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originally posted by: theabsolutetruth
a reply to: MimiSia
Thanks.
Nice feedback is welcome. Sometimes ATS for me has been rather negative.
originally posted by: MimiSia
a reply to: theabsolutetruth
but it is a default of being new to the forum nothing else
now I can't imagine not seeing it and I like it
originally posted by: Ashirah
a reply to: KnightLight
Hmm ... Mysterious and monotone. Thanks I think?
Why did you have dog as your title? When I first joined up I used a picture of myself as an avatar, but then I read many disparaging remarks made here about members (primarily female members) that used their own likeness as an av. Being one of the new kids I didnt want to be seen as "that girl". Now I'm kind of glad I did, this wolf is #ing awesome.
Eta My bad for going off-topic
It turns out, that it is not just what you say, but the way that you say it that flags up a successful date. One such indicator appears to be the use of function words such as personal pronouns, articles and conjunctions.
While good looks remains the most important factor in determining whether a person gets a date request, a person's likeability—as perceived by other individuals—is also important. For example, likeability serves as a tiebreaker if two people have equal attractiveness ratings. If someone thought a potential date was more likeable than other people did, then that someone was more likely to ask for a date. - See more at: www.caltech.edu...
originally posted by: InTheLight
There are some excellent studies on dating, not taking pre-selection as the singular motivator for either sex. However, I strongly believe that there are factors, too numerous to address here, at play when meeting - face-to-face - strangers on a first date and subsequent dates.
I would imagine face-to-face dating today would be extremely difficult, in that, people seem to be more isolated (by choice(?)) and the desire to have or work for long-term relationships seems to be, or quickly becoming, a thing of the past.
So has the game changed? Has pre-selection morphed into immediate selection, or weeding out, dating for a today's temporary relationships?
It turns out, that it is not just what you say, but the way that you say it that flags up a successful date. One such indicator appears to be the use of function words such as personal pronouns, articles and conjunctions.
www.theguardian.com...
Do you make snap judgments?
While good looks remains the most important factor in determining whether a person gets a date request, a person's likeability—as perceived by other individuals—is also important. For example, likeability serves as a tiebreaker if two people have equal attractiveness ratings. If someone thought a potential date was more likeable than other people did, then that someone was more likely to ask for a date. - See more at: www.caltech.edu...
www.caltech.edu...