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originally posted by: eXia7
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: eXia7
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: eXia7
Just grow a beard in protest.
Don't most millenials and older millenials already don beards? Within my sphere of life I see many do.
I have a beard, I guess im part of millenials, but I earned my beard. Most of these hipsters don't deserve a beard.
How do you earn a beard? (new one on me)
Because I get out and do the grunt work, out in the trenches making my life better. Not sitting on the internet in my mom's basement complaining on social media about toxic masculinity while I look for the best skin care and facial products on the market while sitting in skinny jeans with thick rimmed glasses with feminine personality.
Feminine men do not deserve beards.
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
Those are only your perceived life lessons, so sure own them. But it is arrogant to assume the person you beat up has learned any valuable life lesson other than to steer clear of you. The violence and inability to handle and deal with the situation in a civil way remains.
AGAIN. I am not saying this is the first response....at all. This is a last resort that should happen after all civil responses have failed. Which, happens more times that you are willing to admit.
But, you keep your arrogant head in the sand, and continue to think you know more about the male experience than actual males because you talked to men and heard "expert" spout on about what is "right". Experts, I may add, that are hired to advocate that exact approach to protect the legal health of the organization that pays their salary.
Yes, by all mean believe them over someone that experiences the situation first-hand. To you that is more valuable since it does not threaten your ego.
I have first-hand experience, but you keep deflecting. Your experience is not every other man's experience.
As I said before, the lawmakers make laws that the people want, ergo, society deems physical assault to be wrong, illegal and so there you have it.
Please tell me when you were a little boy being bullied, and were forced to fight back. Then the two of you became lifelong friends to this day. Tell me about your first-hand experience as a little boy....please. This I have to hear.
Anything less is NOT first-hand experience not matter how hard you try to make it so....never.
I was considered a tom boy, one day while at the park on the swing, a boy came up grabbed the two swing chains and told me if I didn't get off the swing he would beat me up. I kicked him in the nuts and when he fell under me I kicked him in the head. He was saved by the Park Trainer and banned from the park for two weeks. When he returned he decided he loved me.
Some boys considered me one of them and acted accordingly, to their demise.
Being a "tom boy" is not being a real boy. Sorry. It just isn't the same.
And, given that you used violence to stop the attack, and his attitude turned around kind of dispels you own stance and confirms mine, doesn't it? He seemed to have more respect for you after you fought back, didn't he?
Isn't that odd??
It was the late 50s early 60s, that was what we kids had to do. That was the programming at the time. If I could do it all over again I, and if I was taught how to handle a situation like that, I would have yelled for the Park Trainer to throw his ass out of the park, without me having to hurt him.
I didn't want his respect, because I did not respect him for being a bully.
And I guarantee you had you done that (called the ranger) the next attack from him would have been worse and continued. Whether you accept his respect or not is irrelevant isn't it? It happened....and you can't accept that as a fact even in your own experience.
But, we are "more evolved today"., so evolved that we prevent boys from defending themselves up to the point that they snap and decide to kill everyone in the school. Yeah. real evolved. No thanks. I don't advocate creating mass killers because of "feelz".
OMG you have gone right off the deep end with this.
Are you denying that most of the school shooters were previously bullied in that school and were prevented form dealing with it in small doses as we used to do? Who is off the deep end now?
And I am serious...deadly serious.
How could these troubled people be prevented from dealing with it if their friends, parents and school authorities knew what was happening? Education is key to helping kids worth through bullying and from what I see, it far worse than what you or I had to deal with.
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: YouSir
originally posted by: InTheLight
Lame response - don't keep trying YouSir.
Ummm...sorry...62% of women have fantasized about being forcefully ravished/raped by a hero figure...
They buy 1.44 billion dollars a year in books with those themes repeatedly enacted through each chapter...
That’s like...a lot...
Just keeping things in perspective...
YouSir
Fantasy is not reality, so keep things in their true perspective. There are no men hero figures in true life.
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
Those are only your perceived life lessons, so sure own them. But it is arrogant to assume the person you beat up has learned any valuable life lesson other than to steer clear of you. The violence and inability to handle and deal with the situation in a civil way remains.
AGAIN. I am not saying this is the first response....at all. This is a last resort that should happen after all civil responses have failed. Which, happens more times that you are willing to admit.
But, you keep your arrogant head in the sand, and continue to think you know more about the male experience than actual males because you talked to men and heard "expert" spout on about what is "right". Experts, I may add, that are hired to advocate that exact approach to protect the legal health of the organization that pays their salary.
Yes, by all mean believe them over someone that experiences the situation first-hand. To you that is more valuable since it does not threaten your ego.
I have first-hand experience, but you keep deflecting. Your experience is not every other man's experience.
As I said before, the lawmakers make laws that the people want, ergo, society deems physical assault to be wrong, illegal and so there you have it.
Please tell me when you were a little boy being bullied, and were forced to fight back. Then the two of you became lifelong friends to this day. Tell me about your first-hand experience as a little boy....please. This I have to hear.
Anything less is NOT first-hand experience not matter how hard you try to make it so....never.
I was considered a tom boy, one day while at the park on the swing, a boy came up grabbed the two swing chains and told me if I didn't get off the swing he would beat me up. I kicked him in the nuts and when he fell under me I kicked him in the head. He was saved by the Park Trainer and banned from the park for two weeks. When he returned he decided he loved me.
Some boys considered me one of them and acted accordingly, to their demise.
Being a "tom boy" is not being a real boy. Sorry. It just isn't the same.
And, given that you used violence to stop the attack, and his attitude turned around kind of dispels you own stance and confirms mine, doesn't it? He seemed to have more respect for you after you fought back, didn't he?
Isn't that odd??
It was the late 50s early 60s, that was what we kids had to do. That was the programming at the time. If I could do it all over again I, and if I was taught how to handle a situation like that, I would have yelled for the Park Trainer to throw his ass out of the park, without me having to hurt him.
I didn't want his respect, because I did not respect him for being a bully.
And I guarantee you had you done that (called the ranger) the next attack from him would have been worse and continued. Whether you accept his respect or not is irrelevant isn't it? It happened....and you can't accept that as a fact even in your own experience.
But, we are "more evolved today"., so evolved that we prevent boys from defending themselves up to the point that they snap and decide to kill everyone in the school. Yeah. real evolved. No thanks. I don't advocate creating mass killers because of "feelz".
OMG you have gone right off the deep end with this.
Are you denying that most of the school shooters were previously bullied in that school and were prevented form dealing with it in small doses as we used to do? Who is off the deep end now?
And I am serious...deadly serious.
How could these troubled people be prevented from dealing with it if their friends, parents and school authorities knew what was happening? Education is key to helping kids worth through bullying and from what I see, it far worse than what you or I had to deal with.
Because telling the "authorities" only makes it worse. Don't you see that? The "zero tolerance" policies punish the victim as well as the bully. And, in many cases the bullies get no punishment because they are key sports players in the school (we used to call them "jocks"). Want to talk about toxic masculinity? That area is a key player in that space. Yet. they are coddled because they provide ans important role for the school (usually linked with $$$). That drives the victim kid to bottle up and "take it" for fear of him getting punished.
Eventually, that powder keg will explode given one final spark.
originally posted by: YouSir
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: YouSir
originally posted by: InTheLight
Lame response - don't keep trying YouSir.
Ummm...sorry...62% of women have fantasized about being forcefully ravished/raped by a hero figure...
They buy 1.44 billion dollars a year in books with those themes repeatedly enacted through each chapter...
That’s like...a lot...
Just keeping things in perspective...
YouSir
Fantasy is not reality, so keep things in their true perspective. There are no men hero figures in true life.
Ummm...did you actually just say that there’s some innate desire in a majority of women to be forcefully ravished...?
But there are no toxically masculine enough men to fulfill those innate desires...
By golly...we have a winner...
YouSir
originally posted by: NthOther
a reply to: Boadicea
In all honesty, I didn't watch it.
Don't need to. I know exactly what it is.
As far as you and the husband you apparently own...
... goes, you seem to forget you wouldn't have him at all if you had your way in psychologically castrating society.
Maybe you shouldn't do that, hm?
originally posted by: NthOther
a reply to: InTheLight
It's worse because they're all on antidepressants which are triggering manic episodes in people desensitized to violence (via pop culture).
Let's point at where the problem is, shall we?
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
Those are only your perceived life lessons, so sure own them. But it is arrogant to assume the person you beat up has learned any valuable life lesson other than to steer clear of you. The violence and inability to handle and deal with the situation in a civil way remains.
AGAIN. I am not saying this is the first response....at all. This is a last resort that should happen after all civil responses have failed. Which, happens more times that you are willing to admit.
But, you keep your arrogant head in the sand, and continue to think you know more about the male experience than actual males because you talked to men and heard "expert" spout on about what is "right". Experts, I may add, that are hired to advocate that exact approach to protect the legal health of the organization that pays their salary.
Yes, by all mean believe them over someone that experiences the situation first-hand. To you that is more valuable since it does not threaten your ego.
I have first-hand experience, but you keep deflecting. Your experience is not every other man's experience.
As I said before, the lawmakers make laws that the people want, ergo, society deems physical assault to be wrong, illegal and so there you have it.
Please tell me when you were a little boy being bullied, and were forced to fight back. Then the two of you became lifelong friends to this day. Tell me about your first-hand experience as a little boy....please. This I have to hear.
Anything less is NOT first-hand experience not matter how hard you try to make it so....never.
I was considered a tom boy, one day while at the park on the swing, a boy came up grabbed the two swing chains and told me if I didn't get off the swing he would beat me up. I kicked him in the nuts and when he fell under me I kicked him in the head. He was saved by the Park Trainer and banned from the park for two weeks. When he returned he decided he loved me.
Some boys considered me one of them and acted accordingly, to their demise.
Being a "tom boy" is not being a real boy. Sorry. It just isn't the same.
And, given that you used violence to stop the attack, and his attitude turned around kind of dispels you own stance and confirms mine, doesn't it? He seemed to have more respect for you after you fought back, didn't he?
Isn't that odd??
It was the late 50s early 60s, that was what we kids had to do. That was the programming at the time. If I could do it all over again I, and if I was taught how to handle a situation like that, I would have yelled for the Park Trainer to throw his ass out of the park, without me having to hurt him.
I didn't want his respect, because I did not respect him for being a bully.
And I guarantee you had you done that (called the ranger) the next attack from him would have been worse and continued. Whether you accept his respect or not is irrelevant isn't it? It happened....and you can't accept that as a fact even in your own experience.
But, we are "more evolved today"., so evolved that we prevent boys from defending themselves up to the point that they snap and decide to kill everyone in the school. Yeah. real evolved. No thanks. I don't advocate creating mass killers because of "feelz".
OMG you have gone right off the deep end with this.
Are you denying that most of the school shooters were previously bullied in that school and were prevented form dealing with it in small doses as we used to do? Who is off the deep end now?
And I am serious...deadly serious.
How could these troubled people be prevented from dealing with it if their friends, parents and school authorities knew what was happening? Education is key to helping kids worth through bullying and from what I see, it far worse than what you or I had to deal with.
Because telling the "authorities" only makes it worse. Don't you see that? The "zero tolerance" policies punish the victim as well as the bully. And, in many cases the bullies get no punishment because they are key sports players in the school (we used to call them "jocks"). Want to talk about toxic masculinity? That area is a key player in that space. Yet. they are coddled because they provide ans important role for the school (usually linked with $$$). That drives the victim kid to bottle up and "take it" for fear of him getting punished.
Eventually, that powder keg will explode given one final spark.
More reason for men (coaches) to step up and teach those jocks how to handle those types of situations.
originally posted by: NthOther
a reply to: InTheLight
You're gonna steal my heart if you make that meme.
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: YouSir
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: YouSir
originally posted by: InTheLight
Lame response - don't keep trying YouSir.
Ummm...sorry...62% of women have fantasized about being forcefully ravished/raped by a hero figure...
They buy 1.44 billion dollars a year in books with those themes repeatedly enacted through each chapter...
That’s like...a lot...
Just keeping things in perspective...
YouSir
Fantasy is not reality, so keep things in their true perspective. There are no men hero figures in true life.
Ummm...did you actually just say that there’s some innate desire in a majority of women to be forcefully ravished...?
But there are no toxically masculine enough men to fulfill those innate desires...
By golly...we have a winner...
YouSir
Nope, those are your words. I said keep fantasy and reality in their proper places.
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Krakatoa
originally posted by: InTheLight
Those are only your perceived life lessons, so sure own them. But it is arrogant to assume the person you beat up has learned any valuable life lesson other than to steer clear of you. The violence and inability to handle and deal with the situation in a civil way remains.
AGAIN. I am not saying this is the first response....at all. This is a last resort that should happen after all civil responses have failed. Which, happens more times that you are willing to admit.
But, you keep your arrogant head in the sand, and continue to think you know more about the male experience than actual males because you talked to men and heard "expert" spout on about what is "right". Experts, I may add, that are hired to advocate that exact approach to protect the legal health of the organization that pays their salary.
Yes, by all mean believe them over someone that experiences the situation first-hand. To you that is more valuable since it does not threaten your ego.
I have first-hand experience, but you keep deflecting. Your experience is not every other man's experience.
As I said before, the lawmakers make laws that the people want, ergo, society deems physical assault to be wrong, illegal and so there you have it.
Please tell me when you were a little boy being bullied, and were forced to fight back. Then the two of you became lifelong friends to this day. Tell me about your first-hand experience as a little boy....please. This I have to hear.
Anything less is NOT first-hand experience not matter how hard you try to make it so....never.
I was considered a tom boy, one day while at the park on the swing, a boy came up grabbed the two swing chains and told me if I didn't get off the swing he would beat me up. I kicked him in the nuts and when he fell under me I kicked him in the head. He was saved by the Park Trainer and banned from the park for two weeks. When he returned he decided he loved me.
Some boys considered me one of them and acted accordingly, to their demise.
Being a "tom boy" is not being a real boy. Sorry. It just isn't the same.
And, given that you used violence to stop the attack, and his attitude turned around kind of dispels you own stance and confirms mine, doesn't it? He seemed to have more respect for you after you fought back, didn't he?
Isn't that odd??
It was the late 50s early 60s, that was what we kids had to do. That was the programming at the time. If I could do it all over again I, and if I was taught how to handle a situation like that, I would have yelled for the Park Trainer to throw his ass out of the park, without me having to hurt him.
I didn't want his respect, because I did not respect him for being a bully.
And I guarantee you had you done that (called the ranger) the next attack from him would have been worse and continued. Whether you accept his respect or not is irrelevant isn't it? It happened....and you can't accept that as a fact even in your own experience.
But, we are "more evolved today"., so evolved that we prevent boys from defending themselves up to the point that they snap and decide to kill everyone in the school. Yeah. real evolved. No thanks. I don't advocate creating mass killers because of "feelz".
OMG you have gone right off the deep end with this.
Are you denying that most of the school shooters were previously bullied in that school and were prevented form dealing with it in small doses as we used to do? Who is off the deep end now?
And I am serious...deadly serious.
How could these troubled people be prevented from dealing with it if their friends, parents and school authorities knew what was happening? Education is key to helping kids worth through bullying and from what I see, it far worse than what you or I had to deal with.
Because telling the "authorities" only makes it worse. Don't you see that? The "zero tolerance" policies punish the victim as well as the bully. And, in many cases the bullies get no punishment because they are key sports players in the school (we used to call them "jocks"). Want to talk about toxic masculinity? That area is a key player in that space. Yet. they are coddled because they provide ans important role for the school (usually linked with $$$). That drives the victim kid to bottle up and "take it" for fear of him getting punished.
Eventually, that powder keg will explode given one final spark.
More reason for men (coaches) to step up and teach those jocks how to handle those types of situations.
That solution has proven not to work, and can (and does) make the situation worse. Do you honestly think that a coach is going to punish his star players and risk losing the game/championship and still keep his job? Really??
If you think so, then you are living in a fantasy world. So, your suggested solutions should be considered in the same light (or more appropriately rose colored light).
originally posted by: YouSir
a reply to: Boadicea
Ummm...ohhhhh...struck a nerve huh...you must have read the whole series...
And liked it...
originally posted by: YouSir
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: YouSir
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: YouSir
originally posted by: InTheLight
Lame response - don't keep trying YouSir.
Ummm...sorry...62% of women have fantasized about being forcefully ravished/raped by a hero figure...
They buy 1.44 billion dollars a year in books with those themes repeatedly enacted through each chapter...
That’s like...a lot...
Just keeping things in perspective...
YouSir
Fantasy is not reality, so keep things in their true perspective. There are no men hero figures in true life.
Ummm...did you actually just say that there’s some innate desire in a majority of women to be forcefully ravished...?
But there are no toxically masculine enough men to fulfill those innate desires...
By golly...we have a winner...
YouSir
Nope, those are your words. I said keep fantasy and reality in their proper places.
Ummm...so....keep the fantasy...in the bedroom...let’s just not admit it publicly...
I’m cool with that...
After all...62% of women...can’t be wrong...right...?
YouSir
originally posted by: ManBehindTheMask
3 words.....
Dollar shave club.......