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what irritates me the most about this stupidity is that it pains the picture that the MAJORITY of men harass or demean women, as if having a penis automatically puts me into the bad guy category.
originally posted by: Boadicea
a reply to: IShotMyLastMuse
what irritates me the most about this stupidity is that it pains the picture that the MAJORITY of men harass or demean women, as if having a penis automatically puts me into the bad guy category.
I just watched the video again with your comment in mind... and I didn't hear that. What I heard is that SOME men/boys bully and SOME men/boys stand up to the bullying but that MOST men do not and that MORE men/boys should stand up to the bullying. To not laugh it off or simply dismiss it as "boys will be boys."
If you look at it in that sense, how does that compare to your real life experience? Is that accurate?
Or are you thinking that the commercial paints "acceptable" behavior as "bad" behavior?
Or something else? What am I missing?
And that alone is complete BS...... And a gross assumption...
originally posted by: Boadicea
a reply to: toms54
I honestly don't understand what the problem is. And now that I've seen it, I really don't understand why it's been described as "anti-White male" by some.
To the extent that the commercial is getting backlash for basically just encouraging men to be good examples and not bully and abuse others -- it seems to be a no-brainer -- this backlash can and will create its own backlash.... as in men mocking and ridiculing the idea that they should be respectful and courteous to others.
Of course, I would likewise like to see one directed at girls -- the "mean girls" type. They are just as big of bullies as any boys/men.
So I really don't understand the outright anger and hostility. Yeah, maybe because I'm a woman. What am I missing? Is it the message itself or how the message is expressed?
You are missing the context. This was obviously a snub at anyone who voted for Trump.
originally posted by: toms54
a reply to: Boadicea
I guess to understand, you really need to read the comments on YouTube.
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