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originally posted by: quintessentone
Not only that the U.K. prosecutors are using those old tactics of victimizing the victim by inquiring as to past sexual behaviour.
originally posted by: Kurokage
a reply to: AlienBorg
I was asked about my qualifications and wasn't the one who asked him what he has. I know he said he is a lawyer but he doesn't seem to be sticking to the ethical principles of innocent until proven guilty.
Not entirely true. You asked if Oldcarpy had a licence, trying to infer something perhaps? I remember a banned rambling, lunatic poster using the same tactic??
A quick internet search will show you that people have been found guilty of crimes based on digital forensic evidence and nothing more.
For historical matters the Police usually dismiss them. Even a security guard knows this.
Say to that Rolf Harris and Jimmy Saville accusers??
On topic and to add to the thread.
I see a few poster saying they were consenting adults with asmodborg being one of them.
When does consent turn into not consenting?
All of us can easily say when someone forces themselves onto a stranger, that's rape and none consensual sex.
So if during sex a male decides he's putting 'it' somewhere else and the female doesn't agree and says stop then it becomes none consensual, if he forces her to then carry on, that becomes very difficult to prove, with police and defence asking things like "how many sexual partners have you had?" or "look at how you were dressed?", there's also intimate examinations.
When I was in my early 20's during the early 90s, I had a lovely female friend who loved to dance and have fun. I used to go to raves and would often invite her. She never went.
After knowing her for a few years, she told what had happened a few years before I met her.
She used to go with friends to a local city which had a night club and big Uni'. She did'nt take drugs or drink much, just enjoyed dancing with her friends.
One night a guy started talking to her and her friends, dancing with them and such, at the end of the night he asked my friend if she wanted to get food and share a taxi.
He'd been a gentleman all night and they both seemed interested in each other so she agreed. Whilst they were eating he asked her to if she wanted to come back to his. I know this girl didn't do one night stands or was 'casual'.
She told me that if she wouldn't have slept with him but if they enjoyed the night out and went out again she might of if it looked more serious.
They arrived at his, he put some music on and asked her if she wanted a drink, She said ok, after a few sips that was the last thing she remembered till the next morning.
She knew she had been raped, she was sore and felt dirty. She got up went home and showered and felt full of shame.
She never reported it, never went to the police because she was frightened of what would happen and didn't want to face all that.
I will never forget that conversation for the rest of my life.
Now some of you will say, she shouldn't have gone to his flat or she knew what he wanted, even worse some of you say she's a slag and just covering herself. She had no choice in how the night played out.
She was a lovely woman and lovely friend. I know that night scared her.
Thats how some of these predators get away with the way they treat people.