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originally posted by: dfnj2015
a reply to: Macenroe82
It's funny how the people who are the most outspoken against homosexuality turn out to be one in the end!
RE: "forced fed to us?"
I rest my case.
originally posted by: Ironclad1964
originally posted by: dfnj2015
a reply to: Macenroe82
It's funny how the people who are the most outspoken against homosexuality turn out to be one in the end!
RE: "forced fed to us?"
I rest my case.
Wow man, you've really been treading a fine line in this and other threads lately, literally abusing and insulting people and generally being obscene..
This place will be quite boring and quiet for a long while after you've been banned.
I'm sure your comrades will try to pick up the slack in your absence..
originally posted by: Macenroe82
a reply to: CooBoo
Thank you for the comment, you make many logical points.
Especially about the trans regret.
I linked to an article in one of my previous posts, about a trans who started a group for others like themselves who had the op. done and greatly regretted doing so not so long after.
originally posted by: Liquesence
a reply to: Macenroe82
Why does it bother you so much?
What is their "agenda?"
originally posted by: Bluntone22
originally posted by: dfnj2015
a reply to: Macenroe82
It's funny how the people who are the most outspoken against homosexuality turn out to be one in the end!
RE: "forced fed to us?"
I rest my case.
Using your logic trump must be your dream president.
But seriously that's a bull # talking point for people that can't win an argument.
originally posted by: CooBoo
I can't even begin to cite the number of studies that show that people who 'transition' later regret it....
Results: In both samples we found high levels of satisfaction in all the areas explored (including sexual life after surgery), and levels of psychological and social well-being comparable to those of the general population. Conclusion: Our results support previous studies suggesting that SRS not only alleviates gender dysphoria but also improves quality of life and psychosocial functioning in transsexual persons.
The SRS used in the treatment of transsexuality releases the conflict and makes the transformation on official gender and is associated with improvements in quality of life, self esteem, family support, sexual life satisfaction and interpersonal reliationships and reduction in worries about gender discrimination and gender victimization.
The very high rates of subjective satisfaction and the surgical outcomes indicate that gender reassignment surgery is beneficial. These findings must be interpreted with caution, however, because fewer than half of the questionnaires were returned.
The satisfaction with feminizing surgeries was 96% to 100%, except for a single person receiving vocal cord surgery who was not satisfied.
The results show that gender reassignment surgery improves the QoL for transsexuals in several different important areas: most are satisfied of their sexual reassignment (28/30), their social (21/30) and sexual QoL (25/30) are improved.
originally posted by: dfnj2015
a reply to: Macenroe82
It's funny how the people who are the most outspoken against homosexuality turn out to be one in the end!
RE: "forced fed to us?"
I rest my case.
originally posted by: CooBoo
Man, I hate when these threads come up... they simultaneously bring out the best and worst of ATS.
As a guy who happens to sleep with both women and men, I can definitively say I'm not a 'member' of the LGBTQLMNOP+ community. It's b*tchy, it's hateful, it's vain, and it's pushy. WHY someone decided to even put LGB together in the first place is hilarious. The gays hate lesbians, the lesbians hate everyone else, and the bisexuals just want to have fun and DGAF about the plumbing, moreso the human behind it. Then came T. Okay. Almost everyone (almost) that I know in the 'community' thinks the T is setting everything back, because they're pushing for special rights and going past 'chemistry' to socio-biological dysfunction*.
I can't even comment on the rest of the alphabet soup, because I honestly don't know what half of it means. I just tend to enjoy having relationships with whomever I please. I like and love people, man or woman, who make me feel more complete and as a partner in this often terrible world.
Being gay, bi, whatever, is both a state of biological function and mental structure. It's not a choice, I'll go ahead and admit that right away, and the single most annoying and ignorant conceit in the world is that it is chosen. It isn't. If you would prefer me to refer you to studies dating back to the 70's, then re-constructed in the 90's and again recently (all with the same outcomes), I can do so. This is crap I learned studying neuroscience at a Top 10 university in the US. It was not in any way politicized - just pure, pure science (measuring clitoral engorgement, penile circumference, pupil dilation, etc. when presented with certain stimuli. e.g. Things people can't fake or 'think' into existence.) Some people's bodies just react on a subconscious level to certain stimuli. Who gives a sh*t? Government stops at my front door, and it sure as hell stops at my bedroom door. If you have an issue that that's a reality, I mean, get over it? I'm not affecting you. Think all gays or whatever are pedophiles? That's an entirely different issue, and it's just... I don't know a kinder word than 'bigotry'. Maybe' ignorance' is better.
What bothers the ever-loving sh*t out of me is when everyone has to be corralled into a cattle-call to 'demonstrate' for one thing or another. Shut up. You don't. Was life hell for people who were gay/bi/whatever back in the day? HELL yes. Did bodies pile up because we as a society decided that AIDS research wasn't important because it was largely confined to one group? Yep. Did the gays get the crap beat out of them? Yep.
Should we get over it, thank those who came before us for the progress that we have, and now be thankful that we have equal rights? Yep.
Should we push for 'more' equal rights, or special rights? Hell to the no.
I try as hard as I can to be intellectually honest in all aspects of my life. I really honestly believe that the moment I admitted "Awe damn, I guess I could be in a relationship with a guy" was a seminal *snicker* moment that caused me to re-evaluate a lot of positions I'd held just for the sake of holding them. I now look at each issue on its own merits. I don't pre-judge. I'm honestly a better person for it, and free-er thinker for it. But when I see that friggin' alphabet soup following one position en masse just because that's what's been deigned as the 'position', I throw up a little in my mouth.
Pete Buttigieg flat-out lied about his friendship with Pence (I know Mayor Pete, and have met Pence more than a few times, and he's decent as hell). I won't support someone who lies about something so trivial just to score points with the Alphabet Soup community. That's horse-pucky. There are a heck of a lot more of ME than there are of those weirdos who dye their hair purple and run around in leather. They should not set an agenda.
That being said: If they make rainbow-colored flowers for Veteran's Day, let 'em. There are SO MANY in the older generation that not only had to hide everything of who they were or who they loved, but lost so much because of it. It's incredibly sad, and to hear their stories is moving. Nobody would 'choose' that in a million years. If we can help them feel some semblance of recognition or respect for their collective sacrifice, I'm all for it. Does it need to be the default color? No. Should it be an *option*? I honestly can't think of why not, other than flat-out hatred.
*Blah blah requisite apologies to people who are Trans, but c'mon. I can't even begin to cite the number of studies that show that people who 'transition' later regret it, or feel forced into it. It's awful. Maybe my position will evolve at some point as they figure out wtf is going on, but for now, I can't whole-heartedly support it.