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originally posted by: JohnnyCanuck
originally posted by: MisterSpock
originally posted by: JohnnyCanuck
originally posted by: interupt42
a reply to: seasonal
That is just insane. A kindergarten kid has no idea about sexuality at that age . It would have been more productive and related for the children to have read a book about little johny becoming batman.
That's what you think.
A friend of my daughters has a 6 year old girl. She doesn't like being treated like a girl, and insists that she be addressed by a boys name (which is not a derivative of her own). Her parents are accommodating her wishes.
I would suggest that this young individual has a better idea as to her gender concerns than you do.
Agreed, children are very advanced by the age of 5 or 6, much more intelligent then we give them credit for.
I actually get all my business and personal tax advice from my neighbors 5 year old, he's been a life saver.
Well, I suppose you can if you like but here in Canada the tax code is somewhat complex. Meanwhile...that doesn't really address what I said. Would you, as a parent accommodate your child's wishes and perhaps ready yourself for the possibility that you will need to accept a new normal? Or would you be shutting up your child and doubling down on putting a square peg in a round hole? It's really easy to lay down the law on the interwebz...tougher to deal with reality.
originally posted by: neo96
If people wonder why some people turn out like nazis.
Look no further than this thread.
The current state of education in this country can be called anything but.
It's a pure political agenda from near cradle to grave.
Telling me a three year old knows bout gender identity.
As if.
originally posted by: MisterSpock
I'd do what probably most normal intelligent people would do.
I'd acknowledge it, and see how the feelings develop over time. If it's a persistent thing, and continues on through stages of the childs life I would probably be fine with it, and supportive.
originally posted by: seasonal
a reply to: notsure1
The only way a 5 year old is transitioning is when the parent/s is pushing them to, because the parent has issues.
originally posted by: JohnnyCanuck
originally posted by: MisterSpock
I'd do what probably most normal intelligent people would do.
I'd acknowledge it, and see how the feelings develop over time. If it's a persistent thing, and continues on through stages of the childs life I would probably be fine with it, and supportive.
Should not every child be raise in an environment whereby gender is not defined in terms of normal, and abnormal? So what does that look like? And what does support look like in a world where some people define the issue as follows:
If you subscribe to the logic that a child at 5 is aware enough about their bodies, gender/sex and the ramifications of their choices and changes, and is capable of making a rational, logical decision to changer their g/s. Then You also have to allow them to do such things as:
-Cut off body parts - if they don't want their hand, they obviously know whats best and the consequences of removing it. So cut that baby off.
-Get tatoo's or piercings -eat 10 lbs of butter, every day, for weeks, nutrition requirements are "childs play" compared to gender dynamics.
-If they think they can fly, they probably can. They know their body better than I. Have a safe flight little jimmy. I'm sure I"m missing some others.
originally posted by: MisterSpock
Sorry johnny, you lost me a bit.
originally posted by: ketsuko
a reply to: JohnnyCanuck
The question becomes:
How many of these "square pegs" are square because they really are, and how many are "square" because they are simply into things not normally associated with their birth gender (for example, I identify with NightSky above myself) but today's world now labels that transgender ... or they have a parent, maybe two who want to be "in" on the hip new trend and encourage them to express their new "transgenderism"?
originally posted by: JohnnyCanuck
originally posted by: MisterSpock
Sorry johnny, you lost me a bit.
Nevermind...I'm not setting myself up to be the pinata on the TG issue.I simply support kids being nurtured. And the best way to nurture a kid going through such issues is to take the weird out of it. Like a kid with two Dad's. Their peers don't care about the details until helpful adults start losing their #. Now it's hardly an issue any more.
originally posted by: riiver
Here's what I don't understand about this whole thing (not that anyone cares, I'm sure, but...) :
Regardless of your stance on transgenderism--why is this even being brought up in school? Is it going to help teach kids to read or write? To learn to count, or add or subtract? Why is a school teaching ANYTHING about it, one way or the other?
Kindergarten should be for learning things like how to count, the letters of the alphabet, etc. etc. Transgenderism has nothing to do with academics. So why is it even being talked about? Especially at the freakin kindergarten level? Maybe if we focused more on academics and less on other topics we wouldn't be so far down the list when it comes to reading, writing, math, and science skills.
originally posted by: riiver
Here's what I don't understand about this whole thing (not that anyone cares, I'm sure, but...) :
Regardless of your stance on transgenderism--why is this even being brought up in school? Is it going to help teach kids to read or write? To learn to count, or add or subtract? Why is a school teaching ANYTHING about it, one way or the other?
Kindergarten should be for learning things like how to count, the letters of the alphabet, etc. etc. Transgenderism has nothing to do with academics. So why is it even being talked about? Especially at the freakin kindergarten level? Maybe if we focused more on academics and less on other topics we wouldn't be so far down the list when it comes to reading, writing, math, and science skills.
I agree. Good thing that's not what happened, eh?
originally posted by: seasonal
The constant liberal drum beat to be accepting. I do not think a 5 year old should be marched out in class and be declared transitioning. What is wrong with the teachers and parent/s?