To women: Do you understand we don't understand?

reply to post by etherical waterwave


I think I get what your saying but you must realize that this is all man's fault. We have let all of this happen. From Adam to modern man we have failed to play our role. If men would stop being afraid to be men, women would be much easier to understand. I'm sure only a few women will understand this and even less men. Good luck to all of us.

The OP is famous for his misogynistic rantings, although it sounds to me from this latest one he seems to be catching on that there are decent women out there as well as the bad ones, just like there are good men and bad men. Or maybe I am just hoping. I do know compared to previous posts, I feel a little softer towards the OP, where as before he incited ever anger or annoyance. I this this is the fist time I have actually hoped he could find someone he could connect with instead of feeling pity for whatever woman drove him to post.

reply to post by etherical waterwave


I dare venture into an extremely stormy sea, replying to your tsunami waves in your OP.

Brother, (me - I'm a sister) you truly sound like Rodger Waters lives in your soul and deep pain has engulfed you like Pink Floyed on the darkest side of your moon.

Some female human being(s) is/are dragging you down down into the rabbit hole, but me thinx, sweetheart, that you are judging an entire section of this world under the umbrella of the one that makes you mad with her torture to your soul. To your heart of hearts.

It sounds like she pushes you away and pulls you closer ("..I pushed her to the limit to see if she would break....- Roger Waters) where in your case the roles are reversed.

All woman cannot be judged by the measure of insanity this one is steering you towards.
Man, there are some truly lovely souls, uncomplicated beings, UNDERSTANDING sane ones, living in the body of some woman. You might be able to understand these.

I am so sorry that yours sounds like she seriously needs help, and that her depression is dragging you down to that place where humans were before.."we learnt to talk". You are looking far to deep down the Rabbit hole and analyzing to much. This woman you talk about, does not understand herself or her own behaviour, HOW IS IT THAT YOU THINK YOU SHOULD?

HEY! YOU DON'T HAVE TO TAKE IT!

Love and light to you, brother!

ps: mind bending drugs can cause the human mind to go into very deep oppression, depression, suppression and surrealism. You should not touch these in your state of mind. While I am saying this I throw in a big hug in case I offend you, so that you know I say it purely as a statement, not a judment.
Me, I dont touch drugs or alchol, but was hooked about 20 years ago, and the way you write, is the way I percieved my pain and lived my black life that was undending night.

Now, I fly free!

What is this, I don't even...?
Huh?

Turns out I don't know everything about women...

I was cuddling with my girlfriend (or better half as she likes to be called) on the couch the other week, when she did that typical girl thing and asked me what I was thinking.. So I told her.. "How cool it would be if we had a pet Monkey". And she totally flipped out and sulked the rest of the evening.

I never knew women hated monkeys.


Peace

Rock Ape

reply to post by Rock Ape


Trust me not all women hate monkeys


Anyway what the hell is this thread about, we don't care about wether you to understand us or not. We don't go around all day moping thinking "oh if only men could understand us" there is bigger fish etc.

Think someones got a chip on their shoulder, a really confusing incoherent chip.

reply to post by etherical waterwave


Well that was interesting.

I like it. And most of all, I like :

You stay there, cause you think you could get a step ahead, while you fall back. Don't try to be something. Try to be. Try to be what you are. You think you are something. You're weird. What is not yourself is wrong.

"What is not yourself is wrong."

Makes sense to me.

reply to post by Realm52

women aren't the only ones playing mind games, and well, maybe we are "thinking too much" because we're trying to stay on top of the mind games that are being played on us!!!

after all most women learned the skill from the best....MEN!!!

another "drag the women through the mud" thread...how nice!!!

Why do we need to try so hard to understand each other? Why can't we just "be" together? Just being together will eventually lead to understanding. Right?

I am a woman- but often I see that problems in relationships stem from the woman trying to change the man. True.

Me, I just let my boyfriend be whoever the hell he wants to be. And he doesn't have to always understand me. I would hate it if he did. I like my privacy and not always being an open book. It keeps me sane and makes me feel like everyone isn't always in my business. Besides, it keeps things interesting.

As long as I understand myself, it's all good.

God, if you don't understand yourself- how do you expect someone else to?

reply to post by Tripple_Helix


and.....men try to change their girlfriends/wives also....
so well, maybe a better way to put it is people try to change people into what they believe they should be, and well...in the end, if the other person responds, ends up losing both the person that they liked, but thought could be better, along with the person that never was!!!

reply to post by dawnstar


Agreed.

You are right, but in most cases that I have witnessed- it has been the female trying to change the male. I guess us girls just want men to be as perfect as we are?

Originally posted by Rock Ape
Turns out I don't know everything about women...

I was cuddling with my girlfriend (or better half as she likes to be called) on the couch the other week, when she did that typical girl thing and asked me what I was thinking.. So I told her.. "How cool it would be if we had a pet Monkey". And she totally flipped out and sulked the rest of the evening.

I never knew women hated monkeys.


Peace

Rock Ape

Oh, man.

The ladies love me. Maybe it's the fez, maybe it's my wee little hands.

Maybe it's that thing I can do with my tail.

Originally posted by etherical waterwave
Or you didn't exactly succeed in making yourself clear to me. Do you realy know better? Are you the change? I do not understand. Maybe you're just a psychosis? Can you handle truth? Truth resonates like ' that which can be handled'. It's impossible to not being able to handle truth.

John 19:27

Behold our mother.

Alma Sophia

There. Simple. What's to understand?

I'm afraid of the posts that spread hurt. I promised myself not to reread my opening post, but what I see of those that copied some of it, it tends to be not too negative. I just let myself write everything I thought. There are some people replying where I feel very good with. I want to thank these people and I take them into my heart. By all means I didn't want to be hurt any women but I wanted to provoke communication. I don't know if what I wrote came out of my heart or was what was just stuck in my head. When will everything be said? (rethorical?)

I feel disconnected from the world. The world hasn't been honest with me. Years I have been suffering isolation. I've done a lot to come across but a invitation never happened. Even my family.. there seems to be no love around for me. I don't want just kind words, I want hearts! So I can be having good quality time with people.

Please bring me the strenght and encouragment.

I don't want to rant (sorry but I don't know what the word means. ) I suppose it's all about being negative and dragging people down the dirt. Why should I want to do that to you. We have to be honest!

I somehow don't know what I have become. Funny about the Unity_99 saying it is a spell. I don't know what can come forth of it. My goal is understanding. There are people who wrote nice things. Thank you!

You don't know how much fun I had with the pics GaladOWTT!!

I don't know if everbody will understand, but I don't want to reach that point where I don't understand. I guess I'll be lost then. Lost in a big bad world. I promote people knowing from themselves what's good and what not. Forgiveness as solution!! A complete new start for the world.

I feel like I've become useless. A reminder,.. and this is a good one. It comes out of the bible: (freely translated otu of dutch) Rescue comes when the need is at its highest! I believe!

Originally posted by aeriess
What in the world are you babbling on about?

He is babbling about his resentment of a biological drive that he has difficulty with.

To summarize:

"Women have too much power over me; I do not understand it, nor do I understand how to control it. This frightens me. Therefor, I will imbue unto that which frightens me all of the ills of the world, and so be justified in my hatred of them, which allows me to avoid facing the shame I feel at my own lack of control."

reply to post by etherical waterwave


Being in isolation, being lonely, having no one sounds terrifying. But these are just words, words that make us scared, unsafe in ' a big sacary world'.
We have been lied to, there is no 'big scary world'. All there is, is what is happening right now in your presence.
Within the presence that you are things including thought are seen. It is all happening in this little now.
It is the thoughts that arise that terrify us, thought of lack, thoughts of aloneness, thoughts about not coping, they go on and on. The thoughts are only thoughts, just look right at them when they arise and know that you are the one looking at them. The one that sees the thoughts is happy and peaceful, keep the attention on that one.
Don't try to 'be' anything because you are 'Being' already.
Just enjoy being.

reply to post by etherical waterwave


Sounds like a simple solution is all you need if you believe. This requires you to do just a few things. First pray for God's will. Second have patience and continue to believe, God will bring you a partner. Now here is the most important thing. Understand what the biblical role of a man is and make sure you fill that. Many women will tell you they don't want that type of man. But trust me 99% of all women want a leader, provider, lover, and someone that makes them feel like the most important person in the world. If they say they don't it's likely they have never met a man like this. Trust me you will spend more time with a wife than anyone else so they truly are the most important person in your world. This is the beginning of what God asks out of a husband.

Women are consumed by "things" and wealth (not all, but for the most part). Soon...no more worries cause you cant shop when the malls are all closed

If it's a woman you want i wouldn't bother. Stop wanting and you will never want for anything again. It is wanting that is the cause of all suffering. God gave you all this and it is not enough. Everything is provided. This can not be denied because you are here.
You are being.

reply to post by etherical waterwave


Just turn all the negative that come in, around. Even if you didn't cast a conscious spell, I'm always alert to negativity. So much of it is on agenda, ie. some military type assignments, like Steven Greer coined, the black ops are all Weird Science and Frikkin Magic. I'm reclusive, but with a big family, and have inner resources that either come up to pick me up when things are too negative and depression starts to hit, or inner seeking starts to do this.

With all the religious instructions or the words from great philosophers even, the teachers we've had, (most of whom have gotten hijacked by the controllers and their agendas) it all comes down to a simple thing, treat others as you wish to be treated, or strive to be the hands of peace and unconditional love

But its also, all about frequency. Negative ones are low, and give lower frequency beings behind the scenes more access in our lives and the world. Higher ones are the journey we take to lift off out of this world, or plane, to return home. And its not easy, its like struggling upstream, or like finding the narrow gate. But I want all to find it. We're all family.

Its a inner journey, prayers, contemplation, pouring out our heart to Goodness above if needed. Kindness and helping others raises frequency.

Turning all negative thoughts around. I was thinking of my prayer/affirmations that I always give to the Highest Love and Goodness and realized they should be said, without even saying the negative part. In other words " I am peace in a world that has turned family against one another" would not be as good as saying. " I am peaceful always!" And seeing peace around you even if its actings, "as if" and then giving gratitude to Love above for this inner reality, preferring to see anything less as illusion.

So turn everything negative into positive, see the world you wish to live in and see the good in people you suspect is buried way done beneath it all.

Love, Light, Peace, Happiness.