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Originally posted by forsakenwayfarer
didnt read all 4 pages of this thread, because i dont have time to, sorry, but i want to add my opinion.
im sorry, but being gay is NOT genetic. these people were either abused as children, or had some other event that prompted them to be pavlovian-like conditioned into misleading themselves into the idea that sex and attraction to your own gender is right. from a natural standpoint, it is not. from a moral standpoint, it is not. from a spiritual standpoint, well you get the picture. this is not something they 'have no control over'. i cannot believe that, its a boldfaced lie. thats like saying murderers dont have any control over their actions.
mind you i dont hate these people, i dont personally care what they do, i just completely and totally disagree with their actions when brought into public, to the point of disgust. i dont bother gays, i dont care what they do, as long as they keep it private. i dont want to know what theyre doing behind closed doors, and as such it should be kept, BEHIND CLOSED DOORS. once you bring it out into the open, its no longer private, bottom line, and as such they cannot expect people to not take notice. thinking people will not take notice if you are blatantly public is a completely naieve and selfish action.
As to the argument about it being a choice put it this way. I may choose to either act on my desires or suppress them but I certainly dont choose to have those desires in the first place. Say I suppress them marry and have children what of my wife and the children, do they deserve to have second best ie a man who would far sooner pursue a relationship with a member of his own sex but sees the wife and kids deal as his ticket to heaven or a passport to acceptance by heterosexual society. Having seen the misery that nine times out of ten results from such actions I think that's a #ty deal for all involved personally and I'm refering not to those with bisexual tendencies who have at least one of the options open to them but to the 100% gay people.
There has been no incidence of sexual abuse or any kind of significant event in my life that caused me to be this way and most of my gay freinds readily admit the same so I don't think the above statement is really an accurate summation of the cause of homosexuality although I'm sure some people do suffer from confusion about their sexuality because of outside influences.
'Slippery slope' debates involving gays, paedophiles, bestiality Osam, Hitler et al only go to prove that each issue should be examined and judged objectively within it's own context and not tenuously linked to other more emotive subjects.
Originally posted by Amuk
To me if two people can find love and happiness in this screwed up sh*t hole more power to them.
Having said that it DOES say gays will go to hell so its just a matter of what you belive.
The Bible never says that gays will go to hell. It simply states, and has been a part of the christian religion for 2000 years, that homosexuality is a sin.
Originally posted by forsakenwayfarer
didnt read all 4 pages of this thread, because i dont have time to, sorry, but i want to add my opinion.
im sorry, but being gay is NOT genetic. these people were either abused as children, or had some other event that prompted them to be pavlovian-like conditioned into misleading themselves into the idea that sex and attraction to your own gender is right. from a natural standpoint, it is not. from a moral standpoint, it is not. from a spiritual standpoint, well you get the picture. this is not something they 'have no control over'. i cannot believe that, its a boldfaced lie. thats like saying murderers dont have any control over their actions.
mind you i dont hate these people, i dont personally care what they do, i just completely and totally disagree with their actions when brought into public, to the point of disgust. i dont bother gays, i dont care what they do, as long as they keep it private. i dont want to know what theyre doing behind closed doors, and as such it should be kept, BEHIND CLOSED DOORS. once you bring it out into the open, its no longer private, bottom line, and as such they cannot expect people to not take notice. thinking people will not take notice if you are blatantly public is a completely naieve and selfish action.
[Edited on 7-1-2004 by forsakenwayfarer]
Originally posted by agentlopez
I am just trying to get some asnwers. Not trying to get sarcastic remarks. Now please!
So gay men are treated like evil sinners by most and a hot lesbian couple are treated like goddesses? What is going on here?
Originally posted by Ocelot
Will you go to hell if you are gay?
NO.
What's up with this question anyways? Do we even know for sure if heaven and hell exists? Oh that's right they do because it says so in the bible .
jesus god. all were asking is that for the sake of debate you drop that one line and assume heaven and hell exist for the sake of debate. theres not argument if you ruin it for everyone and turn this into a heaven/hell existance debate make another thread if you want that
People need to cut it out with this bull#. Lets assume for a second that there is such a thing as "heaven" and "hell". What makes you think that gay people are right up there on the list to go to hell anyways? I have a couple of groups that certainly deserve to go to hell way before gay people should even be considered:
1) Lying dirty sack of # politicians (ie. The current administration)
agreed
2) People who sell drugs
this is bull#, just because drugs are against the laws of MAN suddenly becomes a reason for these people to go to hell? sorry, no dice. its the conscious decision of the user to use, not the seller foring the user to use. classic liberal argument, attack the wrong part of the problem with huge vigour to grasp at a soloution that is in itself inherently flawed. if people want to use, let them. its their body, im not hurting anyone but me if i decide to use drugs.
3) Murderers
4) Rapists
5) Child molesters
i also agree with 3 4 and 5
6) People who do stupid # like bungee jumping, rock climbing, skydiving. If you feel like your life is so empty and devoid of meaning that you feel like you have to cheat death in order to feel alive then I got something you could do, take this gun and blow your #ing brains out!
you sound like one dull mother#er. who are you to decide what people should be able to do with their lives, as long as they arent hurting anyone else in the process. hey dude, guess what, theres this new fad. its called OUTSIDE. try it once in a while, your life might get less boring
7) People who think the Matrix Trilogy "was like the most awesome trilogy ever"
8) Guys in this country that have been so pussified by women that they can't even find their balls anymore even if they looked.
9) People who believe in censorship. I got one thing to say to you people.... "Go shoot yourselves out of a cannon into a brick wall"!!
10) People who asks questions like "Are gay people going to hell?"
jesus, you have loads of double standards here. i also realise that my argument on the surface appears flawed, that gays arent hurting anyone by being gay. no, directly they are not. but im sure it isnt helping natures plan when two men screw and no child is born of it. thats not the way we are MADE to work, then why is it so right? its hurting SOCIETY in the end. a union of a natural couple is productive. a gay union cannot be productive to society, the human gene pool, etc. bottom line.
I could go on but what's the point. If there is such a thing as "hell" then you will only go there if you're a bad person. Simple as that. I know gay people that are some of the funniest and nicest people you could ever meet. So what if they like people of the same sex. They are not hurting anyone. again, society as a whole suffers. I don't give a # who you like to have sex with. Why should it even be an issue when you die and you go to heaven or hell. My guess it that it doesn't even get mentioned.
Anyways enough of my rambling. Im out.
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[Edited on 7-1-2004 by Ocelot]