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originally posted by: Box of Rain
originally posted by: MotherMayEye
originally posted by: Box of Rain
originally posted by: MotherMayEye
a reply to: redmage
Sure.
I was kidnapped, raped, and the man who attacked me tried to hang from a tree with an extension cord, when I was 15. Call me a *snip*. I don't care.
I'm not sure how your tragic personal experience should serve to minimalism the personal impact upon a man who was raped.
Sure, more women than men are raped, but that doesn't mean a man who was raped has suffered any less than a woman who was raped.
I was noting the vast difference in stats. But...go ahead...do your thing where you insist you know what's in everyone's heart.
I agree (and have said so in my posts) that the use of the c-word to describe a woman is dehumanizing.
And I agree that the problem of rape is much more prevalent against women than it is against men. However, I don't understand what your personal story (as tragic as it is) has to do with the those numbers slanted far far towards woman victims than male victims
originally posted by: Grambler
There seems to be a double standard with how someone seemingly on the left in these areas can get away with saying far more taan people seemingly on the right.
originally posted by: Abysha
a reply to: Grambler
There are no racist connotations to what she said. You are comparing trash talking to racism.
originally posted by: Khaleesi
Trash talking? Let's call it what it really is. It's a word used to reduce a woman or women to something less than human. Reducing women to the sub human level is no less offensive than reducing blacks to the sub human level. Rosanne was wrong and I had no problems with her being fired. Whether Samantha Bee is fired is up to her employer and I have no problem either way with that. But let's not pretend like this was just 'trash talk'.
originally posted by: Khaleesi
originally posted by: Box of Rain
originally posted by: MotherMayEye
originally posted by: Box of Rain
originally posted by: MotherMayEye
a reply to: redmage
Sure.
I was kidnapped, raped, and the man who attacked me tried to hang from a tree with an extension cord, when I was 15. Call me a *snip*. I don't care.
I'm not sure how your tragic personal experience should serve to minimalism the personal impact upon a man who was raped.
Sure, more women than men are raped, but that doesn't mean a man who was raped has suffered any less than a woman who was raped.
I was noting the vast difference in stats. But...go ahead...do your thing where you insist you know what's in everyone's heart.
I agree (and have said so in my posts) that the use of the c-word to describe a woman is dehumanizing.
And I agree that the problem of rape is much more prevalent against women than it is against men. However, I don't understand what your personal story (as tragic as it is) has to do with the those numbers slanted far far towards woman victims than male victims
Her personal story shows that she knows what everyone of those people that have been reduced to a statistic are going through.
originally posted by: Khaleesi
a reply to: Box of Rain
She has already stated that she was giving the stats to show higher incidence of rape of women. I sincerely doubt she is advocating for more men to be raped, considering the fact that she knows from personal experience what it's like.
Is this like when white people get offended when they talk about racism towards them and are told it doesn't matter or count?
originally posted by: redmage
originally posted by: Khaleesi
a reply to: Box of Rain
She has already stated that she was giving the stats to show higher incidence of rape of women. I sincerely doubt she is advocating for more men to be raped, considering the fact that she knows from personal experience what it's like.
She also said...
Is this like when white people get offended when they talk about racism towards them and are told it doesn't matter or count?
No one claimed that she was advocating for more men to be raped. The issue was her overt marginalization of male victims.
Now, let's all agree to try and keep Grambler's thread back on the topic of Bee and Rosie.
originally posted by: Box of Rain
originally posted by: Khaleesi
originally posted by: Box of Rain
originally posted by: MotherMayEye
originally posted by: Box of Rain
originally posted by: MotherMayEye
a reply to: redmage
Sure.
I was kidnapped, raped, and the man who attacked me tried to hang from a tree with an extension cord, when I was 15. Call me a *snip*. I don't care.
I'm not sure how your tragic personal experience should serve to minimalism the personal impact upon a man who was raped.
Sure, more women than men are raped, but that doesn't mean a man who was raped has suffered any less than a woman who was raped.
I was noting the vast difference in stats. But...go ahead...do your thing where you insist you know what's in everyone's heart.
I agree (and have said so in my posts) that the use of the c-word to describe a woman is dehumanizing.
And I agree that the problem of rape is much more prevalent against women than it is against men. However, I don't understand what your personal story (as tragic as it is) has to do with the those numbers slanted far far towards woman victims than male victims
Her personal story shows that she knows what everyone of those people that have been reduced to a statistic are going through.
That's fair. But then her tragic experience would serve to illustrate the horrors of rape in general.
However, it does not serve to explain the use of the word "only" when describing male victims of rape, as in "one in five women, but only one in 71 men"...and it was that question of the use of the word "only" to which her response about her heart-breaking experience was directed.
The issue is rape in general. Yes, there are far more female victims of rape than reported male victims, but the lower number of reported male victims does NOT mean this it is just a "male or female" problem. It is a human problem.
originally posted by: Abysha
a reply to: Grambler
There are no racist connotations to what she said. You are comparing trash talking to racism.
originally posted by: carewemust
Trump doesn't get bent out of shape if someone verbally attacks him.