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My theory-
- Some people are born gay, whether through genetics or whatever, they are born gay and will remain that way no matter what. To those people, I do not judge them.
- Some people, quite a high %, are potentially bisexual. This is true in adolescence before people truly identify their sexuality.
Those born gay, despite their desire to conform to what society considers normal (heterosexuality) will remain gay and are not attracted to the opposite sex period. Those who are potentially bisexual will for the most part, 'hide' their gay side and conform to heterosexuality and once passing adoloscence, will realise they are not gay at all.
Originally posted by Wonderer2012
I said about 4-5 times now this thread is not about gay people. If you are gay, there is nothing you can do as you say and I agree/take your word for it.
This thread is about how societies views are engineered by media and a very high % of adolescents are not sure about their sexuality until adulthood. Hence we have a real issue and impact on society as young kids who are not actually gay are being affected by the TV shows they watch and music they listen to that makes gay 'look cool' or the 'in thing' etc.
You need to step out of your POV for 5 minutes, this thread is not about gay people.
Originally posted by AQuestion
reply to post by markosity1973
Dear markosity1973,
How very nicely you worded that. Kudos. I have heard so many gay people tell me exactly the same thing you said. I am a straight Christian and preach to gays. LOL. One of them told me how, just like you, they had thought they should be with butch women; but, didn't like the idea of sex with them. I thought you wrote in a very calm and mature way; better than I do sometimes. Maybe, calm and considered voices like yours should be heard more by the straight community. Most of them only know caricatures.
Originally posted by maes2
would you tell us how their life look like ? do they have hormone or physical disorders. otherwise they can involve both in straight sex and homosexuality. so why are they choosing gay sex !? just an ego ! but life and universe is not just an ego ! if people want to cross red lines then society will become a jungle. if they spread gay marriage by indoctrination or their media or .... then family would mean nothing. a society without family will become something more problematic society than what we are witnessing in .....
this is not a personal choice ! however USA needs a gay army, I do not ignore that !
One such example is supposed to have taken place during the Lelantine War between the Eretrians and the Chalcidians. The account is given by Plutarch in a dialogue where the fundamental point seems to be that the superiority of heterosexual love does not imply condemnation of homosexuality.[7] In a decisive battle the Chalcidians called for the aid of a warrior named Cleomachus. Cleomachus answered their request and brought his lover along with him. He charged against the Eretians and brought the Chalcidians to victory at the cost of his own life. It was said he was inspired with love during the battle. Afterwards the Chalcidians, erected a tomb for him in their marketplace and reversed their negative view of homosexuality and began to honor it.[8] Aristotle attributed a popular local song to the event:[9]
Ye lads of grace and sprung from worthy stock
Grudge not to brave men converse with your beauty
In cities of Chalcis, Love, looser of limbs
Thrives side by side with courage
would you tell us how their life look like ? do they have hormone or physical disorders. otherwise they can involve both in straight sex and homosexuality. so why are they choosing gay sex !? just an ego ! but life and universe is not just an ego ! if people want to cross red lines then society will become a jungle. if they spread gay marriage by indoctrination or their media or .... then family would mean nothing. a society without family will become something more problematic society than what we are witnessing in ..... this is not a personal choice ! however USA needs a gay army, I do not ignore that !
Originally posted by maes2
reply to post by markosity1973
thank you for your clarification. I will read your debates. but it was not an attack. I asked "AQuestion" because he said that he was preaching for gays. I thought that he knew gays well.
Originally posted by maes2
reply to post by AQuestion
Dear AQuestion,
I do not believe in relative ethics. if someday I really feel that I am a gay, and I can only fall in love with the same sex, I will surely consult with medical consultant. my perception is that it is sort of physical or most likely a mental illness.
Originally posted by maes2
reply to post by AQuestion
Dear AQuestion,
I could not read your point. would you rephrase it so that it does not get yielded !
And why do you think gays would want to get straight people
Originally posted by maes2
reply to post by AQuestion
Dear AQuestion,
if those who are called gays, they have no physical difference, yes of course I can become a gay !
of course teenagers and children are more susceptible to such addictions.
some decades ago, masturbation with objects might have been symptom of some mental health problems, but now they are selling sex dolls for masturbation. this is true about gay sex.
I do not hate anyone. I myself have many personal shortcomings, but life is a development process. Justifying persons' shortcomings can not solve anything.
the complex ignorance is when someone does not know that he is in ignorance.
anyhow the problem is not just some gays but it is the concept of intentional spreading of LGBT life and marriage !
I have met some people who felt that they were inclined to have sex and emotional relations with the same sex. some of them were not satisfied with such a situation because they thought that it was wrong. unfortunately I have had no chance to monitor their lives.
humanism has led to relative ethics, and relative ethics has no root and reliable constraint. we can just sit and witness the upcoming world under LGBT marriage ! but it will be too late to revise !!
Originally posted by maes2
reply to post by markosity1973
when you are saying that you are happy to have sex with the same sex and you are a gay, it is your internal feelings. it can not be proved. so how should I prove that I can become a gay ! that is my internal feelings.
physically you can have sex with the opposite sex, but you think it does not satisfy you, right ?
have you tested sex with an opposite sex ?
do gays consider themselves a social group ?
Have you ever been aroused by someone of the same sex? Bet the answer is no too.
well, I can not say a strict "no" ! arousal has some mental roots. however I have not tested gay sex. I think my beliefs and the atmosphere of society (which does not consider LGBT a marriage) can affect me to avoid homosexuality. I think sex with the same sex is easier than the opposite sex ! because it is not easy to convince her, and you should be patient to please her too. because her sexual system is different. maybe this can lead to an equilibrium.