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reply to post by queenofsheba
I'm sorry, i seem to have forgotten what we were talking about reading your post.
Sure, I did that when I was nineteen. Now I'm 46, I don't know many 19 yr olds out there living that way these days. Most are still home, even college grads these days move back home. I left home at 18 and never looked back. Is it so different these days? Perhaps. I do know that wanting everything for your kid and providing it for them isn't necessarily right. Maybe I gave too much, thinking I'd give them an edge up, a bit of a head start which in and of itself isn't a bad thing but when it's seen as something that, and I will quote you what my 18 yr told me, "Those were things you were supposed to provide" ...no, that was a freebie. I guess it was a mistake. Maybe I should have been more like my mom and stepdad who told me every single day that life was a bitch, you'll never make it, it's too hard, the economy sucks....ya da ya da ya....that's the difference I think. All I know is that because I was told life was tough and I'd never make it only made me defiant and want to prove them wrong. I guess I assumed that my kids knew that at a certain point they'd have to make it on their own but why would they? OMG...I'm obviously a mother of teenagers, God have mercy on my soul...lol
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reply to post by UnmitigatedDisaster
Yeah duh, take your degrees and go get a logistics job in a warehouse like everyone else!