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originally posted by: EternalShadow
How does being a "taphophile" make the process of loss irrelevant?
originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus
originally posted by: EternalShadow
That's not true at ALL. Come on, you haven't ANY friends or family who regularly go and visit, clean, and replace the flowers on the graves of their loved ones???
Are ALL the soldiers who are buried at Arlington less noteworthy??
I think you're being a bit callous and dismissive of the human condition as it pertains to loss and worth.
You're not following what I'm saying.
You die. Who visits your grave? Kids? Siblings? Friends? Sure. They die. Then who comes? Grandkids? Maybe. Second cousins? Nope. Strangers. Nope. Great-grandkids? They never met you, so most likely nope as well.
originally posted by: FHomerK
a reply to: silo13
Because, being placed in a sealed coffin after the body has been embalmed is such a brilliant idea as well.
What we do with our dead is unnatural. I would probably prefer something along these lines for myself, as I have already opted for cremation.
originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus
originally posted by: EternalShadow
How does being a "taphophile" make the process of loss irrelevant?
Where did I say it does?
I said most likely the only people visiting your grave after a number of years would either be celebrity hounds if you're a dead celebrity or taphophiles since they like cemeteries.
originally posted by: EternalShadow
Well that's a grim outlook on life.
Maybe your experience is different from mine as my family honors our losses by instilling in our children the necessity of never forgetting our family's past and present.
How can you know who you are, where you came from, the what,where,why,and how you exist now and what your strengths and weaknesses could possibly be without knowing and sharing how that came about?
You seem to think history, genetically, isn't important.
originally posted by: EternalShadow
You seem to be trying to broad brush everyone as a self serving assh##.
originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus
originally posted by: EternalShadow
Well that's a grim outlook on life.
How is that 'grim'? It's the truth.
Maybe your experience is different from mine as my family honors our losses by instilling in our children the necessity of never forgetting our family's past and present.
Who said your children shouldn't forget the past? When's the last time they visited each of their great-grandparent's graves?
How can you know who you are, where you came from, the what,where,why,and how you exist now and what your strengths and weaknesses could possibly be without knowing and sharing how that came about?
I knew all of that without visiting a cemetery.
You seem to think history, genetically, isn't important.
Now you're just being a hyperbolic hysteric. What 'genetic history' are you learning in a cemetery that you cannot learn elsewhere?
originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus
originally posted by: EternalShadow
You seem to be trying to broad brush everyone as a self serving assh##.
How does no family members visiting your grave several generations from now make them assholes? Why do you expect people who have never met you to somehow want to make pilgrimages to your gravesite?
I gonna clue you in on a little secret, your great-grandkids will most likely never visit your grave.
originally posted by: EternalShadow
Who's truth? Your truth?? Well, good for you. Whatever makes life make sense to you so be it.
I took my nieces and nephews just last Sunday for your information.
originally posted by: EternalShadow
Man, you are a very dismal person.
You're too negative.
The devaluation of the humans is reaching a new low. Sure, it all sounds fine and good until you really start thinking about it.
All our dead bodies thrown together in a big blender mixed with animal carcasses, entrails and poop to be 'transformed' into fertilizer? Really? That's just perfectly wretched.
originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus
a reply to: DBCowboy
Imagine how much compost we could make out of you? We could feed the world.
originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus
originally posted by: NoCorruptionAllowed
Something like this will cause a massive amount of angry spirit hauntings.
Why?
originally posted by: DBCowboy
I want to be embalmed and entombed with 100 of my servants and animals so I can have my interns in the afterlife.
originally posted by: NoCorruptionAllowed
Because using human remains in such a callous way, is a thing of dishonor. Now you might not see it this way or even care, but the spirits of the dead may care a lot.
originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus
originally posted by: NoCorruptionAllowed
Because using human remains in such a callous way, is a thing of dishonor. Now you might not see it this way or even care, but the spirits of the dead may care a lot.
Their volunteering to do this, why would they be all spirit pissy after the fact? That makes zero sense.