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Honestly, we only spanked him a few times. Other methods were effective.
How does a person become that evil? Is it taught, or embedded in the genetic code? I see it as a flaw, one that needs corrected.
originally posted by: Bluntone22
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Several unprovoked attacks on elderly Asian Americans, including at least three in the Bay Area captured in disturbing videos in recent days, have raised concerns about anti-Asian bias related to the Covid-19 pandemic.
At a news conference in Oakland's Chinatown on Monday, Alameda County District Attorney Nancy O'Malley announced the creation of a special response unit focused on crimes against Asians, and particularly older Asians.
originally posted by: network dude
I sure didn't intend for this to be a "how to discipline your child" thread, but here it is. We raised 3 kids and now a grandkid. All 3 of mine reacted differently and needed different stimuli to get their attention. Oldest responded to grounding very well. She would correct bad actions quickly when threatened with being banished to her room. Middle kid lectured me on how spanking was wrong and immoral. She didn't screw up much as a kid and saved her mistakes for later in life. Son responded well to a smack in the ass. He even thanks me today for the ones he got. They were few enough he remembers them. And the key in all of it, was "disappointment" from parents.
Kids aren't all the same. And mine were exceptionally good at hiding that damn manual that was supposed to come with them.
originally posted by: new_here
a reply to: The2Billies
Great post. I was an elem school guidance counselor where I did parenting workshops. Incorporated much of the info you've outlined. One thing I also shared, from experience, is to not discipline out of pure anger. Step outside of the situation and view it as an observer. If you can't, tell the kids, "Mom/Da needs a 5 minute time out before I do/say something I'll regret. We'll discuss this when I'm finished." This does 2 things... lets you calm down enough to discipline with love not anger, and models self control (as in, think before you act.)