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originally posted by: Damla
a reply to: schuyler
Just to have the most loyal dog, you think it is fine to act like a monkey?
Pavlov does not agree with your statement, sir
originally posted by: TrueBrit
It is possible to move on, but only if you are prepared to work hard to remind yourself that you were not the problem in that scenario, they were, and that they made a massive error in judgement when they vanished from your life. If you even allow yourself to entertain for a moment the idea that you could have done better, been better, or been more like what they wanted, then you are already losing and need to stop that pronto.
It is not, however, an easy thing to do. Its just possible, which means getting it done, moving on, requires effort, work and time, just like anything worth doing.
originally posted by: TrueBrit
...and Lord knows I have been there myself enough times to know.
originally posted by: TrueBrit
a reply to: KilgoreTrout
Yes and no.
Its ones responsibility to be as careful as one can be, without cutting oneself off from society completely. But the greater responsibility will always lay with those who decide to be total pricks, and mistreat people because they can. A victim of a thing does not have responsibility for it.