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Originally posted by AccessDenied
Buddy she is playing seriously whacked out headgames with you...if she is pregnant...I doubt it is yours.Probably the other guys .She just wanted to mess with your life.I believe you need to get on with your life...and drop her ass.If down the road she does give birth...the paternity test will still be in order.I doubt it.She is a witch for putting you through this hell.Too many girls use this BS to keep a guy.Makes me sick.If she refuses to go to a doctor for proof....that right there is your big red flag.
Get on with your life...and keep her out of it.
Originally posted by Ellipsis
reply to post by fweshcawfee
By all means do not sugar-coat your replies or banter. I agree that you should say it how you see it.
However I do not see it as such. I will say it as it is as well, or as I see it.
*raises her glass*
Originally posted by fweshcawfee
Wow was that ever bad advice. Do you actually think the girl is telling the truth, didn't you read the OP at all? The girl has lied to him about things, she very likely is lieing about being hit by someone as well.
Originally posted by fweshcawfee
Teenage girls have a broad reputation for crying wolf and exagerating physical abuse to get attention, that may be stereotypical but it's still the truth, it happens every day. This girl has lied to the OP already, why should he believe her about this?
Originally posted by fweshcawfee
Taking someone like that at their word, which clearly is worthless, is a bad idea. The OP should wash his hands of her and let her sort out her own problems, if she's being abused by someone she knows how to talk to her family or get help on her own.
Originally posted by Vegemite
Thanks for the advice guys. This is getting bigger.
So the other day I sent an angry message to the other dude. Well he messaged me back saying that he didnt abuse her and that the bruises on her arm are from when she had blood drawn at the emergency room.
Katie agrees with this, she says she almost had a miscarriage, the other guy says she was only just sick and that she had a pregnancy test but didnt go into the details about the results.
So I called the guy and he said that she isnt pregnant, but that the other day she came over his house and said that she wanted him to give her a baby, and they had sex. He also says that part of the deal they had was that she would move down to Mississippi with him if he did. According to him she agreed.
I dont know who to believe. She lied about the whole abuse part, so she might be lying about the whole pregnancy. Im gonna try and get her to meet me at kmart tonight so we can do a pregnancy test. I was gonna wait till friday, but considering the new evidence that might be risky. Hopefully that will settle it.
Originally posted by AccessDenied
At the risk of getting a Mod Mad at me...Chissler did you read this?:shk:
She Lied!
Originally posted by fweshcawfee
Even if the girl turns out to be pregnant, I still stand by every word I said in advising the OP.
Originally posted by fweshcawfee
When you've been put through the Hell, anguish and multiple mind screwings that I have in life, you learn quite a few things about people and how they think, you eventually reach a point where it's pretty easy to see through peoples' B.S.
Originally posted by fweshcawfee
That clearly confirms that every shred of advice I gave you was the right advice. Never listen to a bleeding heart when you're in a bad situation, they'll steer you wrong everytime. Always listen to the sensible person, the one who "seems" like just a heartless jerk, because that's the person that will save your freaking arse if you listen to them.
Nuff said, good luck.
Originally posted by fweshcawfee
I'm not insinuating I'm right ALL the time, I'm not some sort of wise all-knowing guru sitting on a mountain top somewhere with all the answers... but more often than not, the advice I give is credible and sensible enough that it should be considered.