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Originally posted by TheRedneck
reply to post by StalkerSolent
Good luck. You are going to need it.
I proposed something very similar a few years back: striking the word "marriage" from all legal wordings and making everyone under the law a "civil union" (or whatever you want to call it). Anyone could then be married based solely on whether their religion said they were married, but marriage would carry no other benefits. All secular benefits would be for civil unions.
I was handed my hindquarters on a platter in that thread.
Ergo, I realized that the complaint of the loudest and most adamant has nothing to do with equality, but has to do with a word. So I started thinking what the societal results of redefining that word would be if carried to certain points, and I realized what the true agenda is: revenge. The sad part is that I believe a great many do want equality, but they are drowned out by those who hate, yet hide behind their constant accusations of others.
TheRedneck
Originally posted by LadyGreenEyes
Originally posted by jimmyx
maybe bible-thumpin', scripture-quotin',confedrate flag-wavin' christians would understand, if their own kids were killed, maimed, brutalized, bullied, shunned, made fun of, just for being christian...
maybe being an elite, just means you have critical-thinking skills combined with a degree of tolerance.
Look up a group called Voice of the Martyrs. Christians are attacked and killed, around the world, on a regular basis, because they are Christian. It happens in the US, too, just not (so far) to as deadly a degree. Workplace sanctions, school children penalized, lawsuits - that's all condoned by anti-freedom, Christian-hating people.
Originally posted by natters
They want to be able to exercise their freedom of speech, but the only freedom of speech they want for others is the freedom to accept their lifestyle.
This is the issue EXACTLY!! nothing to do with equal rights - but the expectation that everyone should agree with their choice. Absolutely ludacris.
Originally posted by kaylaluv
WRONG. No one is against free speech. But everyone has a right to speak up if they don't like what someone else is saying.
The difference between what the Oreo company said and what the Chick Fil A Ceo said is like this analogy:
Company A says, "We fully accept black people as equal citizens. We believe blacks should have the rights to do anything that whites can do." Now, the anti-blacks don't like that, so they get upset, they want to boycott Company A, etc. The blacks get upset at these anti-blacks for being against them. Is it so hard to understand why the blacks would feel that way?
Now, let's say Company B says, "We don't have a problem with black people, but we don't think they should have all the same rights as whites, because our God tells us that black people are inferior to whites." The anti-blacks are cheering for Company B, so, of course the blacks are not going to be happy about that, right? Is it so hard to understand why?
Originally posted by TXRabbit
Interesting that you mention hypocrisy....
In your opinion. However, claiming it isn't accurate, while also claiming it promotes this or that, is a bit less than honest, isn't it? Either you accept it, or you don't.
One's perception of the legitimacy of polygamy in the bible depends on how words are interpreted.
The issue of polygamy in the Bible is ONLY in the OT, and only in reference to what was standard practice of the times, same as slavery was.
At no point does the Bible ever say these things are right; it simply gives some standards of behavior for what was the cultural norm of the day. The NT makes it clear that polygamy isn't as God intended. For that matter, so does Genesis. God, after all, made the first marriage between Adam and Eve.
Originally posted by AM47240
reply to post by Eurisko2012
Wow, you just took hypocrisy to a whole new level! You had some help though. I worked in the customer service industry for a long time, and I've encountered plenty of customers who screamed, cussed at, and threatened me because they didn't like the terms of the sale, etc. This guy wasn't anything like that, and even complimented this girl several times during the video. There were a couple of moments where he became a bit too passionate and it came across as though he was holding her responsible, but how is that any different from what customers do every day? If you work in customer service, you are a representative of that company. So if a customer has an issue with the company, they take it up with you. Like I said, he seemed a little bit rude in a couple of the things he said, but he was nothing at all like a lot of angry customers.
So all of the people who are mad that people want to boycott Chik-Fil-A need to check themselves, here. You claim that boycotting infringes upon Dan Cathy's freedom of speech (which isn't even the issue for most of us, but you claim relentlessly that it is), but then you aren't outraged that this guy expresses his own freedom of speech and loses his job over it? Not only that, but to have his family threatened? This is just a bunch of B.S.
I agree that he should apologize if he was rude to that girl, but that should be the end of it. It's not like this girl hasn't heard much worse coming from someone who's sandwich wasn't made correctly.
Listen to the Adam Smith apology. He threw an immature hissy fit because of all
the people there to support Chick-fil-A during Chick-fil-A Appreciation Day.
He was also fired from the University of Arizona - Tucson as an adjunct lecturer.
Originally posted by natters
Originally posted by kaylaluv
WRONG. No one is against free speech. But everyone has a right to speak up if they don't like what someone else is saying.
The difference between what the Oreo company said and what the Chick Fil A Ceo said is like this analogy:
Company A says, "We fully accept black people as equal citizens. We believe blacks should have the rights to do anything that whites can do." Now, the anti-blacks don't like that, so they get upset, they want to boycott Company A, etc. The blacks get upset at these anti-blacks for being against them. Is it so hard to understand why the blacks would feel that way?
Now, let's say Company B says, "We don't have a problem with black people, but we don't think they should have all the same rights as whites, because our God tells us that black people are inferior to whites." The anti-blacks are cheering for Company B, so, of course the blacks are not going to be happy about that, right? Is it so hard to understand why?
This is a misunderstanding of what Chick-Fil-A's owner said and it's not at all able to be made into an analogy about race. The better understanding would be (for company B): "We dont have a problem with homosexuals but marriage as I believe it is designed for a man and a woman."
There was nothing about homosexuals being inferior LOL! thats a stretch. Your whole analogy is ridiculous. try again. He didnt' say anything derogatory about homosexuals at all, except that he felt that marriage should be celebrated in the traditional sense. The offense was taken from that comment, not given.
Originally posted by Bluedream54
Just have a quick question please excuse my ignorance on the subject, but why do lbgt people want to get married in the first place? Isn't marriage religious in nature? Holy matrimony? Doesn't a priest or rabbi or other holy figure declare you man and wife? Am I missing something here?
Originally posted by kyviecaldges
reply to post by Eurisko2012
Listen to the Adam Smith apology. He threw an immature hissy fit because of all
the people there to support Chick-fil-A during Chick-fil-A Appreciation Day.
He was also fired from the University of Arizona - Tucson as an adjunct lecturer.
While also wanting it to be crystal clear that he was NOT gay.
I always find it entertaining when someone makes the argument that they are not gay by supporting gay marriage...
while NOT being accused of being gay.
It's a backhanded slap support and a serious freudian slip, IMHO.
One company was being INclusive regarding gays - the other company was being EXclusive regarding gays. Is it hard to understand why some gays would be unhappy about being EXcluded? Wouldn't you be unhappy if others were telling you they felt YOU should be excluded from getting a marriage license?
Originally posted by Gridrebel
Just watched his "apology" video. That alone is grounds for termination. I wonder how he acheived his position in the first place!