How to get over my ex-girlfriend, anyone have personal stories or experience that can help?

Originally posted by redbarron626
Do something creative with your angst.

Paint
Sculpt
Make Music
Draw
Write it all out

Just think of the extra time you will have now to read all the interesting/crappy threads on ATS!

It WILL get easier over time and you WILL get on with life and it WILL be better than what you are going through now.

Have a Safe and Happy 4th my friend. If you are really bummed out, you can come over tomorrow and BBQ and swim in the pool. I have frozen margaritas.....

haha thanks for the offer friend, hope you have a sick fourth of july as well!

reply to post by Lysergic


Thanks a lot Lysergic, you're definitely right. I just gotta start hanging out with my friends again

Originally posted by Night Star
Either you will find love again, or love will find you. Sometimes when you least expect it, someone comes into your life and will make you happy.

Everyone always tells me that lol. I hear ya, I'll take your advice on this Night Star

I broke up from a 6 year relationship a while ago.

It really motivated me to hit the gym hard, start working at a bar and studying for bigger and better things. Sure I met women here and there and had some fun, but for some funny reason I got back with my ex and now its been another 3 years

reply to post by Unvarnished


let her go completely...every trace...change your ph number so you dont sit around waiting for her to call...if she left anything,burn it...have a beer while the fire burns...stay away from places she might be...no run-into-her deals....then go get laid...seriously....whatever it takes...get a hummer and let her go...

reply to post by nahsik


Haha I hear ya buddy, that's awesome, I guess in my situation she told me didn't love me anymore and said there was no more passion in the relationship, pretty much she said that I was making all of the effort and she did not put any effort into it.

Oh well, life has its ways.