplifting. Which is why "lying to yourself" wont work. Because if you are just saying "affirmations" and you interanl dialog is "no way" and you feel like "this is stupid, or it wont work" what you are feeling will override what your mouth is saying. Find elements of what you want to attract more of that you can believe you already have so you can build off that energetically.
Originally posted by metatronscube
If I want reasons, L, M, N,O and P, to be true, I could use the positive thinking from X,Y and Z to help me further my goals, maybe by helping change my attitude about exercise or grooming, etc?
Dont put it into the future by thinking "when I look better." Over 60% of the US population is carrying some extra weight. You dont need to lose weight to be attractive, look around you at couples everywhere. People of all sizes, shapes, and grooming proficiency have mates. If you are really grateful for your body, it is much more likely that you will take care of it, like a well loved car. If you look at your body as "what is holding you back" that resentment will spill over into your treatment of it. So dont make "becoming" anything a pre-requisite for your being attractive to the opposite sex. Thats energy you just dont need. Work on how you are attractive right now, and being grateful for the raw material you already have. One of the people I know who gets the most action is NOT perfectly slim, is NOT movie star attractive, and is NOT rich. What they are is confident, happy, oh so SURE they are attractive, and it works. If someone acts like "I HAVE something," and really exudes that, believes it, other people want it too.
Originally posted by Illahee
Unfortunately my fathers recent passing was a true test of my own work and teaching, and I had to walk the talk in real time.
Originally posted by Skyfloating
Originally posted by Illahee
Unfortunately my fathers recent passing was a true test of my own work and teaching, and I had to walk the talk in real time.
While remembering: There is a lot of beauty in the afterlife as well.
Originally posted by Skyfloating
reply to post by AlphaCentauri
There are some pretty important things in your post referring to LOA and how it may be misapplied. I look forward to offering my 2 cents to your post very soon.
Originally posted by Illahee
These are really good questions that deserve some input. The other folks here will have different insight that I may not be able to articulate properly so I look forward to their assessments myself.
The first part here can be summed up in one word. Belief. Do you believe it is coming without having to micromanage every little detail in a process that is beyond your management?
Now this second part is about the job you seek. You have so many preconceived ideas about education and requirements for work that they are interfering with possibility. First on this one. Most people hired have a specific level of education for a position. Many however do not. Those are hired based on known quality of previous work, a great attitude that is 'contagious' or the hiring manager believe the person has great stability and can be trained into a position.
Whenever I hear of someone who failed to interview well, the first questions I ask are Did you demonstrate through example that you are capable of learning virtually anything that comes your way? Did you discuss specifics in your past? he second thing I ask Is how did you present yourself? Look in the mirror. Did you present yourself as the positive upbeat person they want on their team? Did you appear in the interview to be that really fun person that everyone wan't to be around and work with? A good hiring manager will overlook most things including education if you are representing yourself in the two instances above.
Try this. Concentrate on meeting higher level managers in the company. Nothing more. Within a short period of time it will transpire. Form a friendship with those people but don't try for an in, or even mention it. When the relationships have been formed then go into the seeking mode but still don't bring it up. They will likely mention it to you. Figure on 120days or much more for the process.
Originally posted by AlphaCentauri
My question is....is there just certain things that I can't have? Truly, am I expecting too much to get hired at this highly selective company when I don't have a financial background? I have applied for 4 jobs total, I have been turned down for 3 of them, and one is still pending. I don't want the HR department to think that I am some nut job that keeps applying for jobs and everytime they deny me they say to themselves, "Why won't she stop applying? She'll never work here!" I mean, we can't grow a 3rd arm...isn't there just certain things with LOA that we can't do?
I would greatly appreciate any help you all could give me!
AlphaC
Originally posted by AlphaCentauri
The part of LOA that I get confused about is "letting go without losing interest." I'm not really sure what letting go means. Does it mean that I need to stop dwelling on it constantly and let my desire come to me? Can anybody answer this? How long are we supposed to focus on what we want before we "let it go?"
There is a company where I live that I really would love to be employed at. It's a huge financial company. However, my backgroud is in the medical field. I have an Associate of Liberal Arts degree in general studies, an Associate of Applied Science degree in lab science, and I will be done taking onine courses in March 2008 for my Bachelor of Science in Clinical Laboratory Science. I feel stupid saying this, but I am tired of the healthcare field already and need a change. I don't respect it anymore and that is just how I feel about it. I would love to get a job at this financial company but I don't have a degree in financing, accounting, etc, although I have a lot of schooling with a technical/science/math background. I enjoy working in an office setting with computers and doing project work. This is a great company and I would love to be a part of it.
I would very much enjoy even a minor accounting job that requires a AA in accounting or the equivlent. I have 2 AA (AS) and a Bachelor of Science....but is all that schooling not good enough? I have applied for other jobs at this company in the past 2 weeks and I have been declined for 3 different jobs tnat they felt I was not qualifed for even though these jobs at this financial company actually were somewhat healthcare related! ( I get upset when they say they want you to have such and such years of experience but how can one gain experience if one can't get hired in the first place??)
The last job I applied for I was really bummed out because I held intentions, visualized, and acted like I had the job for 3 days. After 3 days, I was informed I didn't get the job. I have been kindly informed by Skyfloating that my negative reaction to me not getting the job showed that I place to much emphasis on the physical.
Originally posted by althea041724
I have been following along this thread (aka: lurking…lol) since its inception, and although I am absorbing daily a lot more than I ever thought I knew just by reading here, the basic fundamental concept of LOA seems to me to be : “as if “ thinking; is this not correct, on a very, very, VERY basic level?
Originally posted by Skyfloating
So rather than "What are things you could do to reach your goal?" I say "What are things you would be doing if you had already reached your goal?"...which is at least twice as powerful as the first question.
Originally posted by dominicus
But the strongest and most powerful way to amplify by far is through Love. Whatever you are attracting and being, do it in a state of Love of self, of others, of everyone, of God, of Love. Reach the heights of Love and you will be amazed how fast things attract into your life, it will get to a point where you step back for a second because of how scary it is that you can literally manifest stuff within hours....
Originally posted by Skyfloating
You "let go" once you feel that it is "already" manifest. The feeling you have (without outside evidence) is enough to know you have created something. But once you are identified with some reality being true, you dont have to hold on to it anymore anyway. You "let go" naturally. Let go of what? Of neediness of and preoccupation with the subject.
Two issues here:
1. Some focus is still on what you dont want (the old job)
2. You are being too specific about what you want instead. In other words, if you fix on that one job you not only miss other, better jobs, but also have the danger of building up doubt on the subject. The more practiced you are at LOA, the more specific you can get. But as a beginner, being unspecific is better. When you therefore visualize/identify with your desired reality, say: "This, the equivalent, or better". Fixed attention = needy attention = non-manifestation.
Originally posted by AlphaCentauri
You are right. Sometimes (well, oftentimes) the sadness that I am not doing what I really desire overwhelms me. I know this is a cop out...but I would really love for someone to tell what what I would be the most happy and fulfilled as (career wise). I just feel so lost. Thanks for the advice about being unspecific for now as well. I have been wondering if I'm being way too specific in my visualizations, therefore cutting off possible routes of manifestation.
by AlphaCentauri
The last job I applied for I was really bummed out because I held intentions, visualized, and acted like I had the job for 3 days. After 3 days, I was informed I didn't get the job. I have been kindly informed by Skyfloating that my negative reaction to me not getting the job showed that I place to much emphasis on the physical.
by Skyfloating
Your reaction after being rejected showed where you really stand in terms of vibration/creation. Had you been able to stay in your belief WHILE getting rejected...you have no idea how powerful that is. You would either change the persons mind (the person who is rejecting you) OR you would get an opportunity from SOMEWHERE ELSE. But nah...most people take what happens "out there" as evidence of "who they are and what they are manifesting"....and thats a gross missapplication of LOA. Check it out.
by Illusionsaregrander
Alpha, I have had a similar experience, and you can judge for yourself if there are any possible connections. I dont know you well enough to judge.
I have a minor in business. (Accounting actually, oddly enough) I was nearly through with the program when I had a "spiritual event."
I decided instead, I resolved inside, to not make my decisions in life based on fear or "logic" alone, and I resolved to go ahead and switch my major to Philosophy, which I have loved for quite a while, but would never have considered majoring in because, well, it qualifies you to work at McDonalds, no matter WHAT your GPA is.
Sometimes, what our heart/soul, (the Self,) wishes and what our mind, (the self,) wishes are not in alignment. When that is the case, the Self will win every time. No matter how "hard" you try.