Need help tracing someone in UK

Originally posted by KingAMARU
reply to post by davesmart

 

I forgot to mention that she also set up a bank account in her own name because I found the letter from the bank, so the day after I found the messages I went to the bank set up an account and moved half the money......she was not expecting that !!
She has since moved the other half from joint account into her own, its been nearly a week and only today has she shown any emotion or guilt....she says she's sorry for writing the messages but thats all they were and never meant to hurt me, but my gut is telling me that something more than messages went on.
I told her last night that I want a divorce.

bro you know in your heart whats shes up2 shes using you..you just need advice of others to make 100 percent sure your doing the right thing...heres how you know
1 your suspicious
2 shes doing things out of the ordinary
3 she hides her fone from you
4 she lies about txts and calls
5 she goes out more than normal
6 theres no loving, no intimacy at all

i could say more, but bro you know, and you know what you have to do, i understand you need advice and i
think you want us to tell you what to do..
my opinion is cut of all ties now b4 your bled dry bro...dave

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Dave, 6 out of 6 pal.

Hope you dont mind but im putting u on friend list, thanks.

Originally posted by KingAMARU
reply to post by DeadpoolPete

 

this southern comfort is quite comforting

nope, the drink won't help, it will make things so much worse

you have davesmart so you don't need that #, the man has taken time to hit you with the facts so put down the drink and listen to him, cause if i'd have had his insights at the time, many many terrible things would not have happened

trust in dave and you will get through this

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Thanks for taking the time to reply pete, I get what your saying and it make sense, at least I get my comfy bed back for the weekend..... anyway guys thanks very much for your replies. off to bed now got to be up in 5 hours for a fun day tying steel re-bar.

I'll check back in tomoro night.

Ok you wanted it ill give you my analysis as a psychologist 5 (yrs) Sociologist (2yrs)

Excuse my ealier remake of "give the post man a £5'er" this remake was inlight of how crooked out post service is and if you ask a post man an honest question who lives at the address they will usualy turn a blind eye and will tell you any thing you need to know.

Your craving attention, Im not saying you are deliberty telling us about your life problems in order to prevoke an emotional reaction on your part. But telling people on a forum you are 'drinking' while depressed and putting it in the context that its ok leads me to that conclusion.

You are drinking not because you feel anything towards the end of the relationship but instead you are trying to pull out as much emotion as you can to try and shed a tear to feel sorry about your self.

You havent given me much to go on with your personal life to diduce how you and the wife interact. If you and your wife rarly interacted and it seemed more like a friendship with no sex and seperate lives then this reinforces my pervious view pint.

If your a big enough man to post your life issues on the forums, then in my eyes your big enough to have this posted up and take it on the chin. Its not ment to stir the 'pot' or to make an enemy, it is what it is, its a wake up call to stand up dust your self off and carry on.

Every one at some stage in thier life gets on the self pity train and gets off it again. If your wife is having an affair get evidence so she cant leave your a** with half.

Peace Bro and if you need anything else pm me

~Michael

Originally posted by DeadpoolPete

Originally posted by KingAMARU
reply to post by DeadpoolPete

 

this southern comfort is quite comforting

nope, the drink won't help, it will make things so much worse

you have davesmart so you don't need that #, the man has taken time to hit you with the facts so put down the drink and listen to him, cause if i'd have had his insights at the time, many many terrible things would not have happened

trust in dave and you will get through this

glad to help DeadpoolPete, but dont worry im no more a dozen short than you are, no need to hail me lol

sorry just my dry humour



your right the alcohol doesnt work...well it numbs the feelings for a while and thats wen you wake up wondering
why your hand is swollen and the furniture is broken....

Originally posted by michaelmcclen
Ok you wanted it ill give you my analysis as a psychologist 5 (yrs) Sociologist (2yrs)

Excuse my ealier remake of "give the post man a £5'er" this remake was inlight of how crooked out post service is and if you ask a post man an honest question who lives at the address they will usualy turn a blind eye and will tell you any thing you need to know.

Your craving attention, Im not saying you are deliberty telling us about your life problems in order to prevoke an emotional reaction on your part. But telling people on a forum you are 'drinking' while depressed and putting it in the context that its ok leads me to that conclusion.

You are drinking not because you feel anything towards the end of the relationship but instead you are trying to pull out as much emotion as you can to try and shed a tear to feel sorry about your self.

You havent given me much to go on with your personal life to diduce how you and the wife interact. If you and your wife rarly interacted and it seemed more like a friendship with no sex and seperate lives then this reinforces my pervious view pint.

If your a big enough man to post your life issues on the forums, then in my eyes your big enough to have this posted up and take it on the chin. Its not ment to stir the 'pot' or to make an enemy, it is what it is, its a wake up call to stand up dust your self off and carry on.

Every one at some stage in thier life gets on the self pity train and gets off it again. If your wife is having an affair get evidence so she cant leave your a** with half.

Peace Bro and if you need anything else pm me

~Michael

I appreciate you giving your opinion, I disagree about craving attention though, I have spent many days now searching and tearing my hair out as to why I couldnt put a name to an address.....anyway Its been confirmed now, I went there about 2 hours ago and found his house, he wouldnt open the door and hid,(i could see him moving around).....so yet another lie, and just to confirm I have lived with her for ten years married for 3, she's always been very insecure, jealous and controlling which is why at 31 I have a full head of grey hair. Looks like its time to start again, thanks again for replying.