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originally posted by: Freija
In bed this morning, as my eyes cracked open to realize the sun was shining and it was probably time to get up, I rolled over and hit this site on my phone as I often do as the vacuum tubes of thought process warm up to normal operating temperature.
originally posted by: Middleoftheroad
originally posted by: kaylaluv
a reply to: Middleoftheroad
What an ignorant post. People with psychosis are in mental hospitals because mental health professionals put them there. Mental health professionals say that people with gender dysphoria are not psychopaths, that's why they don't put them in mental hospitals.
What's ignorant is allowing people to change their gender on a whim. As Tucker Carlson pointed out, where does it end? Can I just all of a sudden start saying I identify as a women and just start going into womens restrooms for a free peep show? Hell, I could be a child molester that hasn't been caught yet, change my gender and start going into public restrooms for easy targets. The left has gone full retard I swear.
originally posted by: Freija
In bed this morning, as my eyes cracked open to realize the sun was shining and it was probably time to get up, I rolled over and hit this site on my phone as I often do as the vacuum tubes of thought process warm up to normal operating temperature.
For the last several days, I've been involved in two other antagonistic threads talking about trans issues and wanted to see if there were new posts and then I found and read this one. Oh boy!
Kaylaluv and Gryphon are both spot on. I was warmed by a few comments from others as well but overall, I felt an overwhelming sense of sadness at the preponderance of uninformed ignorance of what being trans is like and at some of the attitudes from people based on falsehoods and misconceptions. I had a sense of dread at once again feeling an obligation to get involved when it seems there is so much negativity and even hostility expressed by those gripped by fear and ignorance of those different from themselves.
Nothing I've ever written here or probably ever will can convey to people the experience of being trans and living with gender dysphoria. What it is like being that five year old kid trying to tell their parents. What it is like going through elementary school bewildered by the torment, abuse and ridicule of others. What it is like at puberty as the very vessel that houses your spirit and soul turns against you in what feels like the most gruesome torture. What it is like in high school to be shunned, ostracized and beaten nearly to death and hospitalized by others that didn't understand and what it is like to go through the challenges and physical process of changing social gender and physical sex. None of this was of my choosing but yet a fight I fought in order to survive.
After reading this thread, I rolled back over and sobbed quietly. As the tears filled my eyes and rolled down my cheeks, I questioned seriously why I continue to even come to this site and face these opinions and attitudes that seem like something out of my past fifty years ago. Ignorance and misguided opinions are hurtful and depressing and seem to be expressed with total disregard for people like me.
It gets very hard to be here sometimes. Please consider the things you say about issues you don't fully comprehend and the way you say them. It doesn't make for an environment conducive to learning from those that do know what they're talking about or help others live up to this site's motto to deny ignorance.
What's funny is that I'm sure many of you are good and loving people that would do a complete turnaround if you had to deal with raising a transgender child. Isuspectknow some would lose their child to the streets or suicide. It's all very sad.
originally posted by: pyramid head
And I don't necessarily think that those who worry are biased or don't care about the TG community
originally posted by: kaylaluv
originally posted by: pyramid head
And I don't necessarily think that those who worry are biased or don't care about the TG community
Are you sure about that? Don't you think it's ironic that states who have fought anti-discrimination laws protecting the transgender population are primarily the conservative states (who also fought marriage equality, by the way)?
originally posted by: kaylaluv
a reply to: pyramid head
Objectively speaking, the more liberal states allowed same sex marriage; the more conservative states did not. The more liberal states passed anti-discrimination laws protecting transgender people's rights to use the public facilities according to their gender identity; the more conservative states did not. These are facts.
The conservative states also expressed fears that if we allowed same sex marriage, we would also have to allow brothers and sisters marrying each other, or adults marrying children or people marrying their toasters.
So many "fears". If the fears are so real, why are the liberal states not afraid? Where are the stats that prove the liberal states have so much more rapes and child molestations in public facilities due to these non-discrimination laws? Where are the brothers and sister marriages; where are the marriages between adults and children?
Come on. Don't be dense. We all know what's really going on here.
originally posted by: kaylaluv
a reply to: pyramid head
Yeah, religious grounds as in trying to create a theocracy, ruling over everyone's marriage rights. These are the same states, by the way that fought interracial marriage as well. Still religious grounds?
At some point, we are just going to have to face the facts that these uber conservative states just don't like things that rock their status quo. They want to live in the 1950's, where women and blacks knew their place, gay people were hidden, and no one even knew what a transgender person was. Make America Great Again!
And I'm a native Texan, so I know whereof I speak.
originally posted by: pyramid head
originally posted by: kaylaluv
a reply to: pyramid head
Yeah, religious grounds as in trying to create a theocracy, ruling over everyone's marriage rights. These are the same states, by the way that fought interracial marriage as well. Still religious grounds?
At some point, we are just going to have to face the facts that these uber conservative states just don't like things that rock their status quo. They want to live in the 1950's, where women and blacks knew their place, gay people were hidden, and no one even knew what a transgender person was. Make America Great Again!
And I'm a native Texan, so I know whereof I speak.
Your making this an us vs them and trying to label people you disagree with rather than address the issue.
California, liberal Mecca, voted no on prop 8.(gay marriage). Again irrelevant to this issue.
originally posted by: pyramid head
Your ignoring the reality of peoples concern...
But when an opposing views concern is brought up, rather than at least acknowledging it, you deny it exist.
originally posted by: kaylaluv
a reply to: pyramid head
Actually, California voted yes on prop. 8, which proposed banning gay marriage. Just like other liberal states, people's attitudes toward gay marriage changed pretty drastically since around 2008. Prop 8 would have no chance of being voted on today in California. In Mississippi or Alabama or Louisiana? The situation is still pretty grim for attitudes on gay marriage there.
When liberal states are more in favor of non-discrimination laws than conservative states, it IS an issue of us vs them.
What exactly is the issue to be addressed? The fact that trans people's rights seem to disappear in conservative states? Or the fact that there has been no significant issue with rapes and/or molestations in public bathrooms since more liberal states have passed these non-discrimination laws?
originally posted by: Freija
originally posted by: pyramid head
Your ignoring the reality of peoples concern...
But when an opposing views concern is brought up, rather than at least acknowledging it, you deny it exist.
Nobody is denying these concerns or "fears" but they are unfounded and based on the slanderous notion that allowing transgender people to use the facilities that are best to them will lead to rape and molestation. 7 out of 9 rapes or molestations are committed by someone a person knows and transgender people have been using the bathrooms all along before this became the next big scare tactic.
These "fears and concerns" are pure propaganda raised by the fundamentalist alt-right as a way of erasing and de-humanizing trans people and you've swallowed the Kool-Aid hook, line and sinker. The 19 states and over 250 cities with anti-discrimination laws protecting the rights of trans students and people to use the best suited facilities do not report any of these horrible consequences people have been lead to believe.
Fear is a powerful tool. Look at the things like the Patriot Act and domestic surveillance and the TSA as examples of what a good campaign of fear can get away with. I thought ATS people might be smarter than most and see through all this bathroom nonsense for what it is but I guess not.
originally posted by: pyramid head
originally posted by: kaylaluv
a reply to: pyramid head
Actually, California voted yes on prop. 8, which proposed banning gay marriage. Just like other liberal states, people's attitudes toward gay marriage changed pretty drastically since around 2008. Prop 8 would have no chance of being voted on today in California. In Mississippi or Alabama or Louisiana? The situation is still pretty grim for attitudes on gay marriage there.
When liberal states are more in favor of non-discrimination laws than conservative states, it IS an issue of us vs them.
What exactly is the issue to be addressed? The fact that trans people's rights seem to disappear in conservative states? Or the fact that there has been no significant issue with rapes and/or molestations in public bathrooms since more liberal states have passed these non-discrimination laws?
Simple, is it possible for women to be victimized by predators who abuse this?
You seem to be saying there is no possibility of this happening.
originally posted by: pyramid head
So your saying there is no one who will be victimized as a result?
originally posted by: kaylaluv
originally posted by: pyramid head
originally posted by: kaylaluv
a reply to: pyramid head
Actually, California voted yes on prop. 8, which proposed banning gay marriage. Just like other liberal states, people's attitudes toward gay marriage changed pretty drastically since around 2008. Prop 8 would have no chance of being voted on today in California. In Mississippi or Alabama or Louisiana? The situation is still pretty grim for attitudes on gay marriage there.
When liberal states are more in favor of non-discrimination laws than conservative states, it IS an issue of us vs them.
What exactly is the issue to be addressed? The fact that trans people's rights seem to disappear in conservative states? Or the fact that there has been no significant issue with rapes and/or molestations in public bathrooms since more liberal states have passed these non-discrimination laws?
Simple, is it possible for women to be victimized by predators who abuse this?
You seem to be saying there is no possibility of this happening.
Is it possible that a predator could slip into a bathroom unnoticed and commit a crime? Sure. It was always possible. The only way to totally stop that is to not allow anyone to use any public bathrooms - ever. Ban public bathrooms and that issue goes away completely. But that's not realistic, is it? So we do the best we can while allowing trans people the safety and security to use the restroom that best fits their gender identity. Put cameras in the communal sink areas of women's room if that will help. Have female cops stand guard in the women's room if that will help. But don't tell an innocent trans girl of 16 that she has to go to the men's room.