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on the topic of porn.
I will take YOUR feelings for exactly what they are... YOUR feelings, not mine... not Joe Blogs, not John Doe... YOURS....
Originally posted by Taissa
As a woman, I can say that pornography is very degrading for women. As someone noted, it is "filmed prostitution". It does not honor women and it does not treat women as sacred. I remember being a 12 year old little girl, finding my father's porn magazines in the garage while looking for an air pump to fix my bike tire. I remember seeing my dad in a whole different light after this, and I can tell you I lost a lot of respect for him. I felt "icked out" by him. I do believe that this was the beginning of losing my trust in my dad. I often wondered, why did he have to look at it, when my mom was there. Why did he find that interesting. It grossed me out.
When I turned 14, I told my mom about those magazines in the garage and she said "not to touch them". And I said, "Mom, doesn't it bother you???" and she got tears in her eyes and said that it did, but that it was "your dad's business".
When I turned 18, and in the middle of an argument with my dad, I told him about how offensive it was to me to grow up with these things hidden in our garage. At first he was angry that I brought it up, but then he felt ashamed and agreed that it was wrong. He apologized and got rid of them.
I don't know if he checks out porn online, but I'm sure he does. It bothers me you know, cause that's supposed to be my dad, who should respect women.
Take my experiences and feelings for what you will, but that's how I feel. My boyfriend knows full well how I feel about porn, and he does not use our computer for it nor does he keep magazines around. If he has them, they are not in here and that's OK. I just don't want that crap under my roof. He respects that.
Interesting how this thread pops up because my boyfriend was telling me the other day how he often looked at it when he was young and that when we had kids there was no way it would be in the house or on our computer. He said he wants to be an example for our kids.
Originally posted by Taissa
If anything, this thread has shown me people who have little respect for women and how we feel. They will say whatever they can to make excuses for their pornography. Most women hate it and find it disgusting. I've watched many documentaries about women who worked as sex workers and in porn and they hated it as well. men have a fantasy that the women in these videos or photos are enjoying what they do, but that's not true.
Oh and do count me as another person who would be happy for a porn ban. I'd jump for joy actually. In fact, that is one movement I'd be thrilled to support.
Speaking on the BBC’s Jeremy Vine programme, Mr Cameron said what would be included in the filters would evolve over time. “The companies themselves are going to design what is automatically blocked, but the assumption is they will start with blocking pornographic sites and also perhaps self-harming sites,” he said.
Originally posted by alysha.angel
As a parent of teenage girls , i strongly approve of this and believe its needed ..
Iv heard of young men and women being currupted and sexually twisted due to porn and its not really a need ,
i hope someday the rest of the world does the same thing . its degrading to the actors and its not much better then prostiution
www.bbc.co.uk
(visit the link for the full news article)
The teen agreed to meet the man at his Brooklyn Apartment that he shared with his wife and 2 children. Once there Desouza led the girl to the building rooftop where friend, Antonio Owensford, was waiting to join the two sexually.
The problem came when Desouza announced that he didn't want to wear a condom to the ire of the victim. The teen argued with the two and decided to turn down the potential business. At that moment the two men viciously raped the girl and threw her off the side of the 3 story building.
Originally posted by Taissa
As a woman, I can say that pornography is very degrading for women. As someone noted, it is "filmed prostitution".
Originally posted by mOjOm
While I understand the emotional volitility of this subject, the bigger picture is being missed entirely because people's emotions are preventing them from viewing this new attack on freedom objectively.
This quote by Cameron should be sufficient to make anyone's spider sense go off, whether they are opposed to porn or not:
Speaking on the BBC’s Jeremy Vine programme, Mr Cameron said what would be included in the filters would evolve over time. “The companies themselves are going to design what is automatically blocked, but the assumption is they will start with blocking pornographic sites and also perhaps self-harming sites,” he said.
Link to entire article
If this statement doesn't start any warning bells ringing then nothing will.
The Duchess : I fail to fully comprehend how far we, the Whig Party, that is, are fully committed to the concept of freedom.
Mr. Fox : We intend to extend the vote.
The Duchess : To all men?
Mr. Fox : Heavens, no. But certainly to more men. Freedom in moderation.
The Duchess : "Freedom in moderation"?
Mr. Fox : Precisely.
The Duchess: I'm sure you are full of the best intentions, Mr. Fox, but I dare say I would not spend my vote, if I had it, of course, on so vague a statement. One is either free or one is not. The concept of freedom is an absolute. After all, one cannot be moderately dead or moderately loved or moderately free. It must always remain a matter of either or.
There are many people who will say thats crazy porn is harmless. That it effects nothing . Do you really think that porn does not have anything to do with stuff like this:
Teen Prostitute Brutally Raped and Thrown From Building
A. Why do you think male-sided threesomes are so popular? Could it be the abundance of group-style sex in pornography?
B. He didn't want to wear a condom with a prostitute. Why do you think that is? Does anyone ever wear condoms in porn? No.
Some people hang onto ideologies so blindly.
Is Ghetto Gaggers really improving anyone's life? Really?edit on 23-7-2013 by iamusic because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Zaphod58
reply to post by iamusic
So you're ok with them starting with porn, and then moving on to other topics, "for our own good". Whatever they decide is to "protect our children" is ok with you. Let's impose limits on what we can read so people don't get bad ideas then. Or on what we can watch on tv. That's what they're setting up here. Cameron even said they most likely would "start with" pornography. Which means there will be more coming.
Should we have complete and total freedom to kill or harm anyone we want to?
Should we have complete freedom to expose any kind of media?