U.S. Women and the Princess syndrome

Originally posted by Brown Bear


"survive your 20's with a vasectomy and have it repaired in the 30's and save yourself the inevitable grief and years of child support and alimony to a woman you detest (18 years)."

Isn't telling your sons that the only way they will be able to remain childless is to not be physically able to reproduce, kind of admitting to them that you think they are morons?

Seriously, how about them just not having unprotected sex? Because honestly, guys who aren't smart enough to use condoms are just as horrible as the women you are talking about.

reply to post by dominicus


You're dead on! Ya I've dated a few of them. Not only what you said but they want to "wear the pants". It's nuts. Usually if there good looking for some reason they either have what you said and or they want to wear the pants. What gives? So what I do is I became a chubby chaser. I go after the fat girls. Generally they're more down to earth, less of them with this princess or wear the pants syndrom. I think it's cuz they get less attention so they're more greatful when they do. But even that's kinda getting boring. Like it's so crazy. I gave up on online dating not long ago cuz of the endless flakes. And even places like church you think that might be any better. It's not. It's actually EVEN WORSE. And being a Chrstian I know the territory. It's actually EVEN WORSE. Pricesses, wear the pants, tons of judgemental types, etc etc. I just can't take it anymore.

And yes you are right again, mail order brides are definitely almost a better bet. I know a few people who did that and found wonderful women. I'm saving that til I get older. Then at that point Im moving there probably to retire. Bring them here and they become pricesses eventually. At least you go there and they know you have some money so they cling to you without the brainwashing of back home. But my patients is down to nothing. I see a slight sign of some kind of odd persona and I'm gone.

Just one last thing. It's gotten so crazy that if I go on a date, I only meet for coffee on the first date. And when I arrive I never go to the coffee bar with the girl. If you do they'll expect you to pay. I'm sick of that. And if you don't they think you're a cheapo. And I know for a fact that if you go to a restaurant or bar with a girl on the first date then you basically know you'll have to pay the bill. If you don't your a cheapo not worth seeing again. I got so sick of this treatment that I even came up with a few systems to get a girl to buy me the coffee which I tend to use from time to time. What a foocked up world dating has become.

People behave as others allow or encourage them to. I see plenty of males who thrive on the treatment they receive from females like this. Thrive on the negative reactions of others towards these females. Now and then they rebel because a good fight will cause her to give him a Man Moment and will end in bed with him on top for once. Then the routine continues when he's comfortably in harness again. She will continue this behavior as long as it keeps working for her. The men who invite her incredibly fashionable boot on their throats ensure that it won't stop. Both suffer because of it.

reply to post by maus80

If two people want to have unprotected sex, that is none of your or anyone elses business. However they decide to prevent pregnancy is also their business. Having your tubes tied or getting a vasectomy are both options people could use just like condoms and birth control. None of those things are full proof and accidents still happen.

They act like princesses because that's what kind of emotional manipulation sells the most fashion magazines, lipstick, designer clothes, jewellery, handbags, shoes, music, movies, etcetera....

They act like princesses because the guys who validate the "Correctness" of their behaviour (with Attention and Flirting, and Gifts) in exchange for sex.

And the guys act like this because it is what gets them laid the most often.


It is a behavioural resonance cascade failure.


It is a part of our instincts to have as much sex as we can....


It is not a part of our instincts to create industrial civilizations capable of communicating across the globe (or town) instantaneously, OR to be able to ship large quantities of life sustaining food thousands of miles to regions that cannot grow enough to feed themselves.

reply to post by r2d246


Sounds like a typical man who does not desire to understand women, but insists women understand him.

Originally posted by maus80

Originally posted by Brown Bear


"survive your 20's with a vasectomy and have it repaired in the 30's and save yourself the inevitable grief and years of child support and alimony to a woman you detest (18 years)."

Isn't telling your sons that the only way they will be able to remain childless is to not be physically able to reproduce, kind of admitting to them that you think they are morons?

Seriously, how about them just not having unprotected sex? Because honestly, guys who aren't smart enough to use condoms are just as horrible as the women you are talking about.

Apparently there's a new thing. A shot a guy takes that lasts 10 years or something like that. Crazy crazy crazy

reply to post by magickmaster


I'm just tired of brainwashed and propogandized sheeple that have egos threw the roof, and are so clueless about themselves or anything around them. It's nuts. I'm tired of egotistical types. But really I guess it takes all types for the world to go around. At least that's what the nwo would love us to think.

reply to post by magickmaster

Originally posted by magickmaster
maybe you should look at yourself, and see what it is about yourself that's attracting a particular kind of women.

Hate to break it to you but some people are gold diggers. Rappers didn't coin the word "gold digger" in reference to the gold rush in the mid 1800's.

If you wish to attain wealth, the last thing you want is a money grubbing woman/man looking to take it all away.

Your argument is flawed and your post is flawed.

Originally posted by gallopinghordes
reply to post by sixswornsermon

 

LOL well first I would have to care before I could be scorned; just get tired of generalizations of a large segment of population based on a small percentage; goes against the entire deny ignorance. FYI it could be any large segment of population being judged and I'd still be annoyed. Painting with a wide brush and all that is hardly the way to deny ignorance or improve anything.

lol, well then, how are guys supposed to address and process the reality of princess-syndrom, hun?

Originally posted by r2d246
reply to post by magickmaster

 

I'm just tired of brainwashed and propogandized sheeple that have egos threw the roof, and are so clueless about themselves or anything around them. It's nuts. I'm tired of egotistical types. But really I guess it takes all types for the world to go around. At least that's what the nwo would love us to think.

I'm not saying there are Princess women all around us, but for men to complain about them, is silly. Just go elsewhere. Women come in all shapes, sizes, brain sizes, and spiritual capacity, too. If you go to bars, football games, parties, and shopping malls, to pick up women, you are clearly on the wrong track. If you are out fishing, hiking, playing baseball with the boys, you are clearly in the wrong arena. If you are sitting at home jerking it, complaining about all the women who aren't around, then you are clearly insane. If you are not in the game, going to places where women are, that are real, and down to earth, and you are not trying to meet them and getting to know them, sometimes, even making friends with them, if they are pretty or not (because all girls have pretty friends), then you are clearly not playing the game, and have no place to complain.

Hint: Most guys who have girlfriends...have lives. Just sayin'

Originally posted by Advantage

Women CAN be princesses. They have to earn it though. Real "princesses" dont require their boyfriends or mates to sacrifice themselves to them though!

Man, you hit the nail on the head with that one.

And if I may, it's good that they don't require boyfriends either because the women you're talking about........most men I've ever met would never have a snowballs chance in hell in even getting to first base. It takes a mans man to love a woman on her own level who has earned that level of self-confidence.

And if a woman like that ever does hook up with a guy just for the company, he's going to be nothing more than a boy toy. She WILL stay in control.

reply to post by dominicus


Dear dominicus.

Take this from an old man who has seen just about the lot.

Do not date,

Do not bother talking to them,

The only free sex is the type you pay for then out side sorting the price still do not bother talking to them, not even to ask there name.

You will be loads richer and happier.

reply to post by magickmaster

Most guys who have girlfriends...have lives. Just sayin'

All people have lives, weather they measure up to your perceived standards of defining the term is irrelevant.

reply to post by acmpnsfal


Yeah, because encouring 20 year olds to have a SURGERY with risks and possible side effects makes sense. ATS, getting better by the day...

Originally posted by ErtaiNaGia
reply to post by magickmaster

 

Most guys who have girlfriends...have lives. Just sayin'

All people have lives, weather they measure up to your perceived standards of defining the term is irrelevant.

hahaha...

Is your ego bruised somehow?

I never referred to anyone in particular. I simply stated, that when you have something going on, you have people's attention, and followers, and interested parties, and there is something to your daily activities that is worth being a part of.....

If I said something that bruised your ego, or hurt your feelings, please forgive me.
Maybe you should not read too deeply into other people's writing if you cannot refrain from inserting your own ego into the mix.

Just sayin'...



hehehe...

and BTW, what does the "Weather" have to do with people's lives, as per our conversation?

reply to post by magickmaster

hahaha...

Is your ego bruised somehow?

Ah... 4chan, eh?

Were you meaning to ask me if I was "Mad"?

No... my jimmies remain unrustled... however, I thought you could be assisted in your apparent inability to comprehend the vocabulary that you are throwing around here, and the confusion you must be having when you attempt to view reality through a bias so stained with misinformation and lies.

You are measuring the worth of a human life, by weather or not it is a woman, or, by weather or not it is having sex with a woman.

This is an erroneous perspective, and thus, I interjected.

and there is something to your daily activities that is worth being a part of.....

Worth to whom? You?

You judge peoples value as human beings, around weather or not you would want to hang around with them?

If I said something that bruised your ego, or hurt your feelings, please forgive me.

Yes, you are speaking words that you do not understand, and that has raised in me the desire to remedy the situation.....

The situation being, of course, your ignorance.

Maybe you should not read too deeply into other people's writing if you cannot refrain from inserting your own ego into the mix.

Maybe you should not imply that ones value as a human being is dependant solely upon your own personal judgement.

and BTW, what does the "Weather" have to do with people's lives, as per our conversation?

Oh, I'm sorry.... were you unable to comprehend what I wrote?

A lot of guys feel they are entitled to a good looking woman even if they are fat themselves, have no car, refuse to work, have 2 baby mommas, live with their parents etc. When a girl disses them they tend to whine about how girls are stuck up and only care about materialistic things. It's just like no...females just do not want bum ass dudes.

reply to post by dominicus


The younger pretty ladies are like that...but after a couple failed relationships, reality sets in & they're in for a rude awakening.

Then they'll learn to quietly settle for what's in front of them

But if you want the pretty young things, you gotta play along for a while

If you fellows you are the intellectual types, who are devoted ATS followers, conspiracy nuts, history buffs, monetary students, liberty lovers, gun owners, and freedom fighters want to find a women of your equal.....

here is a clue

find a woman who is not entirely feminine, with lots of masculine qualities,

or

don't spend your time talking to her about politics if she's a "pretty girl"!

Men are intellectuals and analytical, and women are emotional and heart based, so if you want to get into their pants, get into their world, and who they are, and quite trying to show them who you are instead.

If you want to find a true companion or "equal", then seek out a girl who is rugged in her demeanor or her attitude, and not "delicate" or high maintenance.

What I think many guys fail to do is to realize that women are actually wired differently, and many men do not want to meet them half way. Somehow they think women will come to the table, feed them, then sit down to eat with them, and then sleep with them, and the man, somehow, deserves this by nature of his being or something.
Maybe it's the ego that comes with the the thing that sticks out from between the legs, but they assume that something is owed to them, until they have an orgasm.

And then they think, on top of that, that a highly attractive, very feminine women, will be somehow drawn to their male world or politics and profits.

A woman of that kind, simply has to look good and her whole life is paid for, and you guys think that your knowledge of the unknown will somehow impress her.

lol

If she has soul, she doesn't need money, or great looks, or very much, but she does need your interest in her world, and her. If you know yourself and what your looking for, you'll find it much faster.